48 years in marriage - what kind of wedding is it and how is it celebrated?

As you know, time flies very fast. It seemed that yesterday they had sworn love and sorrow to each other. And 48 years after the wedding, they keep their word. Despite the fact that this date is not anniversary, the anniversary of marriage is always an occasion to rejoice for parents or friends. In addition, this date has its own traditions and special significance, which you will learn about by reading this article.

Today, an extremely unpleasant tendency is noted - more and more couples who entered into a legal union diverge before the start of the first anniversary date. These are the realities of the modern world. Own individuality is a priority for most young people, rather than the desire to maintain an alliance and try to understand their partner. In this regard, forty-eight years, lived together, cause admiration and respect among others. However, it is worth noting that the wedding is still an important stage in people's lives, to which a serious attitude has been preserved.

The anniversary of the fortieth anniversary is called amethyst. Before moving on to the story of traditions and possible options for the celebration, it is worthwhile to become more familiar with the symbols of this anniversary. Amethyst is one of the most expensive varieties of the mineral, consisting of crystals of silica, more common under the name quartz. Visually amethyst is incredibly beautiful. Its shade is a combination of pink, bluish, red and lilac. It is very rare to meet this mineral in nature, in connection with which amethyst is ranked as a group of collection mineral substances.

Most likely, the anniversary got its name due to the physical properties of this mineral stone. Amethyst is famous for its unique strength and hardness, like a couple who managed to preserve relationships. For such a long period of time together, the partners are so integrated among themselves that nothing seems to be able to influence this. In addition, amethyst is a symbol of fidelity, a clear conscience and honesty. Which again brings us to the idea of ​​the correct choice of the symbolism of this celebration.

Traditions are the main part of almost any holiday. Amethyst anniversary is no exception. Many of the traditions, by the way, have been respected for several centuries. However, it is increasingly possible to notice that, over time, any tradition is modified and regularly supplemented with something. Much of what you encounter when studying the traditions of the forty-eight-year anniversary of marriage may seem strange or old-fashioned to you. It is worth noting that strict adherence to traditions is completely optional. Today they are part of the story, and therefore serve as a source for inspiration and explanation of certain events. The amethyst anniversary is based on a long tradition.

• The presence on the table of a large Easter cake. According to traditions, the menu of the table set for guests should resemble a table set for Easter. The best option is treating guests with homemade Easter cake, made independently at home. However, you can always purchase it at any of the supermarkets. The opportunity to bite a cake is first given to the head of the family, that is, the spouse, then the wife bites. And only after that sweet and rich bread is cut into small pieces and served on the table.
• It is no secret that most unions are located in the registry office. Not everyone dares to the wedding procedure, only a few. Nevertheless, the belief that all unions are created in heaven still exists. Therefore, there is no better opportunity to go to church and light candles in honor of family well-being and long life.

• The most emblematic flower of the forty-eight year anniversary is the lilac branch. The shade of the flower and its fresh aroma will become a real decoration of your holiday. Flowers amaze with their beauty, and therefore are placed in the middle of the laid table. It is believed that the lilac branch presented to the spouse on an amethyst anniversary is able to “refresh” the relationship between the spouses by “breathing” a new wave of love into them.
• Rings are considered the main symbol of marriage, and amethyst is part of many jewelry. On this day, it is customary not only to re-vow to each other, but also to repeat the procedure of putting on the rings. Rings may be the same, but it is advisable to purchase those that will contain the amethyst mineral. It is worth noting that it is recommended to transfer the rings with amethyst to your children or grandchildren. Since there is a belief that this mineral stone is able to preserve the energy of its previous owner and protect it from the evil eye. By inheriting jewelry with amethyst, you seem to be transmitting a piece of yourself and your energy. For the one who was given the ring, the amethyst in this case will act as a talisman or talisman.

It is hard to imagine what the “newlyweds” went through for the long forty-eight years of marriage. They shared sad and joyful events.Overcome a difficult time together, holding hands. Every day, working on relationships, they began to feel support in a loved one. In such a relationship there is no place for "I" - there is only "we". When deciding to arrange a holiday, it is recommended to take as a basis the symbol of this date - amethyst. Of the most successful options for celebrating the amethyst anniversary, the following four can be noted:

• visiting special places associated with memories or any bright events;
• a modest celebration with family in a restaurant;
• a trip to another city, country or resort;
• home party with all family members at home.

If you attach great importance to symbolism in the celebration of anniversaries, then in the case of the amethyst date it is recommended to hold a family dinner with only your children and grandchildren. Amethyst symbolizes the hearth, which means that it does not require excessive clutter and a crowded atmosphere.

Visit your favorite cafe, treat yourself and your soul mate with a mug of hot drink. Take a walk through the beautiful and memorable places of your city. A great idea would be to go to the theater for one of the performances or visit a movie theater.

Since in most cases the celebration is based on the symbolism of a specific date, it is recommended to present as a gift everything that, one way or another, will remind the mineral - amethyst. Fortunately, there are many variations of presentations for the amethyst anniversary. Below are a few examples.

• Spouses in honor of this joyful event can please each other with jewelry with an incredibly beautiful amethyst stone. It can be elegant earrings, a ring, a necklace, a bracelet, accessories for ties or shirts (for example, cufflinks).
• Amethyst stone can be presented not only as a decoration, but also in its raw form. In other words, a mineral stone that was not inlaid in jewelry can be presented as an amulet or a talisman that brings good luck.
• Since amethyst has a characteristic lilac and bluish hues, things and objects that are designed in this color palette will be a wonderful and symbolic gift. It can be household items, for example, rugs, bedding, a plaid, a towel, a tablecloth and other textile products.

• A wonderful gift for 48 years of wedding will be objects of art. For example, a picture in which the predominant color scheme is violet or lilac will inevitably suggest the symbol of the forty-eight-year anniversary.
• Since amethyst stone is also a symbol of the hearth, any objects that can make your living space comfortable are ideal as a gift. Whether it will be furniture, a figurine, a vase or candles, it is not so important - everything that evokes associations with a warm house will be an appropriate gift.
• An interesting present will be a pre-ordered print of a photograph on a piece of clothing, a blanket or dishes. But a truly memorable gift will be a portrait of the “newlyweds” painted by the artist.

• If one of the partners prefers to while away evenings with a pleasant book in their hands, be sure to look at some collection item. And it is also recommended to pay attention to the e-book, in which you can put an incredibly large number of all kinds of books in electronic format. It is worth noting that this device does not do any harm to the eyes and allows you to save space in your bag.
• Forty-eight years of the anniversary implies that the spouses are no longer young, which means gifts that help restore or improve their health will come in handy. It may be a device that helps measure blood pressure, pulse, or blood sugar. A useful gift will be orthopedic insoles, an ultrasonic massager and a mattress.
• An expensive gift, but extremely useful will be household and kitchen appliances, made again in the amethyst color palette. If your budget allows you to make expensive purchases, then take a look at a washing machine or dishwasher. This will greatly facilitate the home life of spouses.

What is the best way to celebrate an amethyst wedding and what to buy for a married couple as a gift, see the video below.