What do girls like and how to attract their attention?

Not every young man is able to easily and simply make new acquaintances, especially when it comes to girls. Many guys get lost and fall into a stupor, not knowing how to take the first step correctly. In order to please a lady and gain her interest, it is necessary to be not only original, but also a pleasant conversationalist. In addition, you should not fall into despair if the attempt to get to know each other was unsuccessful.

In today's world, young people increasingly prefer communicating on the Internet, since virtuality does not require them to have an ideal appearance and does not oblige them to anything. However, dating in real life still takes place, since it is spontaneous meetings on the street that are remembered best.

Girls like persistence and masculinity in menand therefore they would rather pay attention to a charismatic young man than to a stuttering schoolboy. Therefore, when you first meet you need to give the impression of confidence and openness. To do this, you need to behave as relaxed as possible, sincerely and as often as possible to engage direct eye contact with a stranger.

To interest a beautiful girl, you can use any available information, which you can get at the first meeting. Good informants can be books, images on clothes, tattoos, and so on. It is necessary to use the obtained data correctly and not persistently.For example, you can go to the object of sympathy and ask: “And where did you buy such a T-shirt? He went around all the shops, but she’s not anywhere. ”

When playing with a girl, you can play on hand. If the meeting took place at a concert or exhibition, then we can safely assume that the tastes of young men and ladies coincide. This is the most convenient option, as it will be much easier to start a conversation on a common topic.

Of course, every woman wants to feel welcome, and therefore at the first meeting it is appropriate to compliment a lady. In this case, it is necessary to be extremely tactful and careful, otherwise the abundance of pleasant words will not only confuse the stranger, but rather make him suspect of insincerity. To get acquainted with a girl who is surrounded by friends, it is important to start a conversation with all the ladies. This is necessary so as not to offend them and make a good impression. If you immediately begin to pay increased attention to the stranger you liked, then you can hurt the pride of her friends. Namely, their opinion can ultimately play a decisive role.

If a guy decided to meet a girl on a social network, then first of all, you need to start searching for passion in thematic groups. Due to the presence of common interests, the interlocutors will quickly find a common language and, quite possibly, will later become great friends. When communicating on the Internet, it is important to be not only polite and compliant, but also competent. It is unlikely that any lady will appreciate the huge number of grammatical errors of a potential boyfriend. If there are some problems with the grammar, you can always use the online text check for errors before sending a message to the addressee.

Not only girls, but also men are waiting for the first date with trepidation. It is they who bear the responsibility for organizing the upcoming pastime, and therefore they experience special experiences. Of course, it is easier for experienced guys to prepare for a meeting, as they know how to teach themselves and what to say. But beginners have to study a lot of literature and take advantage of a lot of advice before heading to the appointed place.

Consider the basic rules of a perfect first date.

• Seat selection - in order to get to know the stranger better and set her up for long communication, it is worth choosing a meeting place, devoid of noise and crowd. This will give the man the opportunity to better know the companion, while she will feel comfortable. The planning of the cultural program should be based on the preferences of the lady. For example, if she likes outdoor activities, then it is worth organizing a walk for her with a further outing.
• Punctuality - in order to make a good impression and not make the girl nervous, it is necessary to arrive at the meeting place on time. The frivolity and lack of commitment of the boyfriend will allow the lady to draw disappointing conclusions and seriously ruin her mood.
• Manners - any woman wants to feel care from the male side, and therefore it is important to be a gentleman on a first date. It is not necessary to pretend to be a gallant gentleman, it is enough just to do basic things. For example, open a door in front of a companion or help to get around an obstacle.

• Flowers - having come to a meeting with a bouquet of flowers, you can immediately locate a lady and set her in a romantic mood. It is not necessary to spend huge amounts of money and choose expensive bouquets. You can collect wildflowers yourself or buy them in the transition from some grandmother.
• Sociability - it is unlikely that the girl will want to continue acquaintance with the young man, who during the meeting only mentioned a couple of phrases. To fill awkward moments of silence, a man must take the initiative and propose a new topic for conversation. It is advisable to prepare a list of topics in advance that will help diversify the evening.
• Generosity - Modern men increasingly prefer to split the bill in half. This behavior scares off most women who are used to seeing a generous defender as a partner. The voicing of prices or the companion's indignation at the high cost of dishes can also spoil the overall impression.

To make a good impression, it’s not good to organize the first date, it’s also important to dress properly. No woman will like a fat and ugly man with greasy hair, radiating the smell of sweat.

• The first thing that catches your eye is neatness and grooming. Even dirty shoes or long nails can push away a companion. To make a good impression, you first need to put your hair and hands in order, as well as take care of the cleanliness and integrity of the shoes.
• It is important to take clothing choices seriously. It will be inappropriate to come to a meeting in a city park in a classic suit. A tracksuit and out-of-size clothing will look especially bad on a first date.
• In addition to the impeccable condition of the clothes, the man must take care of the pleasant smell. To do this, dress in clean clothes and use toilet water.
• To make a good first impression, you don’t need to dress in uncomfortable clothes or create a fictitious image. To “hook” a girl, you need to behave relaxed and openly, and this is impossible if you constantly try to keep the brand.

• To please a young girl, a young man is enough to have great charm. He should be sociable, open and not afraid to take the initiative. But the older a lady becomes, the more difficult it is to attract her attention. What teenagers like is unlikely to interest a woman over 40 years old.
• To attract the attention of an adult lady, it is not enough to pour compliments and try to flatter. In the eyes of an adult, it will look childish, and therefore this boyfriend will not be taken seriously. To really interest a stranger, it is important to behave with restraint and confidence.

• In communication with a 20-year-old girl, it is appropriate to mention your friends and tell funny stories from the past. A lady over 30 is looking for reliability and stability in a satellite, and therefore, rather, she will be interested in big plans than stories about childish pranks.
• When communicating with a woman, it is very important not to remind about the age difference. Even if the companion is much younger, you do not need to focus on this. Thus, you can make her feel not mature enough and smart to interest an adult man.

All people combine several types of temperament, which determines their general model of behavior. Representatives of the male can be divided into four types, taking into account the nature and model of behavior.

• "Warrior" - different decisive and strong-willed character. Such a man easily begins new acquaintances and does not experience uncertainty on the first date. Self-realization and an active lifestyle are important to him, and therefore such an individual should choose a purposeful and open girl as a companion. In order not to scare away the stranger, the “warrior” should temporarily pacify his ardor and try to focus on his interlocutor, instead of showing his strength to her.

• "Master" - has a strong temperament, which allows him to be a real master of the situation. Such men are aimed at creating lasting relationships, and therefore should pay attention to domestic girls who value comfort and family.It is important for such girls to feel themselves under reliable protection, and therefore, when meeting, guys of this type must prove their ability to protect.

• "Celebration" - a type that is characterized by qualities such as volatility and unpredictability. It is characterized by impulsivity and sociability, which allow the young man to always be in the spotlight. As a rule, representatives of this type are not looking for a serious relationship and often change partners. They easily acquire new connections and just as easily break off old ones.

• "Creator" - the most shy type of men, which is characterized by isolation and mystery. It is hard for such young men to get to know each other, and therefore they prefer to remain in the shade. As companions, they need to look for more emotional girls who can diversify the life of the "creators" and bring bright colors into it. Representatives of this type can interest women using social networks, posting the results of their creative activity in thematic groups.

Any man wants to understand the psychology of women in order to properly build relationships with them. Both the guy’s behavior model and the place of dating depend on the purpose of dating.

• For example, to get short-term connections, it is best to go to a nightclub in which most of the ladies are open to communication.
• If the young man wants to find a serious relationship, then it is best to go to a city park or to an art exhibition. Common friends and acquaintances can help find a partner, from whom you can learn all the information about the stranger in advance.
• Do not try to start a conversation on a busy street or train station. Perhaps at that very moment the lady was in a hurry somewhere and was not going to communicate. But in the train or in the amusement park, the chances of a successful acquaintance are much greater.

• To impress a girl who for some reason doesn’t like the guy, you can resort to some tricks. For example, you can find out what smells the fiance loves and choose a men's perfume with a similar aroma. The persistence of the boyfriend can also work. To do this, he needs to appear more often in the field of vision of the object of adoration and constantly give the lady increased attention.
• The fastest way to attract the attention of a girl is with the help of compliments. But it is important to praise not only external data, but also mental abilities, and human qualities.

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