How to meet a girl on the street?

In the fast pace of life, a person becomes accustomed to trust computer technology, so the usual communication or even meeting on the street can cause difficulties for many. Often, modern young people, if they want to approach a beautiful unfamiliar girl, experience awkwardness, uncertainty, and a fear of being misunderstood or rejected.

The first thing you should start with is appearance. It is necessary to create an attractive image, because quite often one look is enough for a girl to understand whether it is worth starting a conversation with a suitable guy. To do this, it is necessary to clearly identify the main guidelines that will help you feel confident in any situation.

• Purity. Few people will like it if a shabby-looking person contacts him. We need to start with basic hygiene - this is the basis. An attractive man is always shaved, his nails are cut short, and his hair is neat. Bristle is one of the repulsive factors - it is far from always understood by girls. Sweaty odor is unacceptable - this repels women of the opposite sex.

• Neatness. Clothing should be ironed and clean - it is important to iron not only a shirt and trousers, but also a T-shirt. Spools on a sweater, hat, spots or bruising on a jacket are not acceptable. Special attention should be paid to shoes that require daily care. Dirty shoes can ruin the whole picture, because for a girl this figure is one of the sure signs of male sloppiness, so she will try not to keep up the conversation.

• Clothing size. Everything that is in a men's wardrobe should correspond to the size of the person. If a shirt or pants are hanging on the figure, then this will create an image of a person who does not take care of himself. This means that in the future, such a task can lie on the fragile female shoulders. For girls, this alignment is useless. In the same way, they do not like it when clothes on a man almost burst at the seams - this guy not only does not emphasize the dignity of his body, but also creates an image of a daffodil that can not live without constant compliments. The stranger in this case often passes by, not stopping for a single phrase.

• Style. Not every man knows that girls pay attention to the clothing style of the opposite sex. This does not mean that you need to dress in expensive boutiques, choosing a dandy set - it is in most cases not appreciated in women's eyes. However, the duo of a large size T-shirt with skinny jeans is also not suitable. It is also worth abandoning the leather skinny and tightly buttoned shirt - according to these trifles, the girls add up certain character traits of the interlocutor, and not the best ones.
• Posture. Rarely what kind of man does not pay attention to the female gait. Girls also notice a man’s posture, because a man’s stoop looks ugly - it speaks of insecurity and, as a result, of low status, since an insecure person rarely achieves something in life. If a guy has several free hours a week, then you can go swimming or devote time to the gym.
• Perfume. From a confident man always smells good. However, this does not mean that you need to shower yourself with perfume or use something sharp. Harsh aromas affect girls extremely negatively and repulsively - they need the subtle smell of perfume mixed with the aroma (not sweat) of the body. Cheap aroma gives a sharp marine smell. If guys like him, then he acts on the girls diametrically opposite.

First of all, you need to be in the visibility zone of the girl you liked. In order not to frighten her, do not go up behind or block the road - these approaches are wrong and doomed to failure. If there is no fear of dating, then you can go up to the side and ask about something. When she has already noticed you, you can catch her eye and smile slightly.

In a minute you can once again meet with a look, without sliding over your chest and hips - she will notice it. You can not look at her for a long time, as this can lead the girl to bad thoughts, and in this case all chances can be reduced to zero. Also, do not wink and try to shower her with compliments on the move.

A feminine look clings to a masculine image that stands out from the crowd. It is better to choose a casual style - it is unofficial and at the same time quite attractive. It’s easy to create: you can use trousers, jeans, a shirt, polo, but you need to choose the right clothes. Its elements must be combined with each other.

It is rare that a girl will be delighted if a stranger immediately praises her ass or chest and suggests relaxing together. However, there are words and phrases that she cannot pass by. Do not sacredly believe that they will work 100%, but if the guy will behave naturally and relaxed, then he will succeed. You can just go up, smile and say the magic word “hello”.

In response to your greeting, you can already understand whether further conversation and acquaintance will take place. At this stage, the girl already appreciated the appearance, neatness, the ability to present herself and naturalness. Her positive reaction to the man's greeting suggests that you can continue to get to know each other.

Now is the time to say one of the phrases suggested below.

• “After your smile, I completely forgot where I was going. My name is (for example) Eugene. "
• “I liked you, and I wanted to hear your voice.”
• "I could not pass by when I saw your smile."
• "This dress suits you like that - I couldn’t help but say about it."
• “There is a cafe nearby. I'd like to treat you with a cup of aromatic coffee. ”

It is not necessary to repeat exactly the phrases from the examples - you can say what you feel at this moment. If the girl really liked, then you can tell her about it. If a man noticed that he has a chance, you can resort to a little trick, not giving her time to think. Having said just one phrase, he will be able to get the coveted number of her phone.

For example, you can use the sentences below.

• "Hello. I could not get past your eyes and smile, but now I need to go. If you give me your mobile number, I’ll call you. ”
• “You are charming, but I need to go now. We could sit in a cafe. Let's discuss it later, just give me your number. "

You can resort to the use of props. To do this, you need to buy a nearby colored ball or flower and give it to her with the words: “I really wanted to please you this morning (afternoon, evening)”

The situation in which a normal conversation with an unfamiliar beautiful girl on the street can develop into an acquaintance can be different. If a man is careful, then he will notice such details. You can use, as a reason for acquaintance, even a cool evening, inviting a stranger you like to visit the nearest coffee shop. You can say the following: "Hello, you are probably cold in this thin blouse, take my sweater."

If she carries a heavy bag, you can say: "I can help carry the bag, let me take it."

You can approach from the other side. If you have a notebook or notebook with you, then you should ask the girl for a minute literally. Write something down on paper - even if it is a phrase about how she looks good, or a description of her beautiful eyes. After that, giving her a pen, we can say: "Thank you very much, I had to write down an important idea."

You should immediately ask if she has such a thing. If you want to take a phone number so that she does not immediately guess, you can ask her to help out in a vital situation. For example, you can say that the phone is down, but an urgent need to call. At the same time, it is important to have time to put your mobile phone on silent mode. Then it remains only to dial your number.

You can exchange phrases that in our time there are few responsive people, so I want to thank her with a cup of coffee.

Here your own imagination may come in handy. For example, you can capture yourself in time at the moment when she will take pictures of something, or invite her to take a picture of herself in such a beautiful place. Further conversation will depend on your own naturalness and confidence.

You can play on common interests with the following phrases:

• “Good technique, I also like to take photos”;
• “I also read this, but I would like to know your opinion”;
• “I propose to discuss the ending over a cup of coffee not far from here”;
• “I would like to know what attracts you to the photo”

It is important to submit yourself in an original way, regardless of the place of dating. For example, if you approach the question correctly, you can have time to get to know each other at the bus stop, while the girl is waiting for her bus. Approaching her, it is worth asking about which route leads to happiness. If she almost always refuses to answer a banal question or completely ignores it, then in this case she will hold her eyes and smile. And this is a chance to continue dating.

We must not forget that time under different conditions can be limited. Do not drag out and be afraid to approach, because the bus can take the stranger away while you tune in to the right wave.Choosing the right phrase should not take much time.

You need to understand that the girls do not like it when they begin to touch them from the very moment they meet - this makes their interlocutor instantly turn into a maniac preoccupied with sex who cannot restrain himself. If you really liked the girl, you need to have an excerpt. You should not play, showing your brutality - it is better to stay naturally and be yourself, because she will notice any falsity. But confidence will be a good friend when trying to get to know each other.

It is important to be calm and positive - these are key success factors. The girl should feel open - this is conducive to communication. You can’t complain about something, portray a loser - this approach is doomed to failure. You can’t allow notes of mockery or outright seduction - girls today very quickly understand what a man needs.

Having chosen the first phrase successfully, you need to develop a conversation in this direction. In addition, as you talk, you can recognize the interests of the interlocutor, showing their own passion. It is the interest that matters, but not the obsession - the girl will feel the difference. In no case should you pretend to maintain a conversation if you do not understand the essence of any topic.

You can end some of your phases inquiringly, thereby giving her a reason to answer. It is important to show cheerfulness - the opposite sex likes this image. At the same time, do not delay the acquaintance so that she wants to continue communication. Having received the phone, you can end the acquaintance, leaving her with thoughts about you. If the time is evening, then it is worth spending it home.

If you are shy, you should know a few rules.

Firstly, you don’t need to convince yourself that the goal is to get to know each other, because you can just chat with a stranger - this will allow you to relax a bit and find inner looseness.

Secondly, you need to understand that, in addition to normal people, there are inadequate ones. If you hit such a girl, then do not despair.

Thirdly, no refusal is fatal - it only allows you to gain experience in communication with the opposite sex. It should be noted that a girl can stop talking with a guy for several reasons.

For example, if:

• She already has a regular partner;
• she is married and not interested in another acquaintance;
• the guy’s manner of communication is boorish and leaves much to be desired;
• the guy’s appearance seems sloppy to her;
• approach to dating is banal and boring.

In addition, she may refuse to meet because of different social status and material status. In this case, you need to start with yourself. You should not expect that the girl will do everything herself - this can not be expected, but it is not worth it to endure internal defeat, because each time her own cowardice will grow in size.

It is important to get into the field of view of the girl you like. After the views met, you need to mentally count to three and go towards her. You can come up and say a simple "hello." Further development of the situation will depend on its response.

There are various recommendations for a successful acquaintance. However, it is important to understand that it should not be stereotyped. You must try to avoid hackneyed phrases and compliments - today this does not work.

Discard phrases from your speech about whether your mother needs a son-in-law, can you get to know how to get to the library, or where the “nofelet” is located.

It is worth understanding that the hardest thing to meet a beautiful girl is for someone who has complexes. And this can be connected both with their external data and with the fear of female self-interest. To get rid of your fears, you need a long work, starting with the formation of a strong and strong-willed personality, because this will help to gain confidence in terms of character and in terms of finances.

If you want to look beautiful, then you need to visit the gym, pool, responsibility and the desire for self-development are important. Also, one should not forget that it is a man who plays the main role in the development of relations - rarely when a girl wants to get acquainted with a man, who will have to be developed and maintained.

For the girl to think about you until the next meeting, farewell must be special. The important thing is to leave her a good emotion with which she can think of you. You can smile, offer to meet, discuss the place and day of the meeting. In addition, she needs to be given the opportunity to decide what you will do. You should definitely say that you are pleased to meet her.

Regardless of the result, you need to leave in a gentlemanly way - this will tell her about your chivalry. We must not forget to smile, because this approach has a positive effect. It depends on you in what vein the beautiful stranger will recall you, and whether it will be possible to continue communication with her. Speech should be respectful, because these are elementary standards of etiquette, which should not be forgotten.

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