Getting to know a man for a serious relationship is one of the main problems of a modern single woman. Everyone wants to know places to go and find their destiny. And it doesn’t matter, after 30 years, after 40 years, or after 50 years, you are looking for a couple or want to get acquainted with a guy of a young age - there are simple rules, knowing which, it is easy to avoid so many mistakes.
The woman of today's lifestyle has to be self-sufficient, however, the question of where to go to meet a normal, decent, respectable person, avoiding frivolous, frivolous men, remains open.
In the Internet
For starters, you don’t have to go anywhere at all - virtual resources created specifically for dating are a very simple and effective way to find a mate. We live in an age of social networks and the Internet, to renounce this means to dissemble. Even if you are not the most active user of Internet resources, you should definitely try. Do not forget one thing: anyone can be on the other side of the screen, and these are the same people who surround us in real life.
Knights, heroes, princes are found there as rarely as when going to the nearest supermarket.
On the Internet it is real to meet a person of that circle to which you do not belong. It can be a creative person, an official, a businessman, but with the same success you will meet a student, a loafer or a gigantic. By the way, if you think the Internet is an inappropriate place for dating, be sure to take a chance and start a profile on a dating site.It is this kind of communication that will teach you a lot, warn you against many things, and most importantly, raise your self-esteem. Internet users of the stronger sex do not skimp on compliments, and you will soon feel like a queen.
And when your eyes shine, self-confidence will increase, the feeling of your own demand will certainly raise your stock in the eyes of real men.
After all, it has long been proven - as soon as you find yourself a fan, another one immediately appears.
Acquaintance in real life
Virtual meetings do not require you to have an ideal appearance; you can safely correspond in your pajamas. It's easy to send your photo taken by a professional photographer to your fan. Real life dictates its own laws, here a beautiful avatar will not help out. It is not necessary to do complex styling and war paint every morning, however, a well-groomed woman always makes a more favorable impression than a slut.
Therefore, we do manicure, haircut, coloring on time, do not neglect light daily makeup.
In addition to personal care, it is important to create the right image. First of all, exclude clothes that do not suit you, small or large - in it you will feel uncomfortable, which means - insecure. Then we remove too provocative outfits: the deepest neckline, transparent fabrics, a frank mini. So you will either not make the impression you are seeking, or you will attract the completely different type of men you are looking for. No need to change your style and remodel yourself, but a critical approach to your wardrobe will give you a chance to be attractive, not vulgar.
It is very important to choose clothes according to the type of figure, which hides flaws and emphasizes advantages. Do not bend with the height of the heels, firstly, the studs in everyday life look strange, and secondly, it is inconvenient. Be especially careful with heels if your height is above average.
Where to find?
Modern life is extremely fast, but you can get acquainted with a worthy person anywhere without making any titanic efforts. First, look around you. If you like to spend hours shopping, why not take advantage of it? Wander around purely male-style shops, looking at ties and shirts, motor vehicles, or fishing gear.
But the departments of underwear is better to avoid, you will look like a wife there, buying a pair of socks for her husband.
If you are asked for advice, be sure to help, and interested - this is a great way to start communication. Ask for advice, and you, if you liked someone, why don't you think together about a gift to your father or boss. In addition to clothing stores, an excellent platform for meeting with a wealthy man is car dealerships and car dealerships. There you can endlessly ask for advice, ask for help in choosing and look at the same time cute and feminine. If you don’t have a car, say that you are dreaming about buying, but there’s no one to take driving lessons from.
Men love to save and help, you just need to give them such an opportunity. This can be easily done in construction departments, computer stores, mobile phone stores. Drop into supermarkets, especially the departments that sell ready-made food, convenience foods, and alcohol. In the latter, you can safely ask for advice on choosing a good whiskey as a gift to your brother.
Shopping is far from the only opportunity to meet the man of your dreams. Specialized exhibitions give an excellent opportunity. It is unlikely that Van Gogh will give good chances, but at a construction, computer, military or automobile exhibition you will meet without difficulty.
Restaurants and Cafes
More often than not, the first thing that comes to mind when the question arises of where to get to know each other is catering establishments. Yes, this is true, meeting there is quite simple, and the chances of meeting a serious person there are also high.You should not have high hopes for dating in nightclubs, restaurants and bars. But a business lunch or coffee shop on Sunday is great.
The main thing is to give a man to eat before starting to attract attention.
At work
This is a very controversial way, especially if the team is female, and indeed not always official novels lead to the correct result. Nevertheless, the percentage of marriages between colleagues is very high. After all, people are connected by the intersection of their interests, in addition, the frequency of meetings and communication often gives sympathy to rapid development. Therefore, this opportunity cannot be completely discounted.
Sport
Gym membership is a great solution for dating. In addition, it is useful for figure, health and self-esteem. If you don’t like exercise machines, go to the pool, start jogging in the park, if you like a bicycle - it is very easy to find a travel companion on the basis of such an interest. If the figure is in order, spend quite a long time on the beach in the summer, ball games and other entertainments bring people very close together.
Events
Conferences, trainings, seminars - places where not just men gather, but their representatives who strive for development. At the exhibition of a local photographer, you will surely meet many of his colleagues. A charity auction allows you to plunge into the atmosphere of respectable and wealthy men.
No need to run from one event to another, determine the type of men who are a priori interesting to you, and build on it.
Psychologists' recommendations
Unfortunately, according to statistics, more than half of acquaintances do not develop because a woman behaved incorrectly. How not to get into this situation?
- Do not turn into a hunter with an ever-searching, predatory look, your goal should be known only to you. No matter where you are, pretend that this place is your goal, not a trap for a man. If you have shown interest, behave naturally, do not rejoice excessively and do not repel coldness. Courtesy and friendliness are the best helpers. And no one needs a trophy that agrees on everything from the first minute.
- Therefore, too willing to run to a cafe right now is not always the best way to make a long acquaintance. It is better to exchange phones and make an appointment another day. If you didn’t wait for the call, you shouldn’t be upset, most likely, the person was not going to continue acquaintance initially. An interested man will always succeed.
- Even if you are very brave and active, you don’t need to demonstrate it with joy on the first day, and excessive obsession makes a negative impression. There is no reaction in response - do not continue the offensive, it is simply not your person.
- Do not rush, let the meeting develop into a pleasant acquaintance, and acquaintance into something more on your own. A man needs time to look at you.
Psychologist's advice on how to meet a man, see the video below.
