On the eve of such an important event as a wedding, many guys arrange a bachelor party. The article will discuss who should organize the event and pay all expenses, as is usually done by the bachelor party, and what is presented to the groom.
What it is?
Before the wedding, you need to have a bachelor party - this is the opinion of many modern guys. Having a party in honor of the groom is a kind of tradition that has long taken root in many countries of the world. As a rule, such an event is very fun. A group of friends, led by the groom, gathers and everyone celebrates the last days of his friend's bachelor life.
Usually the bachelor party is held so that then the groom, and all other friends, have something to remember. The young groom should feel all the delights of a loose, bachelor life at this party, organized in his honor.
There is such a stereotype that at the bachelor party a variety of spirits must necessarily flow like a river, there must be crowds of dancers ready for anything, and so on. This is usually the opinion of the bride, who always oppose such parties. But very often, bachelor parties are completely different from what the girls think. The event can be interesting, fun and quite consistent with the limits of decency. Consider some ideas on how to organize such a bachelor party. But more on that later.
Who organizes and pays?
According to established tradition, the groom’s witness is taken to organize such an event as a bachelor party.
Usually, as a witness to the wedding, the guys invite their best and closest friend or someone from close relatives.Therefore, it is a witness who must know all the tastes and preferences of the groom who will be able to organize an unforgettable party for him.
Often all the financial costs incurred by the witness of the groom too. But it is quite possible to combine efforts with those who will be present at the party. In this case, all finances are divided equally between all participants in the bachelor party. It also happens that the groom himself is also invested in a future party. Such delicate issues are decided in advance, together between friends and pals, who will definitely be present at the bachelor party.
It is worth noting that very often, friends led by a witness secretly organize such an event for the groom and give him a grand surprise. And how the financial issue will be resolved, and who will pay for the event, it already depends on the personal capabilities of each.
When do they spend?
As a rule, after the engagement and before the wedding day, young people have at least a month left. Therefore, the bachelor party may well be arranged any day until the celebration. Of course, it is better not to organize such events just a day or two before the wedding. Indeed, the last week before such an important event is always stressful, and there are still a lot of things to do before the wedding. Therefore, the ideal time for a bachelor party is to organize it two weeks before the wedding itself.
If there is very little time left, you can organize a party for the groom at least five days before the wedding. Just this time is enough to ensure that all participants in the bachelor party came to their senses after the party and attended the wedding in good health.
How to organize?
It is quite possible to go to the nearest bar with a big and noisy male company, and there you just have fun. But surely everyone wants a party like this to be somehow unusual and to be remembered by the groom and his friends for a long time. There are several ideas that are sure to be useful to all those who are planning to organize a bachelor party in the near future.
Agree that every man loves extreme and speed. Therefore, you can organize a bachelor party in some unusual place, for example, arrange a real race in karting. All guys like to drive cars, and karting is the best option.
There, it is quite possible to organize a small buffet dinner, to later celebrate the victory of one of our friends together. In addition, you can pre-order original and commemorative diplomas for each participant in this impromptu competition. Of course, the groom should get the main diploma.
If the groom does not like cards, but loves speed, then it is quite possible to go out of town in order to drive ATVs from the heart from the heart there. And if the season has already begun, then it is possible on snowmobiles. Being in nature, it is quite possible to arrange a kind of quest. You can organize everything in advance, and you will be helped to make cards with interesting tasks. It will be fun to drive in nature, go through various obstacles, and eventually find the main prize. At the end of such a quest, it will be possible to present to the groom a pre-prepared gift, or to arrange a party in a forest house. Such a bachelor party guy will definitely like it.
Bachelor party is a party for the groom. And therefore it will be quite logical if at such an event his old dream will come true. For example, if you know for sure that the groom has long dreamed of flying in a wind tunnel or a parachute jump, then why not all together realize the long-held dream of the hero of the occasion. And after such an extreme beginning of the bachelor party, it is quite possible to go to the nearest night club or bar, and already there to continue the fun.
In the event that the celebration is planned in the winter season, it is best to go to the mountains. There you can rent a cozy cottage for this fun event. To have something to do during the day, you can go snowboarding or skiing.After such entertainment, it will be very pleasant to continue the evening in a warm and comfortable cottage, bask in the fireplace with a glass of mulled wine, and then throw a noisy party with dancing.
Wherever you organize a bachelor party so that it will be fun and unforgettable, it is imperative to prepare various contests in advance. For example, the oath of the groom that he undertakes not to forget his friends and meet with them at least once a month has already become a traditional and integral part of the bachelor party.
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What to gift?
Since the bachelor party is the same significant event in a guy’s life as a wedding, often friends give the groom a bachelor party original and memorable presents. Of course, organizing the event itself is already a gift, but you always want to present something that will remind the groom of this fun evening.
The present does not have to be expensive, because you will still give gifts for the wedding. And as a gift in honor of the bachelor party, a small memorable and comic present is quite suitable.
For example, you can give your groom a luxurious bathrobe with an original inscription, some kind of joke that only you know about. And also a t-shirt with a memorable inscription about the past bachelor party is quite suitable as a presentation.
Every man will be happy with such a gift as a bottle of his favorite alcoholic drink. By the way, such a present can be accompanied by a comic postcard, and then take an oath from the groom that you will all break it together, for example, a year later.
If you know exactly about the hobbies and hobbies of the hero of the occasion, then you can give him accessories or gadgets that will definitely come in handy for him. For example, it can be a spinning rod for a fishing enthusiast, a collection coin for a numismatist, an original lighter for a cigar lover, a new helmet for a motorcycle lover, and so on. The groom will definitely be happy with such a present.
In addition, you can well give him such a present, which he can use together with his young wife. For example, this is a trip for a few days to a country boarding house, a certificate for a parachute jump for two, for a photo shoot, for a horse ride, and so on. Such attention from friends will be appreciated not only by the groom himself, but also by his young bride. The girl will immediately understand what good and caring friends her future husband has, and will be happy to let him go to meetings with friends.
