How to break up?

The problem of parting worries many people. Each of us, one way or another, was faced with the fact that the relationship ended forever. In this case, everyone wants the gap to be less painful for both sides. Let's figure out how to do it right.

Difficult questions sometimes arise in front of people. One of them: how to behave and what to do in order to part correctly. There are many answers and answers to this question, due to the fact that there are different cases. One parted because they could not get what they wanted from their partner. Others met a new love. In the third embodiment, this may be a divergence of views. Some of the people are faced with the case of parting is not the first time.

When you decided to break up with your other half, then try to make this process go smoothly and painlessly for both your partner and you. To do this, there are general techniques that you need to choose for your situation, improve and apply in practice. As soon as you begin to imagine a conversation with a person to whom you need to say something very unpleasant, then you immediately feel uneasy.

Believe me, when you are left alone with yourself, you will select the most eloquent words and be able to convey your judgments to the addressee. Subsequently, they can be learned by heart and said without much effort in a personal meeting or by phone.In another embodiment, your thoughts can be transmitted by letter through a courier or write a personal message on a social network.

Out of love - declare it immediately and irrevocably. So it will be much more honest and correct.

Then the question of parting will dissipate like fog. Do not hide from the problem. Some people (especially young boys and girls) begin to avoid their soul mate, so as not to give any explanation. This happens for a variety of reasons. Some are afraid of the reaction of the offended person, others hope that everything will form by itself.

In these circumstances, you only make yourself worse. Your conscience will torment you, and you will suffer greatly from this. Look the problem right in the eye and take a bold step. Explain everything to your former chosen one (tse), and everything will fall into place.

You met a new love. It often happens in life. There is nothing wrong with that. Tell about it directly to your former soulmate. From such news, a person will fall into a stupor, experience shock, but this is precisely the method that makes it clear that everything is over between you.

Without hope, love will soon die. Your ex-girlfriend will not be sorry for a long time and will find a new love for himself. When you decide to talk, do not forget to thank your past partner for what was between you. Let him be offended by you, but positive words will have a mitigating effect. Emotional people do not need to hide their emotionality in themselves. After the break, cry, let off steam, and you will immediately feel better on the soul.

It often happens that you need to part with a person whom you love very much. There are explanations for this. The most common and only option is when you meet with a married man or a married woman.

In this case, some part because of a purely ethical issue, others because they are tired of waiting for drastic steps from their partner, for example, such as a divorce from his wife or husband.

Events usually develop like this: at first you do not attach much importance to the fact that meetings with the person you love happen spontaneously and in haste. On holidays, you have to be alone or in a circle of unmarried friends or girlfriends. While your peers live in marriage and enjoy every day spent with your family.

Gradually, the pain intensifies as attachment sets in. You are waiting for meetings, and when they occur, you do not receive the emotional satisfaction you expect. Because in sexual relations, "you will not go far." The meetings between a man and a woman should be supported by some kind of spiritual connections and common interests. If they are not, then there comes an unconscious cooling on the part of the one who expects from his married partner some proposals for complete rapprochement and marriage.

Resentment for yourself will also be an impetus for the realization that everything in your life is not going as it should. Your married partner lives a full life. Children grow up in his family, and the spouse does not know anything about you and is therefore happy with everything (flax). And your watch is ticking, some need to have a baby. And how to do it if you are not married (not married). You just need to create a family and be confident in the future.

Therefore, your actions in this option are fully justified. In order for your former lover not to perceive rejection as a personal insult, try to explain to him the reasons why you need to disperse in different directions. Put the question in such a way that he (she) is himself (a) to blame for the fact that you made such a decision. You can no longer subject yourself to suffering and no longer want such a superficial relationship.

This must be done carefully, but persistently. May no persuasion from his (her) side be able to stop you from breaking this worthless connection.

And the partner is not a very decent person, since he allowed himself to use you for his own purposes and deceive his soul mate.

If you are not married, although you have lived a long time with your partner, then you need to think deeply about this situation, since it is unnatural. You need to start a normal family, where your legal guarantees will be present, and legitimate children will be born.

You, due to certain circumstances, were forced to live with a tyrant. He did not let you go and dictated his living conditions. You had nowhere to go and ask for help.

Remember that you should not tolerate humiliation on the part of a person unworthy of you, and there is always a way out, if you really want to. If you do not have close relatives and friends who are able to help you, then do not despair. There are special social centers where they provide assistance to all people in need, including women who find themselves in a difficult situation. Turning there, you will receive expert support from all sides.

If you have parents, sisters, brothers, loyal friends, then the process of adaptation after parting will be much easier and calmer.

But at this step you need to decide and overcome your fear. It’s impossible to tolerate bullying throughout your life. If such a relationship lasts a long time, then you will begin to psychosomatic phenomena. You will cease to perceive yourself as a person and you may become ill physically.

You are not bound by marriage, and this makes the task easier. In this case, just leave, and let your roommate not know the address where you are. Next, when you complete the first action, then proceed to the second - get all the memories of this negative experience out of your head and start living anew. You will definitely be lucky.

Another problem is living together with a sociopath. For information, this is a mentally unhealthy person who is unable to perceive social rules. Typically, such individuals live by their own laws and are skilled manipulators. Your roommate has inspired you that marriage is a relic, as it benefits him.

He uses you for his own purposes, without thinking about your state of mind. In this case, it is necessary to end such abnormal relationships as soon as possible. If it’s hard for you to make a decision, then make an effort on yourself. Understand that there is nothing good in such a connection.

Therefore, try to talk with a person and calmly explain the reason for your departure. The conversation should be arranged in a crowded place so that your former partner was not tempted to somehow harm you physically. However, do not go into details of the reasons why you have to make this decision. The sociopath is so arranged that he still will not accept and understand your arguments. After the conversation, try to make sure that you no longer meet each other.