Female jealousy: causes, signs and rules of struggle

Love is a wonderful feeling, but when one of the partners begins to make higher demands on his chosen one, he is jealous of him for no reason, such a union may be on the verge of a split. Their future joint life depends on how much a woman is jealous of her partner.

Jealousy is believed to be a feeling that is a manifestation of love. But this is not true. A person who experiences this feeling is an owner and an egoist, moreover, he is not self-confident. A jealous woman is extremely suspicious and suspicious. She sees betrayal in all actions of her partner and with her nitpicking and tantrums pretty much spoils life not only for herself and her partner, but also for those around her.

According to the statement, a feeling of jealousy arises not from the person who loves himself, but from the one who wants to be loved.

This feeling arises out of fear of losing his beloved, although, often, a jealous person in the family himself can break the vow of fidelity.

Jealousy in women can be expressed in different ways. Some jealous women begin to monitor their soul mate, read messages, hire private detectives. They do this in silence, gradually “corroding” themselves from within.

Another category of ladies, on the contrary, falls into hysteria, their actions become uncontrollable. After another scandal, they can talk with a man and find out the cause of the misunderstanding. But this will be until the next outbreak of jealousy on their part.

According to psychologists, the prerequisites for the occurrence of jealousy appear in childhood.It depends on the family in which the girl was raised. In childhood, these qualities are still weakly expressed, but, growing up, a woman begins to seek protection and support for her whole life in her partner. The influence of other women on him is perceived by her with hostility, because he must completely belong to her.

The causes of jealousy can be very different.

• Injustice. When marrying or living with a partner in a civil marriage, a woman perceives herself and him as one. They are a couple and must inseparably belong to each other. If the husband begins to look "to the left," this violates the established way of life, and is perceived by the woman as injustice.
• Betrayal. A woman creates her own special world in her soul, where both partners have common interests, life, shared secrets. If she begins to suspect that the union is collapsing, she feels betrayed. Many people very painfully perceive “betrayal” by their partner and fan the problem where it does not exist. A glimpse of a girl passing by, conversations with colleagues, joint tea drinking at work will be perceived as a serious misconduct, as a betrayal.

• Feeling of inferiority. A woman begins to compare herself with others, while finding a bunch of complexes. If in her youth she was deprived of the attention of the guys, this only exacerbates the situation. It seems to her that her husband can find himself a more beautiful, smart, slim, sexy partner. She carefully watches her chosen one, being herself in a nervous tension, worried that he would not be carried away by other women.
• One of the reasons for jealousy is a feeling of restrained pride. These ladies, on the contrary, are overly self-confident and the realization that the spouse pays attention to the opponent makes them indignant. They are used to always be in the spotlight, attracting the views of other men, therefore they are especially careful about their appearance. Understanding that her man begins to show attention not to her, but to her rival, enrages her, she can begin to take revenge on her husband or rival.

• Fear of losing the material well-being that a husband creates. Such women often sit at home with children without additional means of subsistence. The husband is the only source of income for her. She is jealous of him for all who may require his financial assistance.
• Fear of being alone. Many women are afraid to be left without a partner, especially since there are many examples around when beautiful young girls are left alone. Having found their chosen one, they begin to guard him, while they are jealously baseless.

If the spouse is always at home and at work together, then any non-standard situation can be perceived as treason. In the case when the partner often has to leave the partner, she does not have the ability to control where and with whom he is, which also leads to distrust on her part.

The main sign of female jealousy is constant monitoring of the actions of men. But there are other "symptoms" of this condition.

• Constant vigilance. In such a union, a woman begins to control her partner. She knows where and with whom he spends time, with whom he communicates at work. This is expressed in the control of his phone calls, reading SMS. The wife begins to blame her husband in any situation, arranges scenes for and without reason, preventing her husband from meeting friends - after all, there may be women.
• The "work" of the imagination. Staying home alone, the spouse begins to imagine that the husband at this time can cheat on her. Such thoughts can be so real that they make a woman panic. A simple telephone conversation between a husband and a colleague can provoke an attack of jealousy in his wife. Her blood pressure rises, headaches begin.

• The charge on her part. A jealous woman begins to blame her partner.He, in turn, has to prove that this is not so. After some time, the situation again repeats with the same ending.
• Rolling scenes. It costs her nothing to roll the stage at any time, in any company. She will not choose expressions, lower her voice or change intonation. Such a lady is not shy in expressions anywhere, regardless of the situation.

A woman will control her partner, should he stay at work. She may even come to the office to make sure her husband’s words are true. The situation may be aggravated if her husband works in a team with young beautiful women. Manic jealousy knows no barriers. A woman will fight for her man, although often there are no prerequisites for this.

You should constantly work on yourself. An old unsightly robe or disheveled hairstyle had not inspired anyone yet. A woman should like her reflection in the mirror. If she is satisfied with herself, her chosen one will be delighted.

For those who are not completely satisfied with their reflection, hairdressers and stylists will come to the rescue. A trip to the fitness center also should not be postponed for a long time.

A woman begins to create non-existent pictures in her head, thereby destroying herself. In psychology, there is such a term as "imaginary third."

The "risk" group includes women suffering from chronic diseases and mental disorders, as well as people with sensitive psyche.

1. Elderly ladies suffering from sclerotic disorders. Knowing that they may not remember much, they are sure that they are being deceived and cheated on.
2. Women with serious illnesses. They believe that they are no longer needed by anyone and are a burden for everyone, therefore, by any means attract attention to themselves.

Do not go for jealousy.

Excessive jealousy can cause serious harm to health. At the first attacks, a tremendous load on the cardiovascular and nervous systems occurs. Immunity decreases, malfunctions occur in the work of internal organs. A woman develops obesity, heart attacks, stroke, often nervous breakdowns occur.

A woman should analyze the situation in order to understand how real her suspicions are. If the signs of jealousy are insignificant, and she herself can control them, you can try to treat them with humor, or philosophically.

To help his wife cope with the problem, the husband must show patience and restraint. In this case, she will see that there is no cause for concern. Confidence should arise between the couple, therefore it is important to communicate with each other more often and discuss problems together.

In any relationship, you need to find a middle ground, it is important that the partners trust each other and do not give cause for jealousy. To achieve harmony in relationships, it is worth finding a way out of difficult situations together. This is the only way to maintain trust and love for each other.

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