One of the men does not know how to calm her beloved and make her stop jealous. And other representatives of the stronger sex are doing everything possible to evoke such feelings in the wife. About how to make a woman jealous and what consequences may arise - in our article.
Define the main goal
Jealousy is a feeling that can either strengthen relations, or destroy them completely. It happens that over the years the feelings between the spouses cool down, the relationship becomes less passionate, and at some point it seems that she fell out of love with you completely. Therefore, many men who are afraid of losing their beloved, try to cause jealousy in order to maintain relationships and bring them their former warmth.
Sometimes a feeling of jealousy helps to return even the former spouse. Whatever it is, before making her jealous, you should determine for yourself what your main goal is, what you want to achieve in this way.
The most common reason is attention grabbing. In the event that your soulmate has lost its former interest in you, has begun to devote less time to you, is less and less reciprocating with your tenderness and affection, then jealousy may well help to return her attention. Having begun to be jealous of you to other representatives of the fair sex, she can discern in you those traits and virtues that she did not notice before.
There is such a category of men who thus want to check the sincerity of the feelings of their partner, that is, if he sees that she is jealous of him, then he will definitely be convinced that his wife sincerely loves him.
Another category of men has completely different goals: they try to arouse the spouse’s jealousy only in order to bring some kind of “zest”, novelty into the familiar relationship. Over the years, relations between spouses develop according to the same scenario, and every day is similar to the previous one. And if you make her jealous, then it’s quite possible not only to refresh feelings, but also to add passion, new emotions and feelings to the relationship. By the way, jealousy helps many spouses fall in love with each other with renewed vigor, helps to look at their soul mate differently and helps to renew feelings.
If a woman stopped taking care of herself, gained a little weight and became completely indifferent to her own appearance, then jealousy may well shake her. Therefore, many men, having seen such changes in their beloved, try to cause jealousy in her so that the spouse has motivation and desire to become even better than before.
To return a beloved - this may be another goal for which a man decides to take such a step. In the event that the woman was the initiator of the breakup, the former spouse tries to make her jealous and does everything possible to return her again.
Making her feel what he feels is another reason why a man may decide to cause jealousy in his wife. Sometimes women are too jealous, even if the spouse is perfect and does not give any reason for this. Therefore, to show her how he feels at such moments, the man does everything possible so that she finds herself in the same situation.
How to cause jealousy?
In order to make your soulmate jealous, you can use one of the methods, which we will discuss later. It is worth mentioning separately that all these methods are equally effective for both men and women. So, for a start, determine a goal for yourself, that is, decide for yourself why you are doing this, and then act. Start telling your spouse more often about other women, such as work colleagues, mutual acquaintances, or friends. In your stories, mention the merits and successes of these ladies. Such conversations should offend your spouse and cause her a sense of jealousy, because not a single woman can be indifferent to the fact that in her presence they admire others.
If your spouse has become more indifferent to you, then you probably do not miss a single chance in order to praise her, to thank and show her admiration, and meanwhile she accepts thanks and compliments with indifference. To make your soulmate jealous, you must completely change your attitude towards her, that is, stop praising her for a delicious dinner, for her cleanliness in the house, for her ironed shirt, etc. All you need to do is to thank her dryly, saying only “thank you”. After a couple of days, she will definitely notice these changes in you, and you will achieve your goal.
In addition, you can radically change not only your attitude or behavior, but also the lifestyle in general, for example, unexpectedly for her to start playing sports, monitor nutrition, get rid of bad habits, etc. Buy yourself a new shirt or perfume, longer linger by the mirror in the hallway before work. The spouse will definitely notice such changes in you and begin to be jealous, thinking that you are trying for another woman.
Despite the fact that former feelings are no longer there, many spouses are still actively controlling their men. If your spouse calls you several times a day to find out how you are and where you are now, then just do not answer part of her many calls in order to make her jealous. Skip a few calls, messages, and when you pick up the phone, just let me know that you’re busy now and call back later. Such changes in relation to her will not go unnoticed, and the spouse will begin to be jealous.
During a quiet family evening, try to pay attention not to your soulmate, but to your mobile phone. Check your mail more often, open your page on social networks, smile mysteriously while reading even the most ordinary and boring posts. Believe me, your soulmate will not lose sight of this - she will definitely notice it, and in the end you will achieve your goal. When visiting with your spouse, try to communicate with other girls more often, especially at those moments when she is closely watching you. Your communication with others or perhaps a slight flirtation, an innocent smile, a compliment to another woman in the presence of your spouse will definitely make her jealous and look at you with different eyes.
If all of the above methods do not work on your soulmate, then you will have to resort to extreme measures. And these are traces of lipstick on clothes or the scent of other people's perfumes. Such "evidence" will be noticed by any woman. And after the spouse makes you a scene of jealousy, try to behave calmly and in no case do not make excuses, otherwise spoil the whole result of your work.
Effects
Using all of the above methods, you can really easily cause jealousy in your soulmate. But it’s worth considering what the consequences may be, because you just have to go too far, and in the end the result may turn out to be completely different.
For example, if you initially know that your spouse is too vulnerable, takes everything to heart, is often offended by trifles, and is very impressionable, then such actions on your part can seriously hurt her. As a result, causing her jealousy, you can further destroy everything that you so want to save. Therefore, before deciding to take such a step, think carefully and, only making sure that jealousy will help you regain your old feelings, act.
In the next video, you will find a lecture on the psychology of jealousy from the psychologist Anette Orlova.
