All about loyalty

Everyone deep down dreams of selfless love, accompanied by sincere fidelity. Many are interested in what secret meaning the word itself carries. It is worth considering in detail the manifestation of devotion to the Motherland, loved ones, relatives, friends, beliefs, principles, the ways to achieve this character trait and the possibility of resolving painful doubts in cases of suspicion of treason.

Loyalty is a moral category that reflects the individual's life values. It is one of the most important qualities on earth, characterized by unwaveringness, immutability and firmness. Opposites of this ethical concept are betrayal, depravity, debauchery.

Treason is the most vile manifestation of human nature. Betrayal is detrimental to the individual. From time immemorial traitors deserve contempt.

The right path or answer means the right action. Faithful business convinces of its fundamentality and reliability. Based on these ideas, we come to the conclusion that a faithful person is a correct, reliable and devoted comrade. A faithful person does not depart from his principles. This is a mature decent person who has a strong inner core. A permanent person is resistant to any temptations and difficulties. He is able to adequately overcome all obstacles. Loyalty to the Motherland, a loved one, family, friends, work does not allow him to switch to another object.

Loyalty is the key to a clean, trusting relationship in which there is no place for suspicion, rage, jealousy and anger. Truly close and harmonious relationships are possible only if you remain faithful and trust the partner. Not only people have this amazing quality. There are many cases of amazing devotion of dogs to their owners.

Animals cannot think humanly, therefore polygamy is inherent in them, due to which a population of species is preserved in nature. But even among zoological representatives, permanent couples are created that are faithful to each other in any circumstances. Affection and devotion are inherent in foxes, wolves, beavers, penguins, eagles, albatrosses, swans, who remain with their partner until their last breath. They have the ability to care for a sick individual, feed, drink and treat their companion. Swan fidelity symbolizes bestowing tenderness on a loved one throughout his life and refusal of flights after the death of the second half.

A faithful person remains faithful to the object even in his thoughts.

He is not able to admit any ambiguity, does not remove the wedding ring in new companies, does not make friendships on social networks with representatives of the opposite sex. He shows openness and honesty towards the partner with whom he decided to associate his fate. Unshakable beliefs open up a clean and bright path for the future.

The basis of love is fidelity. Marital devotion does not allow betrayal of a partner, which has a devastating effect on marriage. When a believing heart is broken, the couple does not have a happy future. Without fidelity, there can never be love. Family happiness is possible only as a result of a clean, honest, trusting relationship. Men often adhere to double standards. They require the wife of constancy and endurance, but for their part they admit infidelity. Both spouses are required to keep a vow of fidelity.

The loyalty of people who love one another is the greatest value. The benefits of an honest relationship are:

• trust, warmth and love in the family;
• stability and durability of marriage;
• lack of jealousy, unnecessary quarrels and insults;
• constant feeling of elbow feeling;
• lack of fear of having children, fear of being a single mother.

If fidelity is perceived by one of the spouses as a burden, then this indicates the futility of the relationship. Without fidelity, a friendly and strong family will never work out. Changes contribute to a chill in relationships, suspicion, depravity and distrust.

Mutual sacrificial work is needed, which ultimately leads to mutual understanding, affection, joyful service to the family hearth. God's seventh commandment is, "Do not commit adultery." Today, there are couples who initially agreed not to keep each other's loyalty. Such a marriage is doomed.

Divorces most often occur after the betrayal of one of the spouses. Treason is inextricably linked to deception, meanness and betrayal. They destroy the psyche of the second half.

True friendship requires great dedication. A selfless friend does not ask for anything in return for his loyalty to a loved one. Attachment of people arises on the basis of common interests, hobbies and trust in each other. The manifestation of great patience for the shortcomings of a comrade and the gift of personal time pay off with interest.

Mutual assistance and mutual assistance are evidence of friendly devotion. Friends help solve problems that have arisen, overcome obstacles that periodically appear on the path of life. Despite the lack of time, they come to the rescue on time. Friendship has great moral value.

It is very important in the most bitter moments of life to lean on the shoulder of a reliable friend, to feel his sincere joy for your success, good luck and happiness. A true friend will never betray. He will be there even when a friend is below the poverty line or is seriously ill. Friendship does not tolerate infidelity. Friends do not drop out during difficult times.

Sometimes, people change their habits, betray their ideals, and change the once given word. Man always opposed smoking, but somehow unexpectedly succumbed to this addiction. He cooled to the Church, threw the woman whom he once loved. Public opinion, remorse will never be able to overshadow betrayal to itself.

By betraying his beliefs and principles, a person loses the respect of people, casts shame on himself. The forgetfulness of former ideals by a windy person serves as a wake-up call to the futility of being and nurtures one's own ingloriousness.

In any circumstances, it is necessary to be steadfast and to remain loyal to ideals, the homeland, loved ones. It is no coincidence that the heads of state swear allegiance to the people and the country. Patriotic feeling and devotion to the Fatherland inspire warriors to exploits. Some at the cost of their own lives remain faithful to their duty to the Fatherland. In history, many heroic acts were recorded committed by fighters who swore allegiance to the Russian flag, anthem and not broken in the most terrible circumstances.

Most often, fidelity depends on education. It is in the family that such basic values ​​as responsibility, constancy, honesty begin to take shape. The embryos laid in early childhood can develop into an unusual devotion to parents, friends, life partners, their own children, work, and the Fatherland. The child subtly feels the values ​​present in the family. Gradually fixed a certain image of the marital union.

It is important to accustom children to constancy from an early age. They should clearly know: being late is an infidelity of the word, equivalent to lying. With concealment and petty deception, treason begins. The child must understand that a seemingly insignificant untruth develops into a big lie. It is necessary to teach sons and daughters to keep their word, always tell the truth. People who grew up in a large family get used to taking care of their parents, brothers and sisters from childhood. There is a high probability of bringing up a devoted person, since the interests of the family prevail in children from an early age. A heightened sense of duty and sincere faith in God help people maintain their honor, avoid lasciviousness, depravity, mistrust and betrayal.

Any person can bring up abstinence from lust. Serious volitional efforts are required to eradicate instability of feelings. A moment of pleasure on the side can bring a lot of trouble.

Although in fact fidelity does not limit freedom.Most likely, on the contrary, loyalty to a loved one exempts from many vicious ties. Inner freedom is acquired. Most people note that loyalty gives them strength, confidence in the future, joy and peace of mind.

There is the possibility of acquiring firmness, unwaveringness, confidence in the constancy of a partner and attachment to a life partner. To do this, the following actions are required:

• manifestation of wisdom and restraint;
• daily expression of love, care, tenderness, delicacy, bringing romance into relationships;
• delivering joy and happiness to a loved one;
• apologizing for accidental resentment;
• display of deep respect and trust in the partner;
• a ban on provocative messages and nasty phrases;
• regular communication with your soulmate, correspondence in any of the instant messengers, periodic calls;
• sacrifice, abstinence, and loyalty to one's partner.

In family life, moments of fading of passion happen. Spouses are sure that love has passed, it is time for parting. You can not refuse fading love, the heart can ignite again. To this must be applied, if only there was a desire. A former sense of respect will surely be replaced by a deep sense of respect and love for a life partner, it takes several years to form.

In checking for fidelity, insight must be shown. With a violation of allegiance to the chosen one, the behavior of the second half changes significantly. If you overcome a painful doubt in the constancy of a partner, you need to pay attention to such details:

• Is there still a place for periodic pleasant surprises from a loved one;
• Does the chill run through during kisses and intimacy?
• whether the content of the message texts of the second half is getting colder;
• whether the number of calls is reduced;
• Does nervousness appear when trying to ask with whom a person is in constant communication on social networks;
• whether the fading of tenderness and joy in relationships, the disappearance of unanimity are observed.

It is best at the very beginning of the relationship to find out from your second half the following points.

• Ask in detail about the family that raised the loved one. Did any of his parents have a violation of loyalty, what was their reaction to clarifying the circumstances? A girl and a guy from a family with strong moral principles, in which love and respect for each other reign, are more prone to fidelity.

• Be sure to find out about the partner’s past relationship: the reason for the breakup, the presence of cheating in the former couple, the opinion of the other half about infidelity. If a confession of treason follows and a note of remorse for the deed does not sound, then there is a high probability of a recurrence of the situation in a new relationship.
• It would be nice to chat with friends and girlfriends about the reputation of a potential life partner. Please note that stories can be greatly embellished. But a holistic picture will be drawn.

A married couple is often subjected to trials related to violation of allegiance to the second half. Alarms can be begun or frequent official business trips, regular delays at work, a sudden desire to look attractive. The attitude to the partner in life is changing: along with some detachment, there is a fawning in front of the chosen one in order to smooth out his guilt. There is a popular belief that a faithful person will not often change a car or mobile phone. If a husband or wife uses one car and a cell phone, protects them, repairs them in the event of a breakdown, then he does the same with his companion.