Libra man in love

Libra is rightly considered one of the most mysterious and changeable signs of the zodiac, whose representatives are really difficult to predict, the more difficult it is to build a long-term relationship with them. However, a good knowledge of the horoscope will help here, because such people, like everyone else, have certain typical features that somewhat dispel their unpredictability.

Start with what Libra man is - not even in love, but in life as a whole. The easiest way to say about these guys is that they are constantly looking for themselves and are difficult to predict. Like the object that gave the name to the sign, they can be in perfect balance, and even restrain others, but such a balance can be lost - then Libra can go to extremes. In any case, such a person is always looking for an opportunity to achieve equilibrium and appreciates everything that helps him in this.

The ideal state of Libra is complete calm, not interrupted by any problems. Such a guy loves balance in literally everything - even universal justice is important to him. As for stressful situations, they too much hurt such a man, because he always tries to act ahead of the curve, not sparing neither forces nor resources for this.

It is believed that Libra is quite sociable, but the width of their circle of friends can be very different. On the one hand, this sign is often credited with striving to be at the center of society, on the other hand, it is possible that individual representatives will deliberately avoid large companies. In general, Libra is not against new acquaintances, but can be quite picky about them.

If we talk about the positive aspects of this zodiac sign, then usually in most men distinguish the following features.

• A heightened sense of justice. No wonder Libra is a symbol of justice - apparently, from the representatives of the same sign would make a good judge. This characteristic usually only worsens with age, and often such a guy is ready to recognize things that are completely unpleasant for themselves, if only they correspond to the truth. This view of life is especially valuable in view of the fact that Libra traditionally wants maximum benefits for herself.
• Intelligence and charm. Most of the guys born under this sign are well aware of their intelligence, and some at heart even a little despise people who are narrow-minded, unable to rise above the average level of society. However, the same intelligence does not allow them to express such thoughts aloud, and some even suffer remorse because of their own seditious thoughts about the inequality of society. With their intelligence and erudition, Libra is able to charm many, although to their antagonists the encyclopedic knowledge of an opponent may seem an unreasonable reason for bragging.

• Diplomacy and tact. An increased craving for justice leads to the fact that such a man rarely keeps his thoughts in himself, and after all, harsh remarks to others could significantly ruin the life of his own author. Fortunately, Libra knows how to present even the most unsightly information so that it is perceived softer even without hiding any details. It is not in vain that such guys are considered a good friend who will not only defend the interests of a comrade in society, but also tell him privately in time that he needs to be urgently corrected.

Of course, every zodiac sign has certain “standard” flaws, and although not all Libra is endowed with them, it is worth mentioning the potential risks.

• Unusual Libra men often see in themselves a lot of differences from the surrounding crowd, and although they do not always exalt themselves above it, many may not like this. Such a young man can focus a significant part of his rhetoric not on common hobbies or topics for discussion, but on the difference. At first, such communication can bring interest to a keen interlocutor, but over time, many people turn away from Libra, considering them excessively snobbish and fixated solely on their understanding of the truth.
• Doubts. Libra as an object is a symbol of not only balance, but also fluctuations, and representatives of the same zodiac sign often suffer from such a trait of their own character. Such a person almost immediately sees the advantages and disadvantages of all available options, but it is not easy for him to weigh them in a short time. The situation is aggravated by the desire to be proactive in order to avoid problems in the future - the guy begins to calculate everything too far ahead, and in the end may completely lose a unique opportunity, be it a career or relationship. Perhaps the presence of a close person close by, who can gently push Libra at the right time, the latter will only be beneficial.

• Conviction of their innocence. With their eternal pursuit of justice, Libra quickly gets used to the fact that their opinion is considered authoritative and justified, and therefore often forget: in some cases, everyone can have their own truth. A man born under this sign is not always ready to accept an alternative point of view, in an attempt to defend his opinion he can become overly harsh and even oppressive. Being able to make a fair decision to the detriment of himself, he reacts rather painfully to the recommendations of outsiders advising to do the same.

As for work, here Libra has a life position located exactly in the middle between an absolute loafer and an avid careerist. Such a man does not refuse to work, realizing that without this, the material resources that are important to him would not be available. The promotion for such a guy is joyful, he waits for him in advance and always rejoices when he succeeds at work, especially since intelligence and justice often lead to an adequate assessment by the leadership. At the same time, such a person cannot be called a workaholic - on the contrary, he tries his best not to process it. Libra does not believe that life is necessary for work, and if it takes too much time and effort, then such a man will gladly leave her - no bonuses in the form of an excellent salary or excellent career opportunities will help here.

The ability to refuse a well-paid job could hit Libra's love for comfort items, but their frugality and thrift help out representatives of this sign. Such a person is able to temporarily abandon many costs if he sees for what it is worth saving money. The craving for saving finances among these men is quite large - they almost always collect something and are really able to achieve the desired amount, even if it was initially scary for its size. It’s better to save money from such a guy if he doesn’t do it abstractly, but for the sake of a long-made goal that overcame all doubts.

Libra is exactly the guy who is interested in her zest in a woman. The external beauty of such a man, of course, will attract, but typical of the representatives of this sign of doubt very quickly enter into business, because there are many attractive women.

There is probably no concrete way to the heart of such a person, but he must be sure that his chosen one is the very best. Here, an important role will be played by the fact that Libra does not see herself as part of the crowd, and therefore probably will not want to pick up a girl for herself from the gray mass. As a result, just a beautiful woman can interest Libra only as a fleeting attention, while real long-term recognition will go to one that can catch on with something else - erudition, a sense of humor, or at least the maximum understanding of the emotional organization of a potential partner. In fact, such guys belong to those few signs that are sometimes able to completely ignore the appearance for the sake of the woman’s personal qualities, although it is also undesirable to go to such extremes - the problem will lie in Libra’s same doubts, and if it was impossible to find a more beautiful companion.

If relations are gradually developing and gaining prospects, it must be remembered that the representatives of this sign are very critical of the problems in their lives and the people who create them. The ideal girl for such a guy should not rock the boat, but rather, balance the mental state of her partner. Tantrums and scandals, especially organized out of the blue, will make such a man very quickly put an end to the chosen one, who, yesterday, seemed an ideal. Here is the time to remember that Libra will not recycle due to someone’s whims and will not be happy to spend a lot of money on a thing that they think is unnecessary.

Scales, because of their notorious tendency to doubt, take the first step relatively infrequently, often expecting too obvious “green light” from the side of the young lady. Often, ladies like these men, but the latter may be somewhat scared away by the fact that the guy is not particularly hiding - other girls may be interesting to him.

However, if such a man loves, then it is not difficult to understand - he behaves quite specifically. A woman feels necessary, because such a young man usually has a very romantic nature and is inclined to compliment her lover, as well as showering her with gifts. There will also not be a lack of time for meetings for the chosen one - as already mentioned, Libra despise work that interferes with life, but they are ready to devote their beloved absolutely all their time.

Separately, it should be noted that the Libra man is quite picky about his chosen one and wants her to be the best of the best. Usually this is expressed in a certain universality of the partner, which should be beautiful in photographs, sexy in bed, interesting in joint exits to people, a wonderful hostess at home. With such significant requirements, the guy expects the girl to appreciate the fact of choosing in favor of her. Any manifestations of hysteria will be perceived by the young man with hostility.

Representatives of this zodiac sign are considered good psychologists and are always ready to come to the aid of a person who complains about their problems, but a woman should be ready to voice such out loud. It is generally accepted that Libra does not seek to guess what is wrong with her partner and why she is silent - such behavior does not bother them at all, or annoys them.

In sex, the guy Libra will do his best to ensure that his partner does not remain disappointed - the evidence of her pleasure becomes a wonderful bonus for the pride of a young man. Many consider this sign to be one of the most advanced in terms of foreplay. It is also believed that such a man would be completely opposed to experiments, sometimes even some unusual ones - like relationships on the side. Many Libra are relatively unequal, and can allow an additional partner not only to themselves, but also to their companion, although it is naturally unacceptable to generalize in this case.

With regard to marriage with a man, Libra reviews can be found quite contradictory. On the one hand, such a husband can be an excellent party for almost any girl, because he usually considers his chosen one to be the best, and he is ready to carry one in his arms. He is romantic and tries not to fly too far into heaven, mindful of the same material well-being of the family, albeit not at the transcendental level. On the other hand, there are certain pitfalls, since such a guy wants free space for himself, but is not always ready to provide his partner. Roughly speaking, a companion should find time for him at any time if he wants to, but sometimes he himself can insist that he would like to be alone or go about his business.

However, the problem is solved relatively simply. Libra always carefully preserves inner harmony and seeks muse, therefore the woman’s task is to become that muse without being too intrusive. If a man managed to get rid of any doubts about the correctness of his choice, he becomes a wonderful husband and father.The only thing to remember is that he is still not ready to do this one hundred percent of his time, because from time to time he needs to be given a small outlet, and then the family idyll will last as long as possible.

Typical Libra needs a girl who is characterized by brightness and vitality. Theoretically, a union is possible between any two signs, but in some cases certain concessions are required from both sides, while in others everything works out harmoniously without any additional efforts. Consider briefly all possible options for a companion guy Libra.

• Aries. In general, such a pair is very harmonious, but there is one point that poses a significant risk - a woman is inclined to think that she is more important in this duet, but Libra imperceptibly pulls the blanket over herself, which can provoke an explosion. The main advice for such partners is to focus on finding compromises, then the inherent romance of both will keep them together for a long time.
• Calf. One of the most successful combinations is that few women fit Libra as well. In most moments, their views on life coincide and complement each other, the only thing that is very important is the timely distribution of roles in a couple. This is where the contradictions play the role: she strives for material prosperity - even if she takes on the role of a getter, while Libra is the only man who will not be interested in this lady as a successful careerist, but as a polite and gallant gentleman to whom domestic duties are not alien .

• Twins. From the side, such an alliance is more like friendship than love - both partners can afford to flirt openly with others in the presence of a second half. The potential danger lies in the frivolity of the Gemini girl - she, according to the man, may not pay enough attention to household chores. Another difficult moment is the sharpness of the lady's tongue and the apparent coldness of her gentleman, which comes with time.
• Cancer. In general, such a pair is very promising, since sympathy between such people arises quickly and persists for a long time. Here everyone feels at ease - the girl likes to take care of her beloved, and he feels real satisfaction from this. The risk lies in the fact that Crayfish are usually rather unsure of themselves - a woman often believes that her partner will easily exchange her for another, but jealousy scenes are exactly what Libra would have gladly avoided.

• A lion. And such a combination will already be quite unpredictable. On the one hand, a man likes the brightness of the personality of his partner, and she, being a representative of a selfish sign, is not indifferent to his romantic adoration. On the other hand, the Lioness does not like the fact that her partner often doubts and does not show much zeal for work - in this she can see his weakness, and such a strong sign will not tolerate anyone near her.
• Virgo. Usually Libra such girls are very interesting, because they are inherent in a certain unplayed sophistication - exactly the trait that can conquer such a man. Both are quite romantic, because at first the relationship will seem like a fairy tale, however, everything can ruin Virgo’s desire to live according to a previously drawn up plan, while their partner is prone to a certain spontaneity.

• Libra. This is the case when the same zodiac sign is not a problem, on the contrary - partners have a lot of common interests and outlooks on life. Even an unfavorable financial situation will not destroy such a couple - both understand each other's unwillingness to work hard. The main thing here is to remember the partner’s sensitivity and personal diplomacy when you want to tell the unpleasant truth, otherwise the quarrel of such partners will be extremely stormy.
• Scorpio. The beginning of such a relationship is similar to the ones with the woman Leo - a bright, mysterious lady and her insanely romantic gentleman. However, Scorpio loves to play with a potential partner, because he loves courtship as such, and this only irritates the man. Such an alliance will require compromises on both sides: a man should pay attention to a career to meet the high requirements of a companion, and that should give the guy more freedom. If you love - let go, this is the perfect tip for a lady in such a pair.

• Sagittarius. Here, relationships often begin with friendship, which not only does not count as a minus, but also strengthens mutual understanding in a couple. Such an alliance is equivalent, since the representatives of both signs know how to truly love and vividly express that they both like. The potential danger here is that such a woman is very prone to mood changes and is inclined to constantly try on masks, which completely confuses her partner.
• Capricorn. Such a couple may have very bright feelings for each other, but the main problem in the relationship will be the excessive desire for leadership on the part of women. Libra is not opposed to cede a number of responsibilities to a partner, but they still want a certain freedom, as well as to be interested in their opinion. The question of a couple’s success is how quickly a woman can understand and accept these simple truths, and whether the young man will wait for this moment. If so, he will make his beloved queen.

• Aquarius. Perhaps the only common feature between the representatives of these two signs is the ability to easily get carried away with everything new, which can destroy a couple at the very initial stage of relations. The feelings of such people towards each other often turn out to be very light - so much so that the girl sometimes seems not completely absorbed by them. The situation is somewhat aggravated by the fact that her sex interests much less than him, because the lady will have to actively demonstrate that she needs him.
• Fishes. The connection begins with some common interests - for example, with mutual interest in the beautiful, and only after some time develops into something more. A plus for the relationship will be a general desire to avoid scandals and tantrums, although it often disappoints him with a lack of desire to work around the house, and he is able to hit her with coldness. The man will become the leader of the couple, however, in everything except the financial sphere, he voluntarily agrees to share responsibilities with his wife if she accepts the role of the classic guardian of the hearth.

Girls who want to build a fruitful relationship with the Libra guy should be prepared for the fact that the young man will be unpredictable, and from all that is described, the set of qualities will have two thirds strength, in the remaining third being the exact opposite. However, some of the "basic" features do not disappear, therefore it is worth considering the tactics of building relationships with such a man.

Gaining the attention of a man born under this sign is quite simple, but it is rather about just pleasing or seducing. If you want to attract and conquer forever, you should have certain signs that such guys fall in love with. Numerous reviews indicate that for the most part they are not so original and look quite logical, given the characteristics of typical Libra.

Originality is the first and obligatory feature, without which the girl runs the risk of remaining a passing hobby. It is important to find a fine line so that the unusualness does not resemble shocking - for Libra looking for inner balance, such an image will become more likely a cause for irritation.

Libra is not looking for an iron lady, but a certain strength of mind should be present in the girl - it is unacceptable for her to be a "bastard."Since the young man himself is rather indecisive and doubts much in life, he needs a companion, sometimes able to make a choice for him.

The chosen one of Libra does not have to be a written beauty, but the lady must be at least minimally well-groomed - such a man is looking for a lady, and other options will not suit him. External well-being for such a guy also plays a different role - he does not chase money, and therefore he is usually not ready to take on someone to take over, but he will not pull too expensive a woman.

Libra men belong to those people who like to joke and joke, but their intelligence and sharpness of mind make them come up with jokes that are not understandable to everyone. Consequently, a sullen lady would not suit such a man - he would like to find a cheerful companion able to understand his jokes and joke in return.

Libra is indecisive, and therefore such an important step as parting will be thought over by him a hundred times before the man proceeds to action. Another thing is that in the process of reflection, such a person gradually convinces himself of one of the solutions, and if it turned out to be detrimental to further relations, it will be difficult to make peace with a guy. For this reason, you should never slip into a relationship, reduce your requirements for yourself in relation to what was at first after meeting.

Hysterics, as we already understood, can only aggravate the situation, but logical arguments are the only thing that can affect such an intellectual. At the same time, it is necessary to recognize all the existing shortcomings and indicate that there are much more potential advantages. If there is a specific reason for the breakup, very specific steps should be proposed to eliminate it.

Scales rarely part on the impulse, because their decision is almost always comprehensively balanced, so that after parting on their own initiative, they often completely disappear from the life of the former partner. It will be difficult to return such a man, because he is always looking for his ideal, and, once disappointed, he will draw certain conclusions. Only a significantly changed situation can make him change his mind, when after a while the former passion not only eliminated the reason for parting, but also acquired some advantages that he did not possess before.

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