Jealous girl: causes and signs of jealousy, how to behave?

When a girl is too jealous, it can be very difficult to build smooth and full-fledged relationships with her. Jealousy interferes with mutual feelings, it provokes quarrels and conflicts, generates distrust of each other. Before you fight jealousy, it is worth understanding why the lady is jealous.

Many are confident that if a girl is jealous, then this is good. After all, jealousy is a testament to her sincere and strong feelings towards a guy. But sometimes jealousy is too strong, and begins to interfere with relationships. In addition, some girls are jealous of their soulmate to everyone in a row: to his girlfriend, sister, mother, etc. Jealousy in such persons is constantly and without reason, and they can be jealous of the boyfriend’s friends or even his work. What to do in this case? To begin with, it’s worth understanding the reasons.

Sometimes it’s simply impossible to understand why a girl is jealous of a guy. Behind the obvious signs of female jealousy, anything can be hidden. For example, she may have one reason for jealousy, and thinking about it, she comes up with a second and third, after which she starts to wind up herself, and in the end the guy just wonders what he has done to her.

The main reason is that the guy often behaves strangely and provocatively. For example, he always flirts with representatives of the opposite sex. It can be distant relatives, acquaintances, colleagues or just strangers. Of course, this behavior makes the girl feel jealousy, and no matter how she tries to overcome this feeling in herself, she still can’t calmly respond to such situations.

As for strange behavior, it can be as follows: the guy is constantly chatting with someone, communicating on social networks, and as soon as his girlfriend appears nearby, he hides his mobile phone. With such secretive behavior, he definitely provokes his beloved into jealousy. As a result, the girl will be forced to secretly view phone messages from you and be suspicious of all your friends on the Internet.

The next reason for jealousy is to look for in her self-doubt. This also happens. If a girl doubts herself, considers herself not beautiful enough, constantly thinks that you deserve more, then in the end she begins to be jealous of you all in a row.

In addition, the girl may well be jealous of you only because you do not devote enough time to her. For example, she calls you to work, hears female voices next to you and your excuse that you are busy right now. In such a situation, scandal cannot be avoided. Girls can feel the same jealousy if you always answer the calls of your mother, sister, colleagues, and you always have time for them.

Another common reason originates from the very childhood of the girl. That is, she grew up in an atmosphere where jealousy, distrust, suspicion, or even betrayal were constantly present. When a girl grows up and observes such relationships of her parents, she involuntarily transfers them to her personal life, because for her this was the norm.

In any case, if a girl is jealous, then there are reasons for that. Many girls are real owners and, starting a relationship, try to create their own cozy little world in which they do not want to let anyone in. Therefore, your usual behavior, communication with other girls is perceived as a personal betrayal.

Before you begin to act, the guy must definitely find out for himself the reasons. Is the problem really only in it, in its incorrect perception of reality, or is it your fault, and you yourself constantly provoke quarrels?

If the reason is really in you, then you should start with yourself, then the jealousy of your other half will gradually come to naught, and complete trust will reign between you.

Changing yourself, not hers, is necessary if:

• You constantly stay at work and do not warn that you will be late;
• you give her little time, and even spend the weekend with friends, colleagues or just chatting on social networks;
• you never ask her about how her day went, you are not interested in her hobbies, work;
• on the street, in a restaurant or in a store, you constantly look at the girls;
• you never answer her phone calls, messages, and forget to give flowers even on holidays.

If your relationship is dear to you, and you want to live together calmly, without scenes of jealousy and scandals, then the first thing your girl needs is attention and care on your part. In fact, it is much easier to do than it seems. Start small. For example, just answer her phone calls throughout the day and don't talk to her annoyingly. If you can’t pick up the phone, call back later when you have time. Send her at least one SMS message during the day with the simplest question: “How are you?” How is your day going? ” No matter how trite it may sound, but the girls really perceive such trifles as care and love on the part of men.

Try to give her flowers for no reason, go somewhere together on the weekend. Give compliments, especially in the presence of other women. Such an act on your part will allow her not only to feel loved and desired, but also help her to increase her self-esteem.As soon as a girl feels care on your part, she will gain self-confidence and forget about all fears.

In order for the girl not to be jealous of you, try in her company to look only at her and not look at other representatives of the fair sex. Of course, when you are only in the male company of your friends, you can look at other beauties. But you should not do this in the presence of your soulmate. Moreover, never praise other girls in her presence, do not compliment them and do not admire their abilities. Even if these girls are your sisters or relatives. Such behavior on your part will be misunderstood by your girlfriend, and as a result, jealousy will begin to arise in her. By the way, if your house often has friends, sisters of your spouse, then you too should behave more restraintly and not give any reason for jealousy.

If your soulmate is very often jealous of you for no reason, then you should speak frankly with her. This is nothing complicated. On the contrary, the girl will appreciate such an act on your part. After all, calling her for a frank conversation, you show her your concern and concern for her. The conversation should take place in a calm atmosphere, without scandals and mutual reproaches.

Start the conversation with a simple phrase that will set it on the right wave: “Darling, I want to understand what is happening to you. Let's talk and figure it out together. ” Upon hearing this, each girl will understand that she is not indifferent to you, that you think about her, worry and worry about her. During a conversation, you should often tell her about your feelings in order to convince her that all doubts and fears should be left behind, that you love her and value her relationship.

Faced with the jealousy of their other half, many guys make gross mistakes, and thereby only exacerbate the situation. If you see that a girl is offended by you, that she is jealous, then it’s worth starting a calm and frank conversation with her — that will be right. But if you start screaming in response to her reproaches, blaming her for the fact that everything seems to her or, at all, slamming the door, leave, then this will be your mistake. Thanks to this behavior, she will only be convinced that she was right.

Another mistake most men make is that they let things go by their own accord. and sincerely believe that she will calm down and everything will work out. At such moments, men ignore the messages, calls, behavior and claims of their soulmate. Ignoring my beloved and pretending that everything is fine is a mistake that should be avoided.

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