What to write to a girl who likes?

It often happens that it is difficult for a young man to continue communicating with a girl whom he liked while meeting. In such situations, excessive modesty and shyness usually interfere, the guy is not confident in his abilities, therefore he is embarrassed to tell the girl about his feelings and generally keep in touch with her. Sometimes, on the contrary, a man is so proud that he behaves too assertively in relation to the opposite sex. Let's figure out what and how to write a girl, so as not only to please her, but also to keep her attention.

Girls do not accept platitudes. It’s absolutely boring when a seemingly handsome young man writes some trivial things. For example, “Hello, how are you?”, “What are you doing?”, “How did you sleep today?” etc. Obviously, when you are in a relationship for a long time, it may look like a concern. But if your acquaintance took place recently, then such turns are not at all appropriate.

It is important to “hook” a person so that he again wants to communicate with you, access social networks, and always be in touch. Be original. Do not write platitudes, come up with something unusual. Let’s say, “Today you will definitely conquer the Universe, have a nice day!” or "May you dream of lilac rhinos in Africa." Let it be stupid, but it will be from the heart.

Forget monosyllabic questions.Encourage the girl to communicate. Do not ask what you can answer “Yes”, “No” or do simple “Good”. You need to lure the girl, call her for dialogue, that means someone must start, let it be just a young man.

Try to ask something that you can answer in detail. For example, “What emotions did this movie arouse in you?” or "What do you think of the last event at the school / institute?"

This is even more important. What else can attract attention if not a good joke? Of course, you can find interesting and uplifting jokes on the Internet. But it will be much more effective in time to show your own sense of humor. You do not need to think in a stereotyped way, just look at the situation from the side, think up your own situations and act, but always with humor.

For example, if a girl is offline or does not answer for a long time, it is better not to use the banal "Where are you?" Try to write "What well did you fail there?" or "are you alive?"

No need to be a bore. Yes, in the literal sense. Do not write too often, too much and without much reason. Of course, it is important to maintain constant contact, but any patient will become very annoyed by the situation when the correspondence lasts for whole days. Ultimately, you will be left overboard. Therefore, it is necessary to leave both yourself and the girl time for personal thoughts, a place for personal space.

It is very important to understand what kind of person you are dealing with. Suppose you have never seen a girl, therefore, you have no common topics for conversation. To start a dialogue, you need to find any similarities, her or your hobbies, which can attract attention. To do this, carefully study her page on the social network. There you can find, for example, a woman’s musical preferences or maybe her hobbies by the groups in which she is a member.

For many representatives of the beautiful half of humanity, the most important factor is the young person’s ability to handle the word. That is, his literacy, the correct and appropriate use of certain words and concepts. You will make a positive impression on a worthy and educated girl if your messages comply with spelling standards, punctuation marks are placed where necessary, and words are used in the right context.

Besides the fact that you have become an excellent conversationalist, you need to be able to maintain the girl’s attention towards you, make her want to communicate with you not only on the Internet, but also in life. She doesn’t like correspondence very much; she must be on top and awake.

• First of all, it is necessary to find common interests. It can be anything: from films to fishing, from skiing to collecting old books. Try to find a hobby that unites you, it will take your relationship to a new level. And then, together, try something new, take a chance to try out some unusual food or watch the horror movie that you are so afraid of.
• Flirt! When she sees that you want to continue dating, she certainly will not remain indifferent to your efforts. Always write her compliments, but remember the measure and know your worth. It is important that the return is from both.
• Let her know that you are constantly thinking about her. Even a message written late at night will make her believe that thoughts about her visit you around the clock. Of course, this will be a pleasure for every girl.
• In any business, it is important to know the measure, and especially when dealing with a girl. Do not overdo it with constant correspondence, it depresses any person. In addition, endless messaging cannot lead to a successful pairing. Try to be unobtrusive and strive to ensure that the girl begins to write to you first. This will clearly indicate the fact that your relationship has a future.

Of course, beautiful words can attract a huge number of women. However, it is much more important not just to throw compliments in different directions, but to tell the truth, write truly sincere and informative SMS messages. Especially if you do not want to linger at this stage of the relationship. Let's look at some examples of original letters.

• “Today is ideal for new acquaintances. Don't you think it’s happening right now? ”
• "Good afternoon! My name is Alexander. We are in the same group, I think we have a lot in common. Do not want to meet?".
• "Hello! Most likely, you don’t remember me, but I can’t stop thinking about you. ”
• "Good evening! Today at the party you moved very well, do not want to keep me company at tomorrow's holiday? ”

• “Today, a beautiful photo has appeared on your page. I love. How did you manage to take such a shot? ”
• “Every day I hasten to log on to enjoy chatting with you.”
• “I am interested in communicating with you on the Internet. I look forward to our meeting in reality. ”

• “My most enjoyable thing is to think about you.”
• "The best woman in the universe spent tonight with me."
• “I do not want the minutes of our communication with you to end.”

• “I want to fix what happened. I promise you will like the edits. ”
• “I understand, because of my character you are now nervous. I promise you will be calm now. ”
• “I don't want to lose you because of such stupidity. Sorry".

• "Today you are so charming that I completely forgot to say hello."
• “You have no strings? I would like to make friends with you! ”
• Greetings in foreign languages ​​emphasize your personality. For example, "Salute!".
• "Hi". It would seem like a very simple word, but usually it is perceived more gratefully than the banal "Hello".

• “Do not forget about the alarm clock! Work will not wait. ”
• “I went to bed so that the day would come sooner when we met.”
• “Sleep tight. I will protect your dream. "

• “Have a nice day, and I'll be waiting for the evening to hug you soon.”
• "I was protecting your dream, and now I will provide you with a good day."
• "Good morning! I've been thinking about you all night. ”

Many girls say that phrases in the message like “Hello. How are you?". They believe that it is hackneyed and does not attract attention at all. Most likely, after this message, the girl will break all contacts with you.

Some representatives of the beautiful half of humanity are especially embarrassed when young people allow themselves to make all kinds of vulgar jokes and hints of a sexual nature. Of course, this makes you think about the seriousness of the intentions of the guy.

The use of various jargons and obscene expressions also will not lead to anything good. At least, this is unacceptable in the first days of communication, when people can judge each other only by their appearance or style of writing.

An equally important factor is the observance of spelling and grammatical norms of the Russian language. Your meager vocabulary definitely will not lead to anything good, but will only aggravate the situation of continuing to meet a girl.

Girls always pay attention to details invisible to the male eye. Therefore, it is important to put your village in order: add truthful information about yourself, put a photo in a sober state, with a good mood. For a correct picture of you in the eyes of others, indicate your interests, hobbies.

"Hello, let's get acquainted!" - This is better not to write, because such a form does not imply the word "No" for the answer. Therefore, this will put the girl in a difficult position, which will instantly distract her directly from you.

“Most likely, my message will remain unread, but ...” - such phrases demonstrate the strongest uncertainty of the man and, as a result, drop his significance in the eyes of the woman.

“Maybe I'm not at all your type” - for sure this will greatly alert the girl, because how does she know who is behind the monitor screen. Moreover, you are in the same situation, because there is also not much information about the person you are talking to.

In any case, in correspondence with the girl you liked, it is important to be yourself. After all, who knows, maybe with her you will be able to build a wonderful family.

For errors in correspondence with a girl, see the video below.