Of great importance is the appearance of a person, but his behavior is more important. Your success in a particular business, as well as the opportunity to achieve your goals will depend on how courteous and polite you are with others. In this article, we will consider ethical standards that should be followed.
Features
Ethical standards - this is a specific set of rules that defines behavior when interacting with people around. The main goal is to make contacts pleasant and more effective for everyone. If you do not observe etiquette, this will not lead to any punishment in the form of criminal or administrative liability. However, such behavior will be condemned by others. It is important to remember that all our actions characterize us as a person.
The science of morality is not currently taught in all educational institutions. That is why many young people are rude and tactless, do not know how to behave in various situations. It is important to educate modern youth in accordance with ethical standards.
Compliance with the rules of ethics can be achieved when everyone sets a good example. Remember that interacting with a polite person is a pleasure. Dialogue with the rude, on the contrary, a feeling of rejection, and even discomfort.
Not many rules apply to ethical principles of communication: do not raise the tone, do not be rude to your interlocutor, pay attention and listen to the speaker, do not interrupt the person and others.
Prerequisites for the occurrence can be found in the writings of Aristotle, who first used the term ethics, and also defined morality as a system of values for regulating social relations.Already in those days, people understood the importance and importance of ethical norms and rules of behavior for effective life.
Basic principles:
- the ability to sacrifice something for another;
- establish interactions with others in good traditions;
- self-criticism of oneself: meaning responsibility and the fulfillment of moral duty;
- fair treatment of your interlocutor and any situation;
- equal rights between people: a person who observes ethical standards will not put himself above his interlocutor.
Only with the help of sincerity and openness can trust arise between people, and then communication will already move to another, more qualitative level.
By building your dialogue morally, you can not only look attractive in the eyes of other people, but also earn respect and trust, as well as establish the necessary contacts.
Important components
We have already figured out that ethical standards are impossible without such important components as morality, ethics, and the code of ethics (as applied to different professions).
Here you can also note the golden rule: do with others the way you want to do with you. This concept is the basis of all principles of morality.
There are other types of ethical communication depending on the field: medicine, journalism, paperwork and others. All of them have their own content. However, the golden rule is a single system that goes through all the norms and principles.
One of the components of ethical standards is business etiquette. The success of any enterprise will depend on him. Effective and faithful interaction of people in business will make it easier to establish business contacts, conduct negotiations correctly and, as a result, conclude important contracts. The main thing is to follow the basic rules.
In any situation, you should always be polite. Regardless of the feelings and emotions experienced, it is important to maintain composure so as not to get into an awkward situation and subsequently not regret your behavior. Business etiquette implies compliance with certain rules in clothing, as well as creating a stylish appearance.
Ethical standards are also important in various professions, for example, in medicine. For sisterly behavior, one can distinguish principles such as humanity, compassion, goodwill, selflessness, hard work, and others. Only guided by these components, it is possible to conduct effective work.
Moral standards of relationships
The moral standards of our relationship are not legal. However, this does not mean that they can be easily broken. If everyone starts with himself, with awareness and improvement of his behavior, then the process of building a harmonious society will become possible.
The main purpose of such norms is the manifestation of kindness in a person. It is necessary to accept the fact that the soul needs to maintain a good internal climate. Such rules are relevant for any activity of people, violation of them leads to negative consequences. For example, with the active information component of the modern world, when there is access to the world wide web, you can find and receive any information. Some kind of unfriendly action seen by a teenager can be interpreted incorrectly and taken as the basis of behavior.
As therapeutic measures, regular discussions should be held with their children. In addition, it will be useful to introduce in schools subjects that will contribute to the child's right direction, how to function effectively in society and at the same time observe ethical standards of behavior.
Ethical standards are a system of common values and ethical rules that people observe. The main base should be politeness, correctness, tact, modesty in communication, accuracy and courtesy.
Expressing respect for your interlocutor - you express respect for yourself. It is worth remembering that each person is a person who deserves attention, understanding, proper treatment.
Ethics rules
You can get people around you using good manners and responsible behavior. Compliance with the norms and rules of ethics will help not only create the right impression when meeting you, but also earn a reputation as a well-educated and cultured person. Next, we analyze the basic rules of ethics.
- Tact or sense of proportion. You need to know what to say or do in a particular situation, and what norms of behavior prohibit. In this case, your modesty will play an important role. It is no secret that egocentric people always want to attract attention, to participate in all conversations. It is worth noting that you don’t learn tact, but you can develop this feeling. The main thing is desire and training.
- It is worth noting the tact in clothes. It’s not necessary to follow the latest fashion trends. It is important to simply dress with style and be neat. This will mean your attention to the interlocutor. People usually restrict communication with a sloppy person.
- Evaluate your style of conversation. It is worth being attentive and sensitive to the interlocutor, so as not to provoke difficult memories in the conversation, not to offend him with inappropriate jokes. Also, one should not insult a person. Whispers in the ear of a neighbor will be considered indecent. During an active discussion, one cannot too gesticulate or spray with saliva.
- It is important to be precise at all times, to avoid negligence. You should not seek out and be too curious. Remember that it will be bad form if you look at other people's documents or eavesdrop on other people's conversations. It is not necessary for a person to indicate his imperfections in clothing or behavior. If something worries you, then you need to tell him this in private. If you have been helped or provided a service, then you should thank the person.
- It is important to be able to control yourself. Appropriate behavior involves maintaining calm in any situation. Do not explicitly show your enthusiasm or discontent at a certain point. Do not defiantly leave if an unsympathetic person approached you. Also take care of other people and remember that women have advantages over men, older people over young people, sick people over healthy people.
Society encourages those types of good manners that establish constructive communication options as opposed to negative behavior. This refers to the manner of communicating, sitting, moving, etc.
Similar rules governing behavior are quite effective. Society is interested in everyone following them. It is thanks to the rules of behavior that effective management in production is created, optimal interaction in the team of employees, students, and high-quality performance of all tasks are ensured.
In this way, ethical standards govern the behavior that allows each person to accept another person, to exist effectively in society, to achieve goals.
Behavior examples
Denial of decency is a common behavior among young people. Of course, this model of behavior does not contain an unlawful violation, which means that it is not punished criminally or with the help of administrative fines. Moreover, more and more often in educational institutions they are beginning to pay attention to the issue of ethical standards.
Young people should absorb the values that adults share with them. This is why it is important to behave in accordance with the standards for both adults and children. Examples of behavior are very diverse.
- It is worth remembering that if you are guilty of a person, you should apologize briefly by saying the word "sorry" or "sorry, please." If you need to ask for a service, then you need to do this politely and courteously. You can say "I'm sorry to bother you" or "be kind."
- As for the movements, let them be as natural as possible. Walk firmly, measuredly and evenly. Make sure your hands do not hang lifelessly. Move them in a relaxed and easy way.Do not support their sides or keep them in your pockets. This behavior is unacceptable.
- By the way a person sits, we can talk about his upbringing. Do not do it imposingly, casually leaning back in the chair. Never throw your legs on the table, do not swing on a chair, do not sit on top of it. If you want to cross your legs, this is permissible, but you cannot allow the ankle to reach the knee of the other leg.
- A peculiarity of the behavior of some people is a bad habit of cleaning their nose, deafeningly blowing their nose. This is especially indecent to do in places where there are a lot of people.
- Do not betray your bad mood. Better smile friendly. Also, do not grimace. It will look tactless and unpleasant for others. When you are talking with someone, look the other person in the eye. You should not do this defiantly or arrogantly; rather, be friendly and modest.
- Do not chatter or mumble muffledly. Speak firmly and confidently, not very loudly, but not quietly, so that all your words are understandable. Often women seek to show their individuality by pronouncing words deliberately unnaturally. This should be done only in a friendly company.
- Particular attention is paid to laughter. It should not be deafening, riveting attention. Also, do not cover your face with your palms. It looks unattractive.
Of course, there are many more examples that will tell you about appropriate or inappropriate behavior. The basic principle is clear. Always try to put yourself in the place of another person before you say something or do it. It is thanks to ethical standards and rules of conduct that you can not only improve your reputation, but also achieve success in achieving your goals.
Kindness will save the world, and ethical standards will help this world become more attractive, make the interaction of people effective and enjoyable.
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