A wedding is a wonderful and long-awaited holiday for lovers. The order of weddings in Russia, including the redemption of the bride, has its roots in ancient times. In Russia, no wedding was complete without a ransom. This tradition has survived to the present.
Basic Rules
This stage of the celebration is one of the most memorable, along with the painting of the young and their wedding. The ransom of the bride from a private house gives free rein to his organization. The ransom can be in an elegant classic style or, conversely, mixed with comic contests for guests and the groom, especially since the venue is not limited to the narrow entrance and the annoying attention of displeased neighbors.
A professional organizer or toastmaster can prepare the bride’s ransom, but this will be possible for the bridesmaids. The only thing - it is important to remember the basic rules of its implementation.
- The ransom of the bride should set a positive tone for the beginning of the whole celebration. This part of the wedding provides an opportunity to meet friends and relatives, to arrange everyone’s mood for pleasant communication and a festive atmosphere.
- The ransom must be quick so as not to tire the groom and, of course, the guests. We must remember that this part of the event is not an obstacle course for the future spouse, but for the most part the organization of a meeting with the bride. It will be enough 15-20 minutes.
- Jokes, rallies and contests should be clear not only to the main heroes of the occasion, but also to everyone present so that interest in the holiday process does not fade away.
- It is necessary to determine the budget for the creation of scenery and the preparation of props.
- It is important to choose the person who will "command the parade." If the wedding budget is limited, then the bridesmaid can do this task perfectly.
- When planning a foreclosure in a private house, it is necessary to take into account the time of year in which the celebration is held.
Buyback scenery
If the young decided to make a ransom, then it should be bright and memorable, and for this, its important part is the decoration of the courtyard of a private house and, of course, the house itself.
The territory of any private house is fenced. With it you can start the decoration process: decorate with balls, flowers, ribbons. The gate can be decorated with a flower arrangement, a doll in the form of a bride, or a poster indicating that the bride lives in this house.
A comic ransom a priori implies unusual, vibrant and cool scenery.
In this case, the ideas for decorating the ransom place can be limitless: lanterns, fancy figures, bows and balls that can be placed even on trees.
A garland with photos of the newlyweds will be an excellent decoration. She will surely attract the attention of all participants in the celebration.
Funny posters, cartoons can decorate the walls of a private house. Wall newspapers made by the hands of friends, with all kinds of applications and drawings will be a great addition to the overall festive atmosphere.
Gentle and, even without exaggeration, solemnly look at the wedding, the scenery made of natural or artificial flowers. An arch of them can serve as an excellent base for the photo zone. And, of course, you need to consider the time of the year of the wedding. The scenery that you can decorate the yard in winter can look ridiculous in the summer.
In the winter season, flowers can be replaced with fir branches, cones, garlands with snowflakes, and small bright lanterns will create the atmosphere of a fairy tale.
Buyback in a private house provides an excellent opportunity to organize it in a rustic style, therefore, decor with notes of eco-style in the color scheme of yellow and beige tones is perfect.
Possible scenarios
Fabulous
The bride must be seated in the gazebo or porch of the house. But for the groom you need a white horse, on which he will break into the courtyard of the house for his beloved. All the action is accompanied by beautiful music. The groom should present the wedding bouquet to the bride, and to the girlfriends - symbolic gifts.
In the gazebo it is necessary to organize a buffet for guests.
After drinking champagne, young and guests of the holiday go to the official part of the celebration - painting of the newlyweds.
Rustic
Here, of course, you can not do without a harmonist and funny wedding ditties.
Bridesmaids should meet the groom at the gate to the music with thematic funny sentences and sayings. Be sure to force the future husband to sing a Russian folk song and dance. And only then let into the courtyard of the house.
A traditional test for the groom is cutting logs. The newlyweds are blocking the path with a log. He is given a saw to saw it and go to the bride.
The bride can be hidden at this time, and according to signs, for example, from rushnyks, he must find her.
Examples of funny and short ditties for ransom bride:
- So the groom came to us
Oh, what a young one,
So that we live together with the bride
Right before the wedding, golden!
- We are our beauty
We won’t let go without money
And if you are rich,
Then let’s run into the yard.
- And we have a rich bridegroom,
But very economical,
For the bride 100 rubles -
The capital is huge.
- Do not bargain, you are girlfriends,
After all, today is not the day!
100 rubles to you for fun
And to give - then we are too lazy.
- Honey you are our fiance
Do not skimp on gifts
After all, our bride will take
Euros, dollars, rubles!
- Happiness to you, more children,
Replenish you country
Rely on in our life
You can only wife!
With gypsies
It will be great if you organize the groom’s entrance to the courtyard where the bride expects, on three horses with gypsy men.At the entrance, bright, cheerful gypsy women, led by the presenter, “the gypsy baron,” are expected.
The groom must have bills and coins with him in order to “gilt the pen” for the gypsies. All women will need to hand out shawls and organize gypsy music in the courtyard.
At the entrance, the “gypsy baron” asks why the groom came, and explains to him that without fortune-telling and money he will not be able to pick up the bride. Gypsy must tell fortune to the groom on the cards. To do this, make cards with photographs, one of which will be the bride. Until the groom finds the right card, he must pay a ransom to the gypsies.
Through the door of the room where the bride expects, bring several ends of colorful ribbons, each of which is tied to the girlfriends and the bride herself.
Until the bridegroom pulls out the bride’s ribbon, he must pay the ransom.
Bondiad style
Surely everyone watched the movie "Casino Royale." The groom must pass the test and confirm to everyone that he is no worse than agent 007. The bride is waiting for her liberator in the hands of bandits.
To pick her up, the groom passes the tests: shoots from a toy pistol before hitting, raises the bar from inflatable balls, passes a lie detector. The bridegroom at the detector will need to answer short questions about the bride: is it true or not.
To everyone who takes part in the ransom, in order to maintain the overall color of the wedding, one must give out hats and create the appropriate surroundings.
In the classic version
In this program, the main components should be rigor and romanticism. As a rule, such a ransom does not imply comic contests. The future parents should meet the groom with his friends. The yard can be decorated in a vintage style using fresh flowers, ribbons in pastel colors. Be sure to sound beautiful classical music.
The groom should expect a bride with friends in a decorated area with a wedding bouquet. The bride herself goes to the groom with her friends along a path lined with rose petals or decorated with beautiful decorations.
Tips for organizing a bride foreclosure in the video below.
