Thirty years is an important date in the life of any man, because this is a kind of milestone, after which the true essence of man is already visible. On the one hand, at the age of thirty, a man is still quite young and can have excellent prospects, on the other, by this moment he could already achieve a lot in life. Accordingly, such an anniversary is an occasion to receive a special gift. For most successful thirty-year-old men, the closest relative is the wife, therefore it is from her that he expects to receive a present, dear, if not financially, then morally.
Best ideas
If you show sufficient imagination, then for 30 years you can give your husband a lot of different useful things, which he will be truly happy with. Everything, of course, depends on the preferences of a particular representative of the stronger sex, so we will not even try to make a complete list of what can be handed over to the 30th anniversary. Instead, we briefly go through all the main categories of gifts that are in demand among most birthday people.
Clothes and accessories
It is generally believed that this direction of gift choice is more interesting for women, but it is not in vain that in various men's groups the main corporate gift is a tie or shirt. This, of course, is a terrible banality and if your man at work is given something like this regularly, do not try to repeat - did not have enough to put themselves on the level of barely familiar people.
Another thing is if the husband’s work does not involve such gifts, and he himself can be considered a fashionista or has long expressed a desire to have, for example, expensive and fashionable sneakers from a well-known brand.This is a completely different question, because any man in the soul likes to look attractive and stylish. Here of course it is important to clearly understand the tastes of a loved one, so as not to give something that does not like. However, clothes can be presented in a more original way: for example, an avid fisherman or hunter will surely find a new comfortable and warm camouflage useful.
Accessories are given less often, but they also fit very well under a certain style. So, for a business person, a leather briefcase or a folder made of the same material will become a very stylish addition; no one canceled expensive cufflinks. In the end, branded watches or expensive perfumes, if they fit into the general image of a man, can also be met with approval on his part.
Jewelry
Most men are not very interested in jewelry products and find it more reasonable to spend money on something more practical. However, in certain circles, the presence of expensive jewelry can indicate the status of their owner, and, therefore, will help in the conduct of the same business. From this point of view, jewelry in the eyes of a man can suddenly become practical, and then such a gift will be received more warmly.
When choosing a gift for her husband in a jewelry salon, one should remember that jewelry should not violate the general severity of the image, otherwise an active young businessman will turn into a gypsy baron.
In most cases, the choice is limited to two categories - you can give either a chain or a ring. Sometimes a bracelet or even a gold watch can also be an alternative, but such gifts are usually very expensive, so not every woman can afford them.
Books
At its best, a man is perceived as a rational and thoughtful creature, so the book for such a birthday person looks like an eternally relevant gift that will always remain appropriate. In this case, the wife is required to choose the right folio, since the sheer scale of the occasion makes serious demands on the present.
First of all, you need to build on the interests and hobbies of your husband. So, if he loves fiction of a certain genre, you need to choose a bestseller of the appropriate direction, which until now somehow did not fall into the hands of your man. At the same time, many men often perceive the book also as a source of useful knowledge about a certain field of activity, so some impressive encyclopedia or gift publication on topics of interest to the hero of the day will also work.
Perhaps the only problem with the delivery of books for the thirtieth anniversary is that an ordinary volume is usually not perceived as something outstanding. Most of the books today are available to anyone, they are presented not only for the anniversary, but also for ordinary birthdays, and even just like that, and not only close to the level of the wife, but also colleagues. We will have to make sure that the present does not look too small.
We already mentioned casually about gift editions - they differ in large format and large illustrations on quality paper, and therefore stand impressive. As an alternative, you can donate not one book, but a whole collection of several volumes.
Games
The modern reality is that games have become an integral part of our lives, and therefore can be a good gift for an anniversary. Here we should separately consider two completely different categories of games - desktop and computer.
- Table games often impressed with their complexity, they can have an intricate storyline and rules that will drag a man in for hours. Many of them are cool enough and interesting even for serious adults, so you should not think that everything is limited to banal chess, backgammon and dominoes.Among other things, such a present also makes it possible to have an interesting time with friends, however, keep in mind that then your husband should definitely have a company for the game - you won’t play this alone.
- Computer games At first, they were considered the lot of adolescents and youth, but during their existence these categories of the population grew and celebrate their thirtieth birthday without abandoning their favorite hobbies. In the end, an adult also sometimes needs to distract from everyday problems, switching to virtual ones, especially if they are solved much easier, and in the game your husband achieves much greater success than in life.
At the same time, you need to at least roughly understand what kind of toys a man is interested in, and if you are afraid of losing it in the digital world, find a way to give something that you can play together.
Instruments
In recent years, there has been a growing tendency towards an increasing bias towards professionalism - now more and more men do not belong to the jack of all trades, but prefer to make money with their basic skills, so that if something breaks down, they simply call a professional.
However, public opinion often still requires a man to be a classic man, so sometimes a person who has never held anything heavier than a mouse in his hands is pleased to drive a nail into the wall on his own to catch his wife’s contented look. Even for such a simple operation, minimal tools are required, which should still be at home.
At the same time, there are such representatives of the stronger sex who like to craft something in their free time, whether it's practical things or just crafts. If the husband’s hands require work, and he still sits for a long time over the construction of something, a very careful step on the part of the wife will give him a set of tools that will greatly simplify the task at hand. Perhaps the homemaster himself likes the result no less than the process itself, so he should not be upset by such a gift.
Sport equipment
By the age of thirty, not all men think about regular sports, but it is at this age that some people think of the need to strengthen their own health and the need to put themselves in order. Such a desire is commendable, because the husband will become healthier, and with a thorough approach to completing the task, he may also become prettier, which will not go unnoticed by his wife, so the flared interest can be encouraged by the delivery of equipment for classes.
The first thing that comes to mind is, of course, all sorts of dumbbells and barbells, and for especially active ones - soccer balls, but for thirty years it's all too commonplace. The necessary equipment can be found in the gym, so the husband's fit can be stimulated with gifts from the tourist destination. For example, the same tent is great for hiking in the mountains, and such a trip will definitely help restore physical fitness and help to bond the family.
As an option, do not forget about fishing equipment, because fishing, according to so many men, is also a sport, and a significant number of them consider themselves avid fishermen.
New impressions
By the age of thirty, the life of most men settles down and begins to flow in the usual course. Even if a person is happy with everything, it is unlikely that someone will argue that too monotonous existence sooner or later bothers and always wants something new. Sometimes intangible gifts are perceived much better than tangible gifts, so this option is worth a try.
For example, if your husband can be considered a traveler and easy enough to climb, and still not have problems in order to take time off from work, you can surprise him and arrange a trip for two.Perhaps you go somewhere on vacation every year, but the vacation is planned in advance and because of this it even loses a little in the amount of emotions provided, but everything has already been done - you just need to take it and go, and right away.
If the birthday does not yet fall on the traditional holiday season, you can choose a certain non-banal direction and really recharge with new emotions, just don’t be afraid to try what you previously ignored. Such a joint adventure will help to fan the fire of feelings in a relationship, as well as bring the couple closer together.
What to consider when choosing?
The most common mistake when choosing a present for a thirty year old man is to be sure that you understand him. No one argues that mutual understanding in the family can be at a very good level, but this does not mean that the couple has the same views on the world in everything. For example, he wears an old stretched T-shirt and sweatpants at home, and you decided to give him an expensive housecoat for his anniversary - this is risky, because for your husband, most likely, convenience is important, not appearance, and in this sense your gift can lose.
Forget about giving what you would like, being in his place - he is already an accomplished person and probably knows better what he wants. Listen carefully to his phrases starting with "I want", in extreme cases, just ask.
Remember that you are the closest relative to your husband, therefore it is from you that he expects something special. You can always buy something banal, focusing on what everyone likes, then your man will do, but this is the way to nowhere. This will show the birthday boy that you are not really interested in him, being guided in trends more than in the preferences of a loved one. Therefore, give only that which has a clear link to the gift.
Besides, never count on surprises - men usually don't like them. As we have already persuaded, it is quite difficult to guess the wishes of the husband, and if you did not guess with the gift, it will be difficult for him to pretend that this is what he actually expected, and you will be upset.
A real man does not like pretense, often he doesn’t succeed in it, even if he wants to seem believable, and justifying himself for not being happy about a thing you never wanted is not an occupation that you want to do on your own anniversary.
What is the husband unlikely to be happy with?
Thirty years, like any other holiday, may be fraught with the completely wrong choice of a gift that will not be understood by the birthday man. As a rule, presentations are given on such a day in order to please the hero of the occasion, therefore a woman is also unlikely to be satisfied if the representative of the stronger sex did not appreciate her efforts. The stop list of what definitely doesn’t fit on this date is not so long, but obvious mistakes should be avoided.
- Thirty years is a round and significant date, on this day the birthday man is waiting for something special, so do not be surprised if a man does not like the souvenir presented. In general, forget that you can give souvenirs to a loved one for a holiday such as a birthday or New Year's, especially if it is a man - these are usually very practical people who are not keen on trinkets.
- Even worse is the idea of buying something that both seem to need, but are more interested in a woman. So, bedding, a washing machine or a crock-pot - things seem to be useful, but any man will consider such a gift as the one you bought for yourself, hiding behind his holiday.
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