The wedding of children is one of the most exciting and important events for parents. Perhaps even more significant than for the newlyweds themselves. On this day, parents let their children go on a free joint flight through life.
It is very important to show your parents on the day of your marriage their love and tenderness, respect and admiration. And the dance of the young spouses with their parents is one way to express filial feelings.
Groom dance with mom
This is one of the most important moments of the wedding, the same as the first dance of the newlyweds. He must express the strength of the bonds of mother and child, the feelings that continue to bind them, despite the beginning of an adult, independent life. Mom gives her son into the hands of her beloved wife, and the son must show his mother all his tenderness and gratitude for years of warmth and support.
This dance causes emotion, nostalgia for carefree childhood and youth.
Choosing a performance style, do not forget that your mother is not a young girl, it’s already difficult for her to dance. Ask your mom what kind of dance she likes. Usually this is a slow waltz to beautiful music.
But other options are possible.
- Cool dance to the songs from the cartoons. You can write a small script of the performance yourself, make a fun and touching show.
- Energetic dance with potpourri of incendiary mixes. It does not need complex movements, just learn a few simple dance steps and rehearse them.
- Mixed style of performance - first a slow dance to the lyric composition, then a sharp transition to passionate tango or any other exciting dance. A well-prepared room will cause a storm of delight.
- Your mother, in her youth, most likely loved to dance to folk songs - give her pleasure, learn her favorite dance (if this does not contradict the style of the whole celebration).
- The best option is a dance to a song of your own composition and performance (ideally). You can express in your own words the whole depth of your feelings for your mother - the woman who raised you from the cradle, brought up, worried with you and for you all your failures and mistakes. If you are unsure of your voice or self-control at the celebration, record your song in advance and ask the host to include it in the banquet program.
Preparation
You can invite a choreographer specialist to stage this certainly beautiful and touching dance, or you can try to do it yourself.
Advantages of calling a specialist:
- he will be able to appreciate the strengths and weaknesses of you as dance partners;
- to advise musical compositions and style of performance;
- pick the right moves and learn them with you.
By cons include the cost of its services. In a situation where the budget of the festival is limited, of course, it is better to do it yourself.
It is best to prepare and rehearse this performance in advance in order to avoid unpleasant surprises.
When preparing, pay attention to the following factors:
- suitable musical composition;
- banquet hall flooring material;
- footwear;
- mom's outfit;
- photo and video shooting of the wedding.
The first thing, of course, is to choose a song to which you will dance with your mother.
An ideal option for a slow dance would be a thematic composition about mom. You can select from the list.
- B. Takhtakhunov - “Thank you, mom.”
- A. Maklakov "Mother's eyes."
- E. Martynov "Gratitude to mothers."
- M. Zadorin “Mom”.
- R. Karimov - “Thank you, mom.”
- Bon Jovi - "Thank you for loving me."
- Elvis Presley - "The Wonder of You".
- Any other - there are a great many songs about mom in any language of the world. Perhaps you and your mom have a common favorite song, then the problem of choosing a song does not exist at all.
For an energetic dance for potpourri from hits from different years, look for songs on the Internet, choose the right one and learn the necessary dance figures.
When choosing a folk dance, consult your parents - they understand this better than the younger generation. Ask your father to show you dance moves.
Rehearsals would be ideal to start long before the celebration, because the last days before him are too hectic and packed to the limit with all sorts of deeds and concerns. You can do this in your home environment, but try to rehearse at least a couple of times in wedding clothes and shoes in the banquet hall, where a celebration will be held to appreciate the interaction of shoes and the floor - is it slipping too much, creaking and the like.
The mother’s outfit for the wedding should be comfortable and beautiful, designed in the style of the wedding itself, but not like the outfit of a young bride. Too wide sleeves will mask the movements of the hands, and the narrowed silhouette of the dress will hamper the movements.
Try to dance in such a way that the photo and video operators have the most favorable angle of shooting. An ideal option would be if you consult with them before the celebration.
A great idea would be a background design in the form of a slide show of your children's photos.
How to choose the right moment?
Sometimes the dance of a young spouse with mom is announced immediately after the dance of the newlyweds. Often, a festive wedding banquet is divided into three sections: the first is opened by the groom and the bride, the second is the groom and the mother, and the third is the bride and her father. Consult with the manager - the host of the celebration, he, as a professional with great experience, should choose the ideal option.
What can be said in the end? Dare, create, choose what you like - this is your day! Express all your feelings in the dance! Both to the bride and to mother.
You will see a beautiful and energetic dance of your son and mother at the wedding in the next video.
