Features of a male introvert and his behavior in relationships

Psychology defines two basic human psychotypes: introvert and extrovert. After conducting various surveys, observations and experiments, it was believed that most of the world's population are extroverts.

But in this article we will not talk about them, on the contrary, we will talk about introverts, let's see who these male introverts are. We will learn to recognize them, study the nature, behavior, understand what approach to choose, and be sure to find out what they are in love.

First, it is worth determining who an introvert is from the point of view of psychology. This is a person who is focused on his inner world and completely immersed in it. For the introvert, their thoughts and experiences are important, they rarely leave the comfort zone, have little trust in people and prefer proud loneliness.

An introvert has the following character features:

• thinks through all his actions in detail;
• communication is rarely spontaneous, most likely, he pursues a certain goal, so a conversation with him may seem tense;
• does not need constant communication;
• an unpleasant situation leaves a huge mark on the emotional state and does not let go of his thoughts for a long time;
• rather well developed fantasy;
• very purposeful person;
• always controls his emotions, and rarely shows them;
• patient, observant, inclined to analyze everything that happened.

Signs of a male introvert:

• loves a quiet and peaceful pastime;
• conservative in views and opinions;
• many male introverts love books and consider them the best gift;
• express their gratitude by actions, words mean nothing to them;
• introvert husband - everything you can wish for, they have no equal in married life;
• love to think and talk on deep topics;
• empty conversations are not for them; the conversation is brief and concise;
• stingy on the manifestation of emotions.

This type of personality is very closed in itself, hidden, lives in its own world, and prefers not to let anyone in there. When dealing with this man, you are unlikely to be able to confuse and confuse him, as he is confident in himself and in his values.

All these characteristics can even frighten a woman. When meeting with an introvert, you need to act correctly and know a few basic rules that will help you get to know each other and start communicating.

• Introverts do not like lies and understatement. Be extremely frank and sincere.
• Be sure to listen to the man, they love it.
• Do not touch upon those who can remind the introvert of their own failures.
• Help and support him verbally. An introvert man will appreciate it.
• Do not be too pushy. An introvert needs time to get to know you and evaluate your positive qualities.
• Forget about moral pressure. It will not lead to anything good. Show gentleness and courtesy, then he will answer you the same. And do not impose your opinion. You can express it, but if he wants to stay with his own, so be it.

Adhere to these rules, and most likely, one conversation will be followed by another.

We have already figured out that this psychotype of men is rather complicated. They are the same in relationships and in love. Very often, with their secrecy and indifference, they can drive crazy and provoke not very pleasant thoughts.

If your companion is of this type, be prepared for a certain manner of behavior in a relationship, and learn how to calmly accept what is happening. Let us dwell on the main features, as well as relationship problems.

• Ignores your call. They do not like telephone conversations. This man will find many reasons not to answer. Be smarter - write a message.
• Work and only work. Sometimes it seems that she is in the first place for them. This is not entirely true, just if you really started to do something, you must definitely bring it to the end. Do not even think to make you choose between work and you. Understand and accept the situation. For this, you will no doubt be rewarded.
• Answers in a nutshell. He does not like long and meaningless conversations, very brief in conversation.
• Lost in noisy companies. The company of strangers, parties - not for introvert. He would prefer solitude. Help him pass him by.

• Does not spread about their problems. He solves his problems and ponders himself. He will never tell you about them. If you see that your man has become sad and wilted, do not try to get information out of him. Just ask if he sees fit, he will tell.
• He loves animals very much. And if you are a guest, and your man prefers to play with a dog than to sit with everyone at the table, do not scold him, let him play enough.
• Apathy. You can plan an event for a long time, and at the last moment he wants to cancel everything and lie on the couch. Keep calm. Offer to transfer everything to another day.
• Slowness. Very painstaking in making decisions, committing acts. You will need to take the initiative sometimes. But do not forget to ask his opinion.
• Fear of criticism. Never criticize your introvert man or compare him to others.He will be very offended, and making peace with such a guy is difficult.

We are all pleased to know and hear that they love us. You have been trying for so long to fall in love with an introvert man, and everything seems to be fine, but how do you know if he is in love or not? Due to the qualities of character and stinginess in the manifestation of emotions, it is very difficult to recognize the attitude of the introvert towards you.

Let's look at how introverts in love behave.

• If, in order to spend time with you, the introvert leaves his comfort zone, it definitely means something. He can go to a club, to a party, a picnic for you, although he had not been a supporter of such entertainment before.
• He is silent all the time, does not answer questions, and you begin to think that he is simply not interested. It's not like that at all. An introvert loves and respects silence, and it was you who became the one who won the right to share it with him.
• Introverts have an excellent sense of humor, but not all of them demonstrate it. Rather, on the contrary, they prefer to seem sarcastic. And if he jokes with you, laughs, then you are no longer a stranger.
• If you are already in an introvert relationship, you have nothing to worry about. Before agreeing to a serious relationship, the introvert will think, ponder, evaluate the situation and the applicant himself, who is going to become part of his world.

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