The main feature of people with a hysterical personality type is self-centeredness. The main goal of such a person is to attract attention. To do this, he behaves defiantly, asks for boast or pity, he is characterized by constant nervous breakdowns, he pretends a lot. The hysteroid type feels satisfaction only when its goal is achieved and it is in the center of attention. For some period these feelings are enough for him, but over time this person again experiences dissatisfaction, turning out to be below the line of interest of others.
What is hysteria?
Many people confuse the concepts of “hysteroidism” and “demonstrativeness”, considering them synonyms. But it is not so. In psychology, sometimes, to simplify the terminology, “hystericality” is called “demonstrativeness”, although in general, the concept of demonstrativeness does not reveal the fullness of the meaning of hysteroidity.
For the hysterical type of personality, demonstrative behavior and the exit of all emotions are characteristicbut this is not the only feature. Such people not only show their emotions for show, but also have labile emotionality, that is, they are very mobile in their emotions. In this regard, they are characterized by a frequent change of mood.
If a person enjoys a certain event for a long time, then he does not belong to the presented type.
Hysteroid personalities make high demands on people around them, they constantly feel like to please everyone, and therefore are very afraid of mistakes.That is, these people will never undertake difficult tasks, since failure will be the subject of alienation of others in relation to the “hysteroid,” at least, he believes so.
Due to the fear of dislike, this person often fakes his sincere feelings.
Such a person is incapable of empathizing with a loved one, but in order to avoid an unflattering assessment in her direction, she pretends well and sympathizes.
At the same time, the “hysteroid” is quite open in its own feelings: if it is funny, then it laughs, if it is insulting, it will necessarily express this feeling through reproaches.
Even outwardly these people try to look so as to impress others.
In order not to become a "black sheep", but at the same time stand out in the crowd, "hysterics" put themselves in perfect shape.
They are elegant, clean from heels to the tips of the nails, their clothes have a non-standard cut and usually a very bright color. The face is distinguished by lively facial expressions, which allows you to win over the interlocutor and attract to your conversation. Often these people stand out on holidays - actively participate in competitions, can be leading. They are characterized by charm, charisma, extraordinary, for which they receive the love of the public so necessary for them.
Characteristic
People with a hysterical accentuation, that is, the most pronounced character trait, always easily manage to find a common language with others. They are characterized by artistic behaviors, as well as a hysterical reaction. This concept is the following model of behavior: a person in a public place falls into hysteria, sometimes shows aggression, laments, complains, while the reason is not important.
Once he is alone, his reaction to the same situation will be much less pronounced.
Men
Men with this type of character love to play in public. They are characterized by excessive emotionality, interest in fashion trends, an eccentric style. It is impossible to call the male representatives with a hysteroid accentuation responsible, because this business may end in failure, which means that instead of praising this man, he will receive reproaches. Because of his open emotions, this young man himself may suffer, as he understands that, on the whole, the male is not characterized by an overly frank expression of feelings.
Very often men “hysteroid” achieve great success in creativity, it is through art that they can realize themselves.
Among the famous artists, poets, musicians there are many people with a hysterical type of personality. Another distinguishing feature of these men is a special attitude to their body. They try to be perfect in everything, including in appearance, and therefore go in for sports, attend wellness treatments so that their body looks perfect.
As for relations with women, here the “hysteroid” selects a partner more for demonstration to society than for himself.
Since he strives to shine all his life, he is ready to use his beloved as an instrument for the cherished goal. Therefore, this man makes very high demands on his lady. He does not know the true feeling of love, until the end of his life it remains at the level of love for his wife. In bed, these men are always at their best and are doing their best to please their partner. Not against role-playing games and modern sex toys, but they prefer not to use rough attributes.
Women
This girl’s house is always clean. Her worldview should not be contaminated with an unwashed plate in the sink or a sock that falls out of the closet. She is sociable, has many friends, often finds herself in the center of attention of the whole company, easily joins the new team, but her lack of character does not always allow keeping the public interest to the end.
The makeup, jewelry and clothes of these ladies are always on top and fully correspond to the latest fashion.Catchy clothes, a lot of acquaintances, the ability to adapt to others - all this is done on her part only in order to be in the spotlight. Often, she does not get the desired result.
Despite a bunch of acquaintances, close ties she did not manage to get. She needs communication only in order to enjoy her portion of attention.
If a new acquaintance begins to admire her, then she will become close to him, but if over time this man emotionally cools down a “hysteroid” to a woman, then she will not only move away from him, but even begin to experience a feeling of hatred.
Ladies of this type of character are very feminine, but at the same time quite brave. Ready to engage in adventure and perseverance. But all this is again due to the need for general interest. In the crowd they are always noticeable - they laugh out loud, cry sobily, actively swear. Relations with men are not easy for them. Due to the lack of a sense of responsibility, these girls often get divorced.
Reasons for the formation of a psychotype
Most often, the hysteroid type is formed during puberty. At this time, the teenager determines his ego and sexuality, and all measures of parenting are not perceived as the main subject that deserves attention. However, it is precisely the omission on the part of the parents that can become the reason that provoked the emergence of hysteroid accentuation.
The most common factor is to impose on a child thoughts about the inferiority of his sex, in contrast to the opposite sex.
Therefore, in the future, an adult child will unconsciously engage in a destructive struggle against the opposite sex and try to seize total power over his representative.
Another shortcoming in the upbringing of a child, capable of forming a hysterical personality type, is associated with the desire of parents to suppress revealing sexuality. They subconsciously want their child to always remain a child, and therefore they impose on him a characteristic model of behavior. At a certain stage in the development of the psyche of a teenager, this way of educating has the opposite effect, which is fixed and leads to the formation of a hysterical psychotype.
Also, hysterical psychopathies can develop already in adulthood, and they are caused not only by upbringing and individual mental characteristics, but also by life circumstances:
- stresses, negative news, an accident with one of your loved ones can specifically affect a person’s worldview and mental development;
- dissatisfaction at work, conflicts with colleagues, constant dissatisfaction with the leadership - all this can cause the formation of a hysterical disorder;
- bad habits, namely the abuse of alcohol, tranquilizers, antidepressants, sleeping pills, play a huge role in the formation of the psychotype.
How to behave with such a person?
Despite the eccentricity of these people and their too high demands, one can still try to find a common language with the "hysteroid" so that in the event of a breakdown, he does not harbor evil.
If the "hysteroid" is really interesting and you are set up for long friendships, then it is recommended to give it what it seeks: praise, give compliments, admire him, be patient with eccentric behavior.
It’s better not to argue with this type of person if you care about relationships. Convincing a woman or a man with these mental characteristics is extremely difficult.
As soon as this person experiences a state of hysteria, he will begin to show aggression. Do not react to it the same way, it will only further inflame it.
If it is necessary to interact with the "hysteroid" on work issues, it is better not to assign tasks that require focus on details and perseverance. It is recommended to give him a presentation of the project - he will cope with this with a bang.
If you are not interested in close communication with the “hysteroid”, but still have the need for rare meetings, for example, at work, then do not try to get close to him, reduce communication to a dry exchange of information.
Behavior Correction Guidelines
Excessive emotionality often causes not only serious hysteroid disorders, but also poor health. Constant psychological dissatisfaction leads to a decrease in the functioning of the immune system, provokes neurosis, ailments of the digestive tract, and becomes a factor in constant headaches. In medicine, cases have been described more than once when a person who turned to a gastroenterologist complaining of stomach pain had gastritis.
The treatment prescribed by a specialist did not help, the disease receded only after the person turned to a psychologist.
After professional correction of behavior, he got rid of the constant fear of dismissal, fear of losing the respect of the team, etc.
In this regard, people with a hysterical personality type are at serious risk. This is exactly the case that they say: "all diseases are from nerves."
To avoid such unpleasant consequences, "hysteroids" are encouraged to try to slightly change their worldview and behavior.
To avoid such unpleasant consequences, "hysteroids" are encouraged to try to slightly change their worldview and behavior.
So that the “hysteroid” always feels satisfaction, it is recommended that he become the leader of a society. For example, get a job as the chairman of the HOA, become the leader of the trade union and so on. Thus, he will always be provided with the necessary attention, and in addition, his inexhaustible energy will be directed into a useful channel. Feeling like a significant person, capable of influencing the events, the “hysteroid” will be completely satisfied.
Emotions of a "hysteroid" often pour out in a public place. Shop brawlers, people shouting something from the crowd during a public speech of another person - all these are individuals with a represented psychotype. Having noticed such a manner, it is important to learn how to switch from aimless and dangerous shocking, provocative and defiant behavior.
Various psychological trainings help very well to correct behavior.
Also, special literature will help to cope with the symptoms of hysteroid behavior. There are many works created by professionals in the field of psychology, which are in the public domain and are designed specifically to help people suffering from hysterical behavior.
If the correction of behavior is not started on time, then this problem can develop to a state where serious psychotherapy and the use of potent drugs are required. The following symptoms indicate the transformation of the hysterical type into psychopathy:
- complete loss of the ability to communicate with the public, maladaptation of a person in any social sphere;
- the commission of acts dangerous to life and health, in this case the assessment of the drama of actions is eliminated in the mind;
- an increase in the surge of emotions, their unexpected occurrence and frequency.
Noticing the above symptoms in yourself or a loved one, it is recommended to seek the help of a specialist.
See the video below for more on the hysteroid personality type.
