How to meet a girl on a social network?

In the recent past, in order to meet a woman he liked, a man had to come up with original phrases and start a conversation first. On the move, savvy appeared to interest the fair sex. Now only courageous guys can approach a stranger girl and have a casual conversation with her. For other men, the standard for first dating is social networking. Communication in real life is much easier to build than in the virtual world. Therefore, you must periodically edit your profile in social networks.

Many men have their own page on social networks. For example, VKontakte, where you can upload your photos, share impressions about your vacation, tell interesting moments from life and view profiles of other users, vote for their photos and make reposts of other people's posts. The first thing the girl pays attention to is an avatar, that is, the main picture of the profile. The fair sex does not like empty frames, images of animals or super-heroes. It’s better to use a real photo, but not in an office or street style. A male silhouette against a red sunset will look quite interesting.

No need to use images with incriminating implications, for example, with a cigarette in your mouth or with a glass at a club party. Of course, the photo should be bright, but its main task is to provide high-quality supply of favorable external data of a man. After selecting the main profile photo, you can proceed to the design of the page itself. This shows the character and way of thinking of a man, and the fair sex is particularly interested in this. The erudition of a young man will increase the chances of a successful acquaintance doubly. For example, in the subsection about your favorite films, you do not need to indicate banal pictures of Hollywood.

A beautifully designed profile page is a user's calling card. No need to enter specific data about their interests. It is best to replace the boring description of your favorite activities with a few jokes, which will cause pleasant emotions among the fair sex. After editing the records of his interests, the man should look at the photos available on the page. Compromising images are best removed. It would be nice to upload pictures to the general album that emphasize the status of the man and his success.

The news feed is subject to mandatory adjustment. The page should be filled with interesting posts. Each individual statement should be unique, but not too complicated for the general idea to be understood by any person. In no case can not write about serious problems. Sometimes you can point out a minor nuisance, but in a humorous form. Very often, for simple communication in VK, men choose an interlocutor from another country. But even in this case, the profile must be properly designed in order to arouse the interest and sympathy of the opponent.

After editing the profile, the man thinks about how to get to know the person you like and start a correspondence with her. A beautiful avatar will attract her attention, but, in addition to a bright photo, you must convince her of her positive character qualities and success in life. The VKontakte social network is the most popular resource in which almost all Internet users are registered. A convenient search system allows you to easily find the person you are interested in - just specify the age, place of study or work in the search box. To be sure to meet a free girl on the World Wide Web, in the same search you need to set the parameters "Not married" and "Active search".

Having made your choice, you need to think about where to start the conversation. It works exclusively psychological approach. In each person’s subconscious, in such situations, three questions arise: “Who are you or such?”, “Why are you writing to her or him?”, “Why did you choose or chose me?” That is why after the welcome phrase you should unobtrusively give answers to these questions.

• "Who are you?" The girl wants to understand that an ordinary cheerful guy is trying to meet her, and not some friend of her acquaintance trying to mock her and make a joke.
• “Why am I writing?” The answer to this question cannot be delayed. The guy should immediately lay out his goal.
• "Why me?" This item requires some caution. It is necessary to identify its attractive features, beautiful features of external data or a description of interests on the page. It is important to note common interests. In no case can you deceive or embellish the truth - at one point, the lie will be revealed, and the girl will be very offended.

The first phrase in the correspondence should look original and cool. In this case, a man should show restraint and tact. In no case should you use slang phrases or parasitic words. Outright greeting would be inappropriate. Banal: "Hello, how are you?" - Not a single girl is already interested. Even enthusiastic phrases about her beauty will not be followed by a positive response. It is important to interest the representative of the fair sex, so that a complete answer follows the question.

Next, you should consider in more detail how to get acquainted with the conclusion to direct communication.

• Girls are very fond of being enthusiastic about their photos. If the image contains an original bag with an embroidered pattern, you can emphasize the originality of the accessory, and then clarify whether she herself completed the ornament and how difficult it is to make it.
• If you look closely at the profile of the girl you are interested in, you can “hook” on any small detail, thereby bringing “sweetheart” to online communication. For example, if dogs are indicated in her interests, and the photo album contains images with a pet, you can ask leading questions with a request to tell about caring for a pet.
• Travel lovers always post posts about their trips. Here, men have full scope for imagination.

A beautifully designed profile of a girl can lead a man into confusion, but in vain. No self-respecting representative of the fair sex will not post compromising pictures, posts and statements on a social network. Ladies with an excellent sense of humor try to put a lot of interesting and unusual information on their page, which promises pleasant communication in advance. To understand what kind of "thread" to cling to, a man needs to carefully study the personal data of the lady he likes. Girls, when filling out information, try to give more extensive answers. Even famous quotes from famous personalities can bring people together in a long conversation. Users of the VK social network often have common friends. And not necessarily a real person - this may be the page of any shopping center or a famous restaurant. In fact, this is a bright and obvious reason for acquaintance. The main thing is to show imagination.

The basic and most important rule for every man is to correctly pose the question. To the question: “Maybe we’ll go to the cinema?” the answer is not always positive, in addition, it is not supported by any arguments. The same question should be formulated differently: "I propose to go to the cinema, will it be fun there, at the same time and get to know you?" In the question itself, a direct speech is heard that directs the girl to a positive answer. And not just “Yes”, but a more complete and open explanation of consent.

Quite often, guys when dating girls online use standard templates that are pretty boring for the fair sex. It is best to approach this issue creatively, and not to look for samples of correspondence on the Internet, but to come up with a phrase to start an interesting dialogue. Under the photos of the girl posted, the guest can leave a comment. Why not try to get to know each other this way? For example, find in her album a photo taken in an unusual place and ask the question: “What does a guy have to say so that you want to meet him in this place?” And then the girl begins to get lost in the pool of her fantasies. She imperceptibly will tell you the most desirable way of dating, you just have to use the prompt.

To emphasize the talents of the fair sex, a man may ask her for help in a minor matter.For example, translate a small text from English into Russian, but only if she knows a foreign language. To write a message to a girl, a man can be guided by any topics, the main thing is that the answer to the question is extensive, and not one-word.

• “Tell me, please, where can I find a dance partner?” You won’t have to wait for an instant answer, the girl should think for a couple of minutes. During this time, a lot of obscure thoughts are scrolling in her head, the main of which are: “Why is he asking me exactly about this?”, “And what am I not good for for this role?”. And the girl’s answer will be either the first or the second. This means that the "fish" was hooked and you can continue to communicate with her.
• “I bought a chicken, but I won’t know how to cook it. Please tell me an interesting and tasty recipe. " The answer will not immediately follow again. The girl will begin to recall unusual dishes from her arsenal to show how good a hostess she is. Although it’s enough for men to cut the carcass of the bird and just fry it.

• “I am writing an article about original ways of dating. Please tell us about your most unusual acquaintance. ” And again, the answer will have to wait a while. Unfortunately, not all girls can boast of vivid acquaintances with men, and quite often embellish reality, posing as wishful thinking. This could be the starting point for future online communication and a first date live.

Getting to know a girl on the Internet is not so simple. It is necessary to interest, intrigue and communicate with the help of detailed questions. The key to success will be the decisiveness and humorous orientation of the written messages. Unfortunately, not all men adhere to these rules, and on the first attempt they fail. The point here is the banal incorrectness of the first question. Primitive phrases: “Hello, how are you?”, “Let's get acquainted”, “Why are you silent?”, Have long been not inspiring the fair sex. It is especially unethical to find out the marital status of a girl you like at the very beginning of a meeting or ask where she works.

It should be remembered that perseverance during an acquaintance can repel, rather than attract. You should not constantly write messages to the girl if she did not answer the first of them. Having asked one question, it is important to wait for an answer to it, and only after that continue communication. Having caught a “common wave” with a girl, you should not immediately demand her phone number. And even more so meeting. Events should develop gradually, and at the right moment the issue of the exchange of numbers will sound naturally and unobtrusively. The same goes for the first date.

It is important to remember that a virtual acquaintance can develop into real love, which means that you can’t write ridiculous stories and tell tales about your life. Everything secret will certainly become apparent and may adversely affect relations in general. It happens that a girl is not interested in communicating with guys on social networks. She periodically visits the page to count the number of new fans - this raises her self-esteem. But she is simply too lazy to respond to fervent conversions either.

You cannot immediately take such an “impregnable fortress” - you will have to try. The girl can be interested in something out of the ordinary, but at the same time not crossing the permissible boundaries. For example, a guy can draw her portrait (if he can’t draw, you can order it from an artist).Then, in the process of communication, a favorable moment will come when it can be recognized that the portrait was painted by another person.

It also happens that a man made a mistake and believes that normal relations with a girl can no longer be returned, because she has a complex and unshakable character. But there are no people who would not be mistaken. There are those who give up without even trying to change something for the better. And there is always a way out of any life troubles. The main thing is to look at life with wide eyes. And the saving "magic wand" will be in the palm of your hand. It is important to be able to put yourself in the place of another person, to feel what he feels. Then the answers to complex questions come to mind by themselves, without painful experiences and unpleasant thoughts.

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