To meet a faithful girl or woman is the dream of any man. What representatives of the stronger sex put in this concept and where to look for such girls is not always clear. Let's try to figure out loyalty from the point of view of psychology and tell you what they are - faithful wives.
Who is she?
Man in the process of evolution gained a lot, but also, unfortunately, lost a lot. So, now it’s not customary to make a choice once and for a lifetime, and it does not matter what it is about - a car, a profession or a life partner. People admit the very possibility of inconstancy, variability in certain circumstances. The times of sacrifice, when one's “I” could easily dissolve into “You” (the wife of the Decembrists) or “We” (giving up our life for the sake of a great idea, for example, revolution), were left behind, unfortunately the idealists.
Loyalty has also undergone changes, but it is still considered one of the main qualities of the best wife and girlfriend in the world. With the progress of mankind, the attitude towards female infidelity among men almost does not change - they are still overwhelmingly absolutely sure that a woman is simply obliged to remain faithful. But women after a wave of emancipation and sexual revolution discovered a new world - a world of betrayal.
Sociologists who tried to study fidelity came to the conclusion that about 20% of the fair sex keep true fidelity to their partners. Up to a quarter of all the ladies are cheated on men, and the rest at least once thought about adultery, flirted, kissed on the side, but did not get to sexual intimacy.
Every third woman says that cheating in marriage is unacceptable. Only 5% approve of extramarital affairs.Most people think that anything can happen in life, and no one, as they say, is insured. That is, a possible thought and even justification of infidelity subconsciously already exists.
What is she - the most faithful girl? She can be blonde or brunette, shy or mischievous bully.
Fidelity cannot be a specific characterization. Rather, this is exactly what is being formed at a subconscious level - by the example of parents, parenting, religion, own observations.
A faithful girl is usually from a family in which there are certain foundations, traditions, but it is not enough to look at relatives to understand whether the girl will be a faithful wife. This is generally quite difficult to understand.
Only one thing is known for certain - most faithful women are deeply unhappy in life. They are often abandoned. Men first want devotion from the chosen one, and then they get bored with it, there is no fear of losing their beloved, because it is obvious that she is faithful and will not go anywhere, there is no sense in conquering her, everything has already been conquered. Faithful in nature women often age and die alone, never finding happiness with men. Psychoanalysts claim that they unconsciously strive for suffering, they want to be abandoned, being unable to do it on their own.
And yet loyalty is the greatest value, a diamond in the garbage of various human relationships. There is nothing surprising in the fact that everyone is trying to find her, not really wondering what exactly then to do with her.
In which country are the most faithful women?
You can often hear that representatives of certain nationalities are the most faithful or vice versa. So, frivolity and frivolity are attributed to French women, frigidity and lack of emotionality are attributed to English women, Italians are considered passionate, Chechens and Kabardins are called modest. But the question of fidelity is not as simple as it seems. This is not a characteristic of temperament or national mentality. Therefore, it is difficult to answer unequivocally what bride of nationality to marry a faithful girl.
In every nation there are heroes and scoundrels who went down in history. In every nation there are faithful and unfaithful women. In those countries where religion is given great importance, where the commandments are trying to be fulfilled, where in the old days a woman could be stoned for public infidelity or publicly carved, the tribal memory is still strong, which is also in the upbringing of girls. Thus, representatives of the Caucasian peoples, Arab women, are distinguished by humility to her husband, obedience and fidelity. But there is another misfortune - guys usually do not value this reality and do not differ in chastity.
This means that a faithful woman can be found in any country, but where society is orthodoxly religious, this probability is somewhat higher.
Where to look for a devoted companion?
The first thing that men should remember is that the women who surround them have already formed as individuals, redrawing and remaking them is more expensive, and is it worth it, because this is real violence against the person.
Therefore, the signs of a future faithful spouse should be carefully looked out even before you make an offer and lead your girlfriend to the registry office.
This is especially necessary to learn for those who hope from any girl to create a faithful life partner. Will not work. By the age of 18, all the ladies are already some kind, either good or bad, but quite solid, well-formed personalities.
Where such girls live who will be faithful to their beloved, it is impossible to immediately answer. They are everywhere. They are not grown in a greenhouse, they are not cloned in an incubator, and therefore the widespread myth that one cannot find the right one in a nightclub is just a myth and nothing more. In a nightclub, a girl can come to an alumni meeting for her friend's birthday. It is clear that there are no such ladies among the regulars of entertainment establishments - upbringing does not allow.
Experts in the field of psychology recommend paying attention not to bright beauties with bold manners, if the task is to find the faithful spouse, but on more modest female representatives. But especially you need to pay attention to the girls with whom at first in communication seemed a little boring. It is in this case that the man will not exceed the value of the girl due to fleeting enthusiasm, in this case your assessment of her qualities will be the most objective.
Signs of future fidelity can be found not at the first meeting, but at closer communication. Watch how sincerely she shows interest in you. A faithful girl rarely arranges hysteria and jealousy, does not flirt with your friends and does not flirt, does not "like" photos of half-naked men unfamiliar to you on social networks. Usually she has a rather modest profession - educator, seamstress, decorator, decorator. But there are exceptions, although professional deformation should never be forgotten.
How to check?
If fidelity is the criterion that has the most important role for you, then the question of how to make sure of its fidelity will be very relevant. It is better to live together before marriage in order to observe how her behavior and attitude towards you will change with the beginning of joint everyday life. Her style of relations with friends and relatives can tell a lot.
Faithful people are faithful in everything, and even taking a kitten from the street, they bear full responsibility for it until the last cat sigh. Such girls will not approve and justify the lady you think up and tell the beloved about how she cheated on your friend. She will never condemn, but she will not condone.
You cannot become true by your own decision. It can be originally. Soberly assessing the chances of fidelity is easier than then checking your spouse for marital infidelity, which you often learn about after the fact.
And to top it off, I want to give advice to men: if you have met a faithful woman, appreciate her, value her. Such personalities usually very painfully experience your betrayals and lies, even if they are silent and do not say anything about it.
