Unions of men and women born in the years of the Monkey and Goat on the eastern calendar are not ideal. But they can’t be called boring either. If the representatives of the signs learn the habits and characters of each other, they will be able to make their tandem durable, regardless of whether it is friendship, business or love.
Character Features
Those who were born in the year of the Goat (Sheep), stand out:
- heightened intuition;
- narcissism;
- imaginative;
- sensitivity;
- diverse talents.
However, many of them have character flaws:
- uncertainty;
- exposure to other people's influence;
- molestation;
- hot temper.
A man born in the year of the Goat is often timid and indecisive. Due to such features, with all his talents and ambition, he sometimes does not achieve self-realization. Or, in search of his place in life, he spends many years. Given that such a guy does not differ in his desire for freedom, is not inclined to spend much time away from home and among friends, many girls perceive him as a “convenient potential husband”. However, it is better to know in advance that even such a person begins to “push against the horns” if you put too much pressure on him.
The fair sex, born in the year of the Goat, often needs support. Moreover, such women quickly attract the attention of men, which is why they have enough rivals.
The Sign of the Monkey makes its “bearers” active people, striving for development and diversity in life. With the same zeal, they act in their own interests, and in the interests of those who care about them. Monkey stands out:
- charm;
- sharpness of mind and resourcefulness;
- dexterity;
- independence.
The representatives of the signs also have shortcomings, they:
- eccentric;
- masterful;
- too high an opinion of oneself;
- unable to accept criticism;
- tend to get very annoyed when any interference occurs on the way to their goal.
The Monkey guy is a very sociable type. He loves to be favored by girls, but his love affairs are often fleeting, because he values his freedom too much.
A woman born in the year of the Monkey can be “calculated” by such traits as curiosity and quick wit.
She is fussy, she creates a lot of trouble for herself - if she had calmed down, she would be bored. Windy, without regrets, says goodbye to former partners. At the same time, he never allows anyone to think of her as an easily accessible woman.
Friendly relations
Goat and Monkey understand friendship is not the same. If the Sheep perceives such relations as completely disinterested, then for the Monkey, among other things, it is important that the friendship is also useful. Wherein if the goat feels that it is being used, she will break off her relationship with the Monkey. Nevertheless, strong friendships are not uncommon between representatives of signs. The compatibility of the Goat woman and the Monkey man in friendship is good, especially if these people are also relatives.
These two trust each other completely and are always ready to help. A man supports his girlfriend in her endeavors and readily solves many of her problems. The woman, in turn, is able to find encouraging words, give practical advice. This gives energy to the man Monkey, who with a good parting word is much easier to do what is required of him in a particular situation.
In a friendly union, where a man is a Goat and a woman is a Monkey, a representative of the strong half of humanity acts as a “stabilizer of relations”able to bring into communication a fair share of pragmatism and tranquility. In many ways, it compensates for the shortcomings of the restless nature of the girlfriend. But a woman with her behavior will make communication boring. It will add brightness to life, creatively approaching everything that is taken together with the man Goat.
Teamwork
When it comes to work, it does not matter who the Goat is paired with and who the Monkey is (in terms of gender). Both of them are ready to help advance a partner in a career. Goat usually becomes the generator of ideas in the implementation of a project and the inspiration. But the Monkey is capable of realizing this as well as possible, connecting all its intellectual abilities, and at the same time, its attitude to success.
The best results are achieved by colleagues Monkey and Sheep in the creative fieldHowever, when it comes to serious business, both members of the couple fail each other, because they are too easy to part with the money and can discreetly squander everything earned by hard work.
In order to avoid problems with finances, it is better for them to involve a third partner who has no problems with this.
Love relationship
When a Monkey man and a Goat woman show initial interest in each other, the prospects for their rapprochement depend on the desire to study each other more closely. The initiator of the rapprochement is the bright guy Monkey. The sheep lacks the courage to take the first step towards the object of their interest. The initial mutual curiosity turns into trust, and later often develops into a completely harmonious relationship.
The Monkey man is inspired by the big and bright in the presence of a charming Lamb. In part, and under its influence, he actively implements his own ideas and builds a career. The love union of the guy the Monkey and the girl of the Goat, like any other, is not without roughness. It helps that the partners are considerate of each other. They "remove" various kinds of misunderstandings by talking in a friendly tone.
The monkeys like that his girlfriend is kind and affectionate, even if sometimes timid.In addition, she uses her good intuition with might and main, avoiding problems on the personal front with the help of her inner instinct. An exceptional thing when she is hysterical. Although the partner must understand that taking it to the extreme is still more expensive for itself - Goats have frightening bursts of emotions. This woman likes that her beloved does not skimp on compliments and gifts.
In the presence of an energetic, sociable, independent and proactive Monkey guy, she feels protected.
Marriage these two build quite easily. A little house sheep equips the house, investing in this lesson all his passion for purity and beauty.
At the same time, her thoroughness, expressed in the desire to systematize everything that is available, to sort through the shelves, sometimes confuses her husband, and sometimes annoys her. In its turn, A married goat is often jealous of her attractive husband Monkey, and even where there is no reason.
It should be remembered that most of the problems in this pair can be avoided thanks to the wisdom of the Goat. It is enough for her to show flexibility in the relationship.
When a Goat is a man in a pair, and a Monkey is a woman, this is the case when mutual feelings do not boil passionsalthough the two are quite happy with each other in bed and do not go left. In the long communication of the couple’s participants, they gradually become attracted to each other on a spiritual level, albeit not quick. The provocateur of family problems often becomes precisely the Monkey, which, due to its temperament, cannot stop in time and brings the situation to scandal.
For the rest, her partner is pleased with the brightness of his half. She favors her curiosity and desire to move forward. And the Monkey herself at some point, even a swift career can easily be exchanged for a cozy family idyll. Although most often it turns out to be a short period in her life.
In marriage, she occupies a leadership position. It takes on the burden of worries to financially support the family, and at the same time helps to make a career for your life partner.
It is not uncommon when the high social status of a goat man is largely the merit of his wife Monkey. If a man in this family is able to constantly develop, everything will be fine. If at some point he decides to rest on his laurels, this is unlikely to suit a partner.
There are other problems in the relationship between the male Goat and his wife, the Monkey. For example, this is an attitude towards children. The monkey is not enthusiastic about the prospect of washing diapers and wiping snotty noses, and her companion dreams of a funny laugh and the stomping of little legs around the house.
Another reason for disagreement - the "home Kozlik" is inclined to look gloomy at many things and is afraid of bold steps, which annoys his wife, who over time gets bored with everything to decide for him and endure boring. At the same time, under the pressure of monkey energy, the male Goat becomes even more weak-willed. To avoid distortions in the relationship, a pair of Monkeys and Goats will have to work hard on themselves. Finding compromises, these two will be able to live in peace and harmony, feeling constant mutual attraction.
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