3 years after the wedding: traditions and ways of celebration

The most responsible and joyful event in the life of every person is considered marriage. Every year the marriage strengthens, and according to tradition, certain gifts are given for such dates and celebrations are held. The third anniversary of a life together is considered to be the most interesting; its customs and rituals are characteristic of it.

After 3 years have passed since the day of joining the marriage, the wedding anniversary, which is called leather, comes. According to folk legends, in the three years of marriage, the newlyweds begin to understand each other well and all the troubles and grievances remain at home. Their relationship “grows” with strong skin, and in mutual life, mutual respect and love begin to reign. Therefore, the "leather" anniversary can be considered a serious bid for a long and lasting marriage.

A three-year family life in this case is equated to a skin that is not afraid of either water or dirt. Lovers over this period of time have learned to live together and solve problems. Their passionate and vivid feelings of love develop into a more reverent and caring relationship. Of course, the spouses during these three years had to endure many trials, but many pleasant moments and happiness will await them.

Each period of family life has its own steps, which the couple enters. The third anniversary is no exception. This is a serious date, symbolizing the long journey traveled together hand in hand. A leather wedding has its own interesting traditions, they go from ancient times and are very popular in our time.

• Before the anniversary, the young couple must ask for forgiveness from all the offenders, give out annual debts and clean the house of unnecessary items and things. According to the belief, if you perform the above activities, the family will receive prosperity, prosperity and good luck.
• On the upcoming wedding day, the bride and groom need to wear leather products, it can be handbags, belts, bracelets or shoes.
• A few days before the leather anniversary, it is recommended to perform a general cleaning in the housing, while the man is usually occupied with the walls and the ceiling, and the woman with the floor. After that, young people can go together to the sauna and carry out the procedure of complete body cleansing.
• The main attribute of such a wedding is a wheat spikelet, it is placed in a vase on the table or suspended from the walls and ceiling.

• According to tradition, the celebration should begin early, at about 10 in the morning. Parents tie a pair with a ribbon and sprinkle them with coins. After that, the newlyweds are served with a rye loaf, which symbolizes the wealth and prosperity in the house. It should be broken off piece by piece and eaten by the newlyweds in the presence of relatives.
• The celebration is usually organized by witnesses. They come up with funny contests with jokes and meet invitees at the entrance.
• At the end of the feast, the guests raise a glass for the health of the young, wishing them eternal and strong love. Then the couple needs to break several plates for happiness. The more splinters you get, the stronger the family will be.
• During the celebration, the spouses need to dance, the first and last dance is considered especially important.
• It is customary to treat those invited to a leather wedding with red wine and meat dishes. This tradition has been adhered to since ancient times, because they believe that it will bring the family a full cup of wealth and health.
• Before the start of the celebration, the bride should bake the dough in the form of animal figures, they should treat the guests with them. First of all, treats are given to relatives by the groom.
• Attributes such as a red apple are also placed on holiday tables; they often replace a loaf. According to legend, such apples are "healing" and they are given to patients for a speedy recovery.

Cloudy and rainy weather is considered a bad sign on the wedding day, as it promises possible troubles and quarrels. To avoid this, the newlyweds are advised to leave early from home, face the entrance and throw rye grains over their heads, say the following words: “The birds will eat, the sorrows and troubles will be carried away from our house.”

The ritual also helps to protect the marriage from possible negativity, during which the young people are planted with their backs to each other and tied with linen ribbon, saying: "The family continues, the family marriage is preserved, the linen thread is strong, the life of the newlyweds is sweet." In addition, lovers are recommended to wear wreaths of wildflowers during the celebration. Holding them over the heads of the couple, witnesses need to make wishes for a long and happy life.

A leather wedding provides not only a certain celebration, but also special gifts. As a rule, the heroes of the occasion are presented with items with leather elements or inserts. It is considered a symbol of longevity. Compared to paper, it cannot be broken, which means that the relationship between the couple will become stable and can withstand any adversity and difficult trials. This celebration is usually held in a close circle, but often the newlyweds prefer to invite their closest friends and relatives. Therefore, going to such an anniversary, you need to know what gift should be prepared. For this it is worth considering the following recommendations.

• If you are planning an anniversary with friends, it is advisable for them to present a panel and a picture of leather, the original solution will also be a beautiful leather vase, wicker box or bottle.In addition, a calendar or frames for photographs made of leather, designer chests, watches with decorative trim, and animal figures can serve as an unusual souvenir. If the couple plan to go on a “honeymoon” after the celebration, then they can be presented with an expensive leather suitcase. For a couple who love homeliness and modern design, leather book safes are suitable for storing documents and various things, key holders or book bars.

• For close relatives, a leather sofa will be an ideal gift. If the budget is limited, then you can replace it with a leather ottoman or chair, which will take its rightful place in any hallway. A photo book can serve as a wonderful gift for a brother or sister, it can be individually ordered and filled with family pictures. A leather case for glasses or a stylish cosmetic bag will be a great souvenir. Today, in stores you can also find inexpensive mirrors in leather frames, bags and other jewelry.
• The most difficult task will be to choose a gift for the young spouse. It must be selected taking into account not only personal preferences, but also the style of the husband. Most often, men for leather weddings are presented with classic folders for documentation, belts, coin boxes or bags. You can also add cigarette cases, notebooks, leather amulets, beautiful watch straps and briefcases to this list. A handmade souvenir will also be no less original, it will have a lot of love and warmth. For example, as a homemade gift, you can make leather key chains, slippers, pendants or handbags.

• A special gift should be presented for the bride, which would highlight this wonderful date and remain a long memory. You can buy a favorite leather skirt, coat or jacket. A good choice will be a leather cosmetic bag, a clutch bag, a stylish case for a mobile phone. Of the more expensive gifts, stylish brooches, jewelry with leather elements, fashionable belts and bracelets are suitable.

Although three years of living together are considered a short term, this is still the first anniversary that needs to be spent with dignity. It should be noted that this anniversary is not customary to celebrate on a grand scale and feast. Usually a celebration gathers only family members and closest friends. To remember the holiday for a long time, you should carefully consider its organization. Since there will be few invitees to the celebration, there is no need to rent a cafe or restaurant, it is best to celebrate an anniversary in a country house or just go out in the company.

The venue of the celebration depends on the time of year and weather conditions. So, for example, in the hot summer you can organize a celebration in a small country house or rent a mansion on the seashore. Here the newlyweds, their relatives and friends will be able to fully enjoy their vacation, and a cheerful toastmaster will help guests improve their mood. On the site, it is recommended to beautifully arrange a wedding arch for the bride and groom, where they will be able to give gifts to each other and, in the presence of all, take another oath of love. On the personal territory of the house, you can also place tables for guests. They should be decorated with original decor and covered in the appropriate style.

The celebration should turn out noisy and fun, with dancing. To open and end the festival will be a dance of the young. At the same time, it is worth noting that the scenario of the holiday should be drawn up, taking into account the age category of the guests.If the wedding will be attended by young children, it is advisable for them to separately arrange a venue with a clown, where they can play enough and have a good time without disturbing adults.

An important point is the compilation of a music program. All melodies must be selected in advance so that they smoothly replace each other. As for the solemn menu, it should include fish, meat, red sparkling wine and a wedding cake. The sweet symbol of the anniversary must be made to order, with beautiful inscriptions and decor.

If the celebration of the anniversary was in the winter, then the celebration can be no less original in the huge hall of the house. To do this, the room should be decorated under the "skin". In the center of the room, tables are set for guests and a separate podium for young people stands out. It’s important to write the anniversary script so that it contains contests, dances, and congratulations. At the end of the celebration, the bride and groom will perform a dance and cut the wedding cake.

Humorous practical jokes and contests will help to dilute the atmosphere. For example, the bride and groom should be blindfolded and find a spouse in the guest group. Other contests will be no less ridiculous: whoever cuts the cabbage quicker, drives a nail or collects a meat grinder.

Many spouses prefer to spend a holiday in the lap of nature, arranging out-of-town picnics. Such a celebration can be decorated in the style of country chic, where each of the guests will wear leather paraphernalia.

For the same young couples with a family budget, you can order a restaurant or cafe, this will free the spouse from preparatory activities and cleaning. It’s best to design a room with the help of designers. To do this, you need to hang posters with the inscriptions: “Our family is three years old”, as well as decorate the walls with balloons and leather ribbons. Collages from family and wedding photos will look interesting in the hall. For couples who like to have fun, you can order karaoke and a yacht.

A good option for the holiday will be a romantic evening. It has many advantages: saving finances and the ability to enjoy intimacy. At the same time, you can organize such a leather wedding at home by candlelight or arrange a country trip with a photo shoot, horse riding and flying on an airplane. In addition, such a trip can be planned for several days and arrange a mini “honeymoon”.

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