How to meet a guy at school?

School years are full of various events, emotions and impressions. Unforgettable and touching is youthful love. In girls, this feeling is accompanied by timidity, shyness, self-doubt. How to talk, how to start communication with the object of your sympathy? Our article will tell you how to meet a guy at school.

Of course, I want to make a good impression on the boy who really liked him. Girls begin to torment themselves with the question of how best to approach him and start communication. Often the situation is complicated by the fact that the young man is from a different class and he is older, say by 2 or 3 whole years. Meetings in this case occur only in noisy corridors. Yes, and this can not be called meetings, because often you just pass by each other. To engage in an unobtrusive and natural conversation under the numerous looks of other teenagers simply will not work. And you can wait a very, very long time for a suitable situation that could bring you closer.

Use the following tactics to start chatting with a stranger at school.

• Find out as much as possible about him. To establish friendship and further relations, information about his interests, social circle, hobbies, inclinations will be useful to you. In this case, you will already be aware of what topics you can start a conversation.If he goes to any sections or attends school electives, you can try to sign up there and get close against the background of general classes.
• A good platform for dating is the general learning process. True, it can be used as an excuse only if you study in the same parallel. For example, in a situation where a control on a subject was carried out in his class, you can come up and ask what tasks you should expect in the upcoming test work.
• It’s very good if you have friends in the class in which the guy you like is studying. You can come in to chat with them at recess. And in the process of such friendly visits, you can find points of contact with the object of your sympathy.
• If you trust your classmates with the guy you like, you can ask them to invite him to some joint event or a walk. For example, a joint company to visit a cafe or go to a concert. In an informal setting, making friends is much easier, even if he is 2-3 years older than you.
• Find out what events he attends outside of school and how to accidentally appear there in his field of vision. It is very likely that when he sees a familiar face from his school, he will want to say hello and be the first to start a conversation.
• Properly use the information you have about the attracted boy. For example, if you know for sure that he is interested in computer games, come and ask him for a game disc or ask any questions about the features of its passage.

To justify their request, they came across a common acquaintance, for example: “Pasha Ivanov said that you are an excellent gamer, and I just can’t pass one level in the game.” Thus, you will simultaneously compliment him and present your appeal to him as logical and unobtrusive. Similarly, you can take advantage of interests in other areas: music, cinema, sports, science.

• If you attend electives together, please contact him with a question on the subject. Or, on the contrary, try to offer your help in a suitable situation.
• A good pretext for starting communication and friendship within the walls of the school is a request to borrow a pencil or pen. But do not forget to thank the person for their help and be sure to return him the things taken.
• More often take part in school events in which you can prove yourself on the beneficial side. So you will be in sight, and the boy may even become interested in you and take the initiative. But even if the first steps are not followed from him, you will have a reason to intersect at events, and, therefore, common topics for conversation, for example, discussion of a concert, the results of a sports competition or school olympiad.
• Do not forget about social networks. This is a large and convenient platform for communication. You can leave an unobtrusive comment under his posts or positively rate the photo. Also a good option is to participate in a joint online discussion on a matter.
• Try to look good, but do not overdo it. Often, girls make a mistake by making their appearance unnecessarily defiant and pretentious. This, of course, is a matter of taste, but too many guys are too “bright” repulsive.

Now a few tips on how to conduct a conversation, so that it is interesting and encourages further communication with you. It’s clear that chatter will quickly bore and tire the person you are talking to, and he may eventually lose interest in you.

• Be able to listen in conversation. The interlocutor will be interested in communicating when he himself can fully express himself.
• Be able to accept his point of view.
• Try to ask specific questions. Common phrases like “tell me something” are confusing. It seems that the interlocutor is not interesting to you.
• Talk to him more often on general topics, take an interest in his successes and hobbies.
• In communication, be yourself.Natural, relaxed conversation brings together the best. Do not create a false impression about yourself.