Despite all his masculinity, not every man is able to express sympathy for a girl he likes. Very often, the young man is prevented by fear of rejection, and therefore he prefers to remain in the shade. However, having correctly built communication with the lady and finding the right approach to her, you can confess your feelings without fear of rejection of reciprocity.
How to hint?
Before hinting at a girl about sympathy, her location must be achieved. To do this, try to spend more time with the object of adoration, communicating not only live, but also on social networks.
You can attract the attention of a lady through eye contact. Most girls believe that if a young man listens carefully to her, then he will definitely look into the eyes. It is very important to be interested in the life of the chosen one and constantly support her. In this way, you can achieve the trust of a lady, which ultimately leads to mutual sympathy.
Not all modern men show gallantry in relation to the weaker sex, while every girl dreams of a gentleman. To win the heart of the chosen one, you need to have not only politeness, but also compliance. You also need to be generous, showing the lady his selflessness.
To like a girl, you need a positive attitude. A gloomy and forever dissatisfied young man is unlikely to interest a lady, but a cheerful and courageous guy will surely appeal to her. In addition, in order to win the heart of the chosen one, perseverance will be needed, since girls value self-confidence in men.
Before you admit sympathy, it is important to find out her attitude towards you. For such information, you can contact common friends. Unfortunately, this method may not bring results, since girlfriends simply refuse to talk about this topic.
To express a girl sympathy, you can use the following techniques.
- Compliments allow you to express admiration and emphasize the dignity of the lady. Flattering words need to be spoken to the place and in moderation, otherwise the girl will suspect the young man of a lie.
- Honesty will help to avoid many awkward moments. Honestly admitting to the beloved in her feelings, one can not only ease the soul, but also instantly find out the relationship.
- Understatement can be a great tool for a lady's interest. A guy can hint a girl about his feelings, but not talk about them directly.
- Focusing attention will work if other girls are around. To do this, you need to casually say: “You are the most beautiful here” or “It’s good that the most attractive girl is next to me.”
- Jokes will be a great helper if the chosen one has a good sense of humor. This technique involves not only telling funny stories and jokes, but also using ambiguous phrases. For example, the phrase "Our children will not forgive us for this" can seriously puzzle a lady.
- A common hobby will help bring the young man closer to the object of sighing. Pursuing one thing or discussing things interesting for both, you can talk about sympathy without further ado.
- Demonstration of interest. Each girl dreams of being the only one, and therefore she will certainly appreciate the close attention from the boyfriend. To do this, you need to appoint a lady more often and write on social networks.
How to admit sympathy?
Even being in the close circle of the girl and having achieved her location, not every young man can immediately tell her directly about his sympathy. This is usually due to the low self-esteem of a guy who is simply afraid to be rejected. But if you do not express your feelings on time, then you can miss the moment and forever remain for your beloved just a friend.
It is especially difficult for a guy to admit sympathy to a close friend. It may seem to him that his feelings will harm friendship or even lead to the breakdown of friendships. It must be remembered that most couples are based on friendship, as partners share common interests.
The advantage of a couple based on friendships is strength and reliability. Friends have known each other for a long time, and therefore will not part on a silly occasion. Many unions break up precisely because the partners began a relationship at the beginning of the meeting. Anyone who at the first meeting can cause falling in love, after a couple of meetings is able to repel stupid reasoning or sloppiness.
It is not easy to tell a girl about falling in love when she is already in a relationship with another guy. To begin such a conversation is appropriate only with full confidence that their union is not strong enough. For example, one can talk about feelings when a girl is in a quarrel with her young man or when a young man sees that a love affair gives the beloved one suffering.
If a young man likes an older woman, then it is not enough to express sympathy with beautiful words. It is necessary to perform courageous acts proving the seriousness of his intentions. For example, you need to bring a lady a medicine when she is sick, or help repair a faulty technique.
The easiest way is to express sympathy for the girl who herself shows interest in the young man. You can determine this by her behavior. If she is always glad to see you, immediately answers calls and SMS, agrees to a joint pastime, then for sure she has tender feelings for you. In this case, it is much easier to tell the chosen one that you like her.
You can admit sympathy with the help of poems. A recognition will be especially touching if it is written with one's own hand. It is not necessary at the same time to be an outstanding poet - it is enough to be able to rhyme and beautifully add words.
Flowers and other pleasant things will help to talk about feelings.For example, you can give a lady a bouquet of soft toys or sweets. In addition, you can give a book about which the girl had long dreamed of, or invite a chosen one to a romantic film.
What to do in case of failure?
Often, recognition of feelings can cause bewilderment and even rejection. It is important to behave correctly, since aggression or an expression of resentment will not only aggravate the situation, but also ruin the guy’s reputation.
Feminine "no" does not always mean exactly failure. The intonation with which the girl refused to reciprocate can mean a lot. If the phrase is said with a serious expression, then “no” means “no.” But if at the same time a woman smiles and flirts, this means that she simply "plays a denial." Sometimes the fairer sex is refused in order to get a price and force the boyfriend to seek its location. They want to be sought out and committed for their sake romantic acts.
To avoid gross rejection, the guy should not ask a direct question about whether the chosen one will meet with him. The girl may be afraid to seem affordable, and therefore, probably refuse. But if you start with dating invitations, you can increase the chances of reciprocity.
Do not build illusions about relationships with the object of adoration. Before you admit your feelings and offer to meet, you need to make sure reciprocity. It is possible to understand that a lady is located positively by the way she reacts to touch and courtship. It is logical to assume that the chosen one will refuse the guy if she did not initially make contact.
It is not necessary to formally invite the girl to meet. If your meetings take place on a regular basis, and you feel easy in the company of each other, then you can simply gradually move on to more serious actions. For example, you can start with a hug or with kisses on the cheek.
If the chosen one still refused reciprocity, then do not despair and become depressed. First of all, you need to find out the reason for the refusal. Perhaps the blame for the young man’s excessive persistence or too quick a transition from acquaintance to an expression of sympathy.
The reason for the refusal may lie in the reputation of the guy. Not very good rumors can go about him that prevent a lady from believing in the sincerity of his feelings. Therefore, it is important to immediately clarify the situation in order to show the beloved the disinterestedness of his intentions.
Having been refused, the best solution would be to bring the lady to a frank conversation. Clarification of relationships will help to maintain friendship and, possibly, change something. If the guy has serious intentions, then it is in his interests to do everything to correct the situation. It is necessary to gradually return the confidence of the girl, using all her positive qualities for this.
Tips
Every man should understand that it is not enough to have a presentable appearance in order to win the woman’s heart. It is necessary to be a versatile person, able to attract a lady not only with beautiful eyes, but also with a pleasant character.
Self Improvement Tips.
- Keep track of your appearance: the girl would rather pay attention to the courtship of the guy, if he will have a perfect appearance. Moreover, this is not about natural data, but about neatness and cleanliness. Therefore, when going to a meeting with the object of sighing, it is important to make sure that the hair, nails, shoes and clothes are in perfect condition.
- Develop your mind: intellectually developed men attract women much more than inflated ignoramuses. A good appearance may make a first impression, but in the future you will need to use mental abilities.
- Temper character: any girl dreams of a strong man who can stand up for the lady of the heart and solve any of her problems. If a young man does not fulfill his promises and runs away from troubles, then he will quickly disappoint the chosen one and provoke a breakdown in relations.
- Be optimistic: gloomy and eternally dissatisfied people are not able to arrange an interlocutor. The girl is more likely to reciprocate a cheerful and sociable guy than pay attention to a secretive and pessimistic young man.
- Be generous: girls love generous men. If at the first date the guy begins to loudly calculate expenses or offers to split the bill, then the companion will most likely refuse to meet again.
There is an opinion that girls like bad guys. In fact, any person dreams of a knight who is able to protect the lady of the heart. For this reason, it is important for young men to possess masculine qualities that will help them achieve reciprocity in relations with the weaker sex.
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