Temperament Compatibility

Temperament compatibility is an important part of any relationship. For a couple to exist for a long time, it must be suitable for each other in terms of outlook on life, habits and temperament. Interpersonal relationships of choleric with other types. Choleric people are people who are too emotionally reacting to situations and often commit rash actions. Such actions are connected with the fact that in these individuals over excitement always dominates excitement.

Consider some of the features inherent in the psychotype.

• Excessive temper, restraint, impatience and harshness in behavior.
• In most cases, choleric people are too active, prone to dominance and self-confidence.
• Such people try to protect their rights, are constantly looking for justice and can promote their opinions. Cholerices are easily able to raise their voice, break into a scream.
• Temperament is distinguished by decisiveness in actions, recklessness can be noticed in actions.

• Choleric needs constant communication, as he must express himself.
• Often such people persistently insist on their point of view, and are not always able to adequately assess the situation.
• In most cases, male choleric are good lovers. Women also attract the opposite sex with their activity. In family life, they are characterized by explosions in character, aggression and passion.
• The team behaves inattentively and it is difficult for him to sit in one place. For this reason, monotonous work does not suit him.

• People with choleric temperament relate to loving relationships with pragmatism and focus.When meeting with a potential partner, they begin to study him in order to determine how much he will suit them for a relationship.
• The priority for them is people who have the ability to listen to their interlocutor, as well as individuals who are able to manage conflicts. Choleric does not need quantity, but quality. They rarely fall in love, so for life they have several serious relationships.
• If the partner is not interested in the choleric, he can ignore him or behave impatiently towards him. Due to determination, he is able to abruptly end the relationship.
• Along with this, the choleric believes that if the chosen partner is worthy of time and moral costs, you can completely concentrate on it. In this case, a person with a choleric temperament becomes a romantic, fulfills the wishes of his half.

As for love, here it is necessary to highlight several requirements of the psychotype.

• Service. Such individuals value partners who are not prone to laziness and love to work. To show them care, you can prepare dinner, be near when necessary, and look after them.
• Respect and devotion. The choleric will demand everything from his partner, even if he cannot give it to him. To be with such a person, he should obey and not try to explain himself.
• Physical proximity. These people are characterized by a high level of libido, so this issue is vital for them.

The relationship of choleric people with other temperaments is as follows.

Two choleric can create a union that is full of passion and emotion. Relations will be accompanied by a lot of positive emotions, quarrels, scandals and tears. Mutual assistance will be minimal, since choleric people like to do everything on their own. Constant attempts to take leadership lead to large-scale scandals.

Choleric and sanguine are well suited to each other. This is due to the fact that the breakdown nature of the choleric temperament does not have enough strength for the work to be brought to the final stage. A sanguine will help him in this, who is able to realize everything that his partner has planned in the shortest possible time. Also, such people can well exist together at the expense of common interests and deeds.

Choleric with melancholic is an incomparable union. In most cases, representatives of the first temperament are short-tempered, straightforward and impatient. Such a psychology scares the melancholy, and he tries to avoid such people. If the couple tries to converge, there will be constant quarrels in it, where the quick-tempered choleric will be the winner. In such a marriage, the melancholic will be a victim who always agrees with her partner in everything. A melancholic is lucky if he comes across an unforgettable choleric. Only in this case, a love relationship can exist. Also, an alliance can be long-lasting if a partner with a choleric temperament tries to lower his straightforwardness with exactingness and defends the melancholic.

Choleric and phlegmatic is an ideal union if the phlegmatic is responsible for the routine and responsibility in the relationship. Here the choleric will act as a generator of ideas, and the phlegmatic will be able to bring them to life.

Phlegmatic people will seem to many boring, but they also have some interesting features, consider them below.

• Calmness, balance of the nervous system.
• It is difficult to bring such a person to emotions.
• Disability.They are characterized by easy tolerance of difficult and nervous situations. Such people can rarely get angry from failure.
• Slow action, untimely response to unexpected situations.
• Phlegmatic people like to change their lives, so they often experiment with social circle, work and habits. However, it is difficult for them to get used to the new environment.

• Phlegmatic slowness can be annoying, but with this trait after a while it is possible to come to terms.
• While other people are subjected to passion and emotions, phlegmatic people adhere to earthliness and pragmatism. It is important for them that the chosen man or woman should be primarily assistants. They value predictability and devotion.
• Phlegmatic tries to avoid a showdown in a relationship, so he often chooses a partner with a similar temperament. They don’t start relationships impulsively, since they have a dependence on the opinions of acquaintances and relatives.

In love, people with such a temperament differ in the following requirements.

• Spending time with family. Phlegmatic people need to be given full attention on the phone and TV. During communication, eye contact should be maintained.
• Moral support. Phlegmatic people need to constantly say how smart, handsome and attractive he is.
• Touch Sex for people with such a temperament is not the basis in a relationship. Simple touches are important to them, and even tickling.

Psychologically, the phlegmatic will be compatible with a soulmate who has a similar type of temperament. In such a union there will be a calm atmosphere and real mutual understanding. However, it may happen that one of the partners gets tired of passivity and carelessness. Phlegmatic will be good with a melancholy. Phlegmatic individuals patiently relate to the constant depression of the melancholic, and they can act as a support for their soul mate. Melancholy people will bring freshness to the habitual life of a phlegmatic at the expense of their rich inner world.

The interpersonal relationship between a phlegmatic and choleric is a combination of opposites that can become a harmonious pair. The family phlegmatic will need to become a "lightning rod." Only he is able to cope with the restless choleric. The marriage will be strong as long as the phlegmatic has patience. However, one should always remember that temperaments are completely different, and it will be difficult for such people to understand and communicate with each other.

Melancholy people are people who are characterized by indecision, constant fluctuations. Let us dwell on the characterization of personality.

• Hypersensitivity, which often causes emotional fatigue.
• Frequent mood swings. However, this is carefully hidden, and people are not shown emotions.
• Melancholic is easy to hurt. He is constantly worried and insecure. These people often feel inferior and self-contained.
• People with a melancholy disposition will not work in which they have to deal with stressful situations. They are undesirable to communicate with strangers, as this can reduce productivity.
• People melancholy in love are the most sensual. Future partners are looking for commonality in intellectual and emotional contact and are very upset if they are repelled.

• They cannot relate to relationships as easily as a sanguine person. When meeting, they are aimed at a long-term relationship with further marriage. In their union, the melancholy is completely surrendered to the partner, and sometimes they are so mentally tired that they can no longer create a relationship.
• When a person with a melancholy type of temperament finds his love, he tries to maintain a trusting relationship, avoids conflict situations and is ready to give in. All situations that occur in the family, they are analyzed and weighed.
• Since melancholy people have a rich imagination, they often idealize their soul mate. But over time, it may become clear to them that the person is not perfect, and the couple breaks up.

If you choose such a partner, it is worth considering several of his wishes in love.

• Pleasant words. These people need affection and touch, a gentle and caring attitude.
• Confirmation of words. Despite his credulity, the melancholic requires that he is constantly told that he is loved.
• Calm You can’t raise your voice on such people.
• Touch Of great importance are touch and kisses.

A melancholic will feel good with the following temperaments.

• With phlegmatic. Melancholy personalities are characterized by timidity, shyness and suspiciousness. Therefore, they will be well next to a calm and reliable phlegmatic. Next to the melancholy woman, any man will feel like a master, she will constantly admire her husband.
• With sanguine. Melancholic will be pleased to be near him. His partner also does not mind to send a half in the right direction. This couple can become harmonious and exist without unnecessary quarrels.

Sanguine people are personalities who love to be everywhere, they love communication and do not imagine their life dull and gray. Let us dwell on the basic features of the psychotype described by psychologists.

• Activity and cheerfulness, along with balanced nerves.
• The reaction is quick, but many actions can be accompanied by rashness.
• Such personalities easily cope with new acquaintances and quickly become “their own” in the team.
• Sanguine likes to be in the center of events, so he has a large number of acquaintances and friends.
• Due to the fact that prolonged anger is not typical of this type of temperament, it will simply be in a relationship with him.

• Sanguine people are looking for a partner with whom to share their interests. He will appreciate the soul mate with whom you can talk about everything. Such personalities like to date, surprise their partner. Since the sanguine person strives for diversity, he can boast of rich experience in love relationships, is able to adapt to various situations.
• They are distinguished by friendliness, do not seek control over a partner. For this reason, next to them is easy and comfortable. Also, this temperament is generous - regular gifts will accompany the entire period of the relationship.

In love, sanguine people are distinguished by the following features.

• Craving for touch. They need to hold their partner's hands, hug.
• Attention. Such people need to listen with a smile and constantly show what is interesting with them.
• Tasty food. When communicating with them, you need to remember that sanguine is important gastronomic pleasure.

The union of the two sanguine people can be a good example to follow, since these people tend to understand their soul mate. Often, such unions are created on the basis of the same interests and identical views on certain things. Both partners have activity, intelligence, the ability to adapt to the mood of the second half, along with the operational search for a hobby to their liking.

Partners will solve all problems together, and no one can become an obstacle in their relationship. This is a union that is strong due to the fact that both partners are very sympathetic to each other. However, sanguine people, characterized by activity and energy in love, in difficult life situations often prove to be unreliable. Only this factor can affect the fact that the pair breaks up.

Sanguine is a person who has a pronounced leadership. He will like the partner's choleric temperament with his ideas, emotionality and enthusiasm. Such an alliance will be fruitful and vibrant until the question of leadership arises. Eternal attempts to seize power do not allow the couple to exist normally. Sanguine will feel comfortable with the melancholy and will be able to guide him in the right direction. Such a union is distinguished by its strength and reliability, since these relations are almost always aimed at success.

Temperament compatibility is a necessary component of any relationship. Despite the fact that some temperaments are considered incompatible, you can always find exceptions in which one of the people gives way to his soul mate.

If there are different temperaments in the union, you can use the following tips to help you get along better.

• If a man has choleric in a pair, a woman should remember that he can be sharp, emotional, but quickly quick-witted. Such a temperament can say too much, but then she will definitely regret it. Therefore, psychologists recommend not to be offended by their soul mate and accept it as it is.
• The phlegmatic wife will be calm and slow. Such people are reasonable and they need to weigh the pros and cons before taking action. Do not rush your soul mate and scold her for being slow. The best option in behavior is praise. Psychologists advise the phlegmatic wife to praise her for her thoughtfulness and seriousness, because you can always rely on such a person.

• A melancholy woman is a sensitive and sentimental nature. If a couple has different temperaments with her husband, the partner should be patient and understanding towards their soul mate. A melancholic is easy to hurt, and he can easily shut himself up. Therefore, one should be restrained about his “attacks” and experiences.
• Paired with a sanguine one should not fight for leadership. Also, one cannot put pressure on him with serious intentions.

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