If the family has a child Aquarius, then many questions may arise on his education. How to find an approach to the difficult character of the child? We will talk in detail in this article about what distinguishes those born from January 20 to February 19, at the junction of the coldest winter month and such an ambiguous harbinger of spring.
general characteristics
Aquarius is a difficult sign to understand in our standard representations. With a child it will be difficult, but interesting. But all your efforts invested in its development will pay off. The classic system that instills obedience to adults will not work with such a child. You should not seek absolute submission, because such a person needs a rather large degree of freedom to realize and express his personality.
He is steadily striving for the future, constantly ready to change, many ideas are boiling inside him that are hard for others to keep up with. They are characterized by a tireless desire for everything new and unknown, the need to develop in their own way, high mental and physical activity, independent judgments and the presence of their own point of view.
At school, the child Aquarius will study well largely due to his natural data. To please his parents, he can become a good guy, but he will show deep knowledge only in those areas that will be of interest to him.
Problems can arise with discipline, because a small thinker does not recognize any rules and authorities.
It is good if you come across a wise and democratic teacher who will not push the child into a rigid framework, but allow him some independence in development within the limits of his individual capabilities.
Among classmates, Aquarius can become both a popular activist and a calm contemplator. In any case, his leadership will be rather informal. He does not strive for the external attributes of success and power. For him, calm and harmony around are more important. Sensitively reacting to the emotions and moods of others, he can act only in a fairly calm and psychologically comfortable environment. Therefore, prepare in advance for the fact that your student will need a secluded corner or even a separate room for homework.
The Aquarius child is an arrow directed forward. You should not be afraid of this and ask questions about whether you can give an appropriate upbringing to such a small unusual person with complex inclinations. Where the vector of his personality will be directed depends on you.
Aquarius Boy
Perhaps these are the most striking individualists among the signs of the zodiac, the guides of new ideas, very lively and always sociable. They will not become led, but will invariably offer their vision, solution and path. To persuade the child to your side, you will have to explain everything logically, remaining on the side of reasonable discipline and rules of life. Then Aquarius himself will understand the validity of such requirements dictated by life itself.
Your son will definitely not have communication problems. In the circle of friends, he does not get lost, firmly taking the position of champion of equality and justice for all. Next to such a child, in his own worldview, everyone should be well and comfortable.
The determining element of air in the sign gives the child Aquarius a craving for the creation and embodiment of creative ideas. He is also attracted to all aspects of man’s inner spiritual life. Various fields of science, modern technology and engineering, and programming are attractive to an inquiring mind.
Do not expect compliments from your son Aquarius, he will rather show his love through small pleasant signs of attention: a bunch of flowers or a poem of his own composition.
He spends most of his time with friends, but he gets no less fun from time spent with his family.
Despite all your attempts at successful cooperation, at one point your son will suddenly cease to be cute, smart, sociable: a teenager begins to react negatively to advice and criticism and perceives all your attempts at educational activities with poorly concealed sarcasm. Thus manifests his freedom-loving personality, the need for individualization, expression of himself. This is the next stage in the development of little Aquarius. Trying to limit the child in this, you are likely to only harm your trusting relationship.
Be condescending, let the young Aquarius make his mistakes. The main thing is to create a feeling in the child that you are nearby and ready to help, but only when he asks for it. And of course, do not forget to outline the framework of social norms for your son. Explain in an unobtrusive way what acceptable and unacceptable behavior is.
Aquarius Girl
The girl Aquarius also seeks freedom in all its manifestations, as well as to obtain vivid life impressions. She seems to collect various hobbies: hobbies change one after another. Do not be afraid of superficiality: this is how she seeks herself. In one month, your daughter can read books about a student at the magic school of Hogwarts, and the next she says that she would like to do drawing - there is almost nothing impossible for her.
The girl of Aquarius has no communication problems. She will always find a company to her liking or gather like-minded people around her. Do not be surprised that these will be children with completely different views from your child and from different social strata. The girls of Aquarius do not recognize most of the social norms that are familiar to us, including such as dividing people into races or classes.
Communication on various topics is easy for your daughter. She quickly makes new acquaintances and happily supports the conversation. Often the girl Aquarius becomes an ideological inspirer, talentedly tells fictional stories, and therefore people are drawn to her. She herself adores and appreciates her friends.
No less important quality of your daughter is compassion. She is fond of her parents, ready to take care of her brothers and sisters. The response in her good soul is also found by our smaller brothers. With great enthusiasm, your daughter will defend an unfairly oppressed girlfriend or may even dream of creating a reserve, an animal shelter. Maintain these emotional impulses in it, even if they do not quite coincide with your own outlook on life. Such immediate kindness is a rarity these days.
Your child has another great feature: from an early age, the girl Aquarius already knows what she will do. She reads books and watches films about a chosen field of activity, which, by the way, can be very unusual: from the desire to become an actress or writer to the profession of an architect or mathematician. It should be noted and her good sense of style. Your daughter will be partial to beautiful clothes, while not always following the latest fashion trends.
Do not forget: Aquarius has their own view on everything.
We take into account the eastern horoscope
- Aquarius Rat is a child with high intellectual abilities who has a talent for writing books.
- Aquarius-Bull is a sensitive nature, characterized by tolerance and calm in solving important issues.
- Aquarius Tiger is a prudent and intelligent representative.
- Aquarius-Dragon is a moderately self-critical child who sees not only advantages, but also disadvantages.
- Aquarius Snake is a baby who has mystical abilities.
- Aquarius-Horse is a child with obvious leadership qualities.
- Aquarius-Rabbit is a devoted comrade and friend, has a penchant for journalism.
- Aquarius-Goat is a mysterious and moody child.
- Aquarius Rooster is a selfish child who thinks only of himself.
- Aquarius the Dog is an intellectual who studies well.
- Aquarius Monkey is a rather restrained child.
- Aquarius-Pig - a small representative, characterized by intelligence and poise, which will always succeed.
How to educate?
Do not forget about the combination of the zodiac signs of parents and the child. So, it will often be difficult for the conceited pope Leo or the thorough mother Capricorn to understand his teenager Aquarius. And if the father of the child is Aries, then recurring clashes cannot be avoided. A fortunate coincidence would be if at least one parent in the family was born under the sign of Cancer: the representatives of this zodiac constellation perfectly find contact with Aquarius.
Baby Aquarius already has innate wisdom. He is able to understand and accept all alternative conditions of action. But he also counts on a similar attitude towards himself. You will need tolerance, the absence of restrictions on the inner, especially spiritual, freedom and choice of life path. Sometimes it will not be clear who is raising whom: you are your child or he is you. And this is quite natural: the child of Aquarius with its special depth of comprehension of things, even at an early age, has something to learn.
Actively learning the world, children born under the sign of Aquarius often puzzle adults with complex questions. You must be prepared for the fact that it is impossible to find unambiguous answers for them. It will not work to dismiss the child in standard formulations - it is important for him to grasp the very essence of things and concepts. But, having spent a little time on serious and thorough explanations, you will get an admiring listener and a friend who trusts you in the person of a child.
The stages of raising Aquarius will not always go sequentially and smoothly. At some points, it will seem to you that the teenager is completely out of hand.So the new stages of growing up a small person make themselves felt. Your son may begin to violate the rules established in the family, the daughter will lock herself in for a short time or begin to follow informal directions in her hair and clothes. In this case, it is worth demonstrating sincere calm and wise condescension. Even if a volcano of emotions boils in your soul, do not show your indignation and indignation. The child should feel your confidence. You are for him that quiet and calm haven where he can always go after another eccentric search for truth.
Many parents are made worried by such personality traits of little Aquarius as: obstinacy, spontaneous thinking, unpredictability, self-confidence. We will not call them negative traits. Think of it simply as your child’s personality traits. It is in your power to turn them into the strengths of a future extraordinary personality.
Choose a name
For many of us, it is no longer a secret how important the choice of a name is for an unborn child. Someone chooses a name by lot, someone relies on the advice of relatives, others take into account the eastern horoscope. It is clear that the nature of those born in the year of the Dog is different from those born under the influence of the year of the Rooster or Boar. A knowledgeable and responsible approach to this decision will help you to know the energy of the year of birth of your child and its combination with the zodiac sign.
So, 2019 will be marked by a happy event in your life - the birth of a new family member. Here is something in common that unites people born in the Year of the Pig: gentleness, kindness, responsibility, hard work and determination. A child born this year will be a good family man, regardless of gender. He is not afraid of difficulties and hardships in his life's journey. Good interlocutors and faithful comrades, they attract the attention of people and easily become the center of any company.
Girls born this year will have the following names: Anna, Valeria, Victoria, Vasilisa, Daria, Eugene, Inna, Irina, Kristina, Ksenia and Svetlana.
The success of the Aquarius boys will be brought by the names: Anton, Vladimir, David, Denis, Daniel, Egor, Ivan, Ilya, Cyril, Maxim, Miroslav, Nikolai, Roman, as well as Taras and Yuri.
You will learn more about the children of Aquarius from the next video.