34 years of marriage: features and traditions of the anniversary, gift tips

For thirty-four years of marriage, the couple creates their own atmosphere. She is quite comfortable, and no one wants to change her. The life experience gained in the process of building the cell of society becomes a valuable baggage that can be passed on to your children and grandchildren.

This significant date is called the amber wedding, because the relationship of the spouses ripen to an ideal form, like amber. It is his properties that characterize the relationship between a man and a woman at 34 years of marriage. Few manage to overcome this milestone, preserve their relationships and not lose their attachment and respect for each other. The acts committed at the beginning of the creation of the marriage do not cause any negative memories, and 34 years of marriage turned their relationship into an understanding without words.

Amber is a gem obtained by hardening the resin of coniferous trees. This metamorphosis takes quite a long time, and the result is a perfect mineral. This sun stone has amazing colors - from yellow-red to almost black. The color of the hardened resin symbolizes solar energy, it is a pleasure to hold it in your hands. It is inherent in strength and hardness, such are the relations of the spouses.

The stone has long been known in Russia, since ancient times it was set into amulets and charms. There is a belief that it protects from evil and adversity, harmonizes the biofield. Spouses managed to overcome numerous difficulties, survive quarrels and conflicts. So amber is influenced by natural forces in order to become stronger and more reliable.If the spouses foresaw how many obstacles to domestic happiness they would have to overcome, they gratefully accepted them - after all, this only strengthened their union even more.

Each year spent together is an occasion for joy and triumph. Not every couple has such an impressive experience behind them as 34 years. No wonder every anniversary has its own name and symbolic meaning. The celebration of this joyful event often takes place in the family circle or in private, since the date is not round. Many celebrate this significant day in a big way, inviting friends and relatives to the restaurant.

But even in this case, a homely and cozy atmosphere will create an atmosphere of unity of family ties. The choice of location depends on the preferences and financial capabilities of the initiators of the celebration. Guests choose clothes in orange tones. Newlyweds will complement their image with accessories of yellow flowers. An elegant dress with golden accents will suit his wife. The decoration of the festive table and interior should be objects of honey color. The table is covered with a golden tablecloth, dim lighting with warm light is set. Elegant garlands of the corresponding palette will add charm to the room.

At the holiday table, the presence of:

• yellow and orange vegetables and fruits;
• dishes of sea fish, since amber is mined on the seashore;
• red wine;
• sweets;
• compositions of bright colors;
• candles of solar tones.

The couple, who have kept intimacy and tenderness in a couple, will be glad to accept congratulations and share their joy with their relatives. On this solemn day, it is important to pronounce pleasant words and express the wishes of a long family life. The culprits of the celebration share with close warm memories of the years they lived. Cries of "bitter" will periodically interrupt the course of the holiday, and the kiss of the newlyweds should last 34 minutes. On this day, the couple renew their vows of allegiance, repeatedly confessing to each other in love and fidelity.

Amber products representing the fortress of marriage bonds will become symbolic. If the pair needs more mundane things, pay attention to household items. When choosing a present, it is better to adhere to the amber color palette. It can be:

• jewelry with amber - earrings, rings, pendants, cufflinks;
• interior items with amber crumbs - vases, figurines;
• bedclothes or sand-colored bedspreads;
• dishes in the autumn colors - tea set, set of plates, salad bowl;
• indoor plants with yellow flowers;
• honey as the owner of an amber color palette;
• photo printing - mugs or t-shirts;
• family photo shoot; autumn landscape is good as a background;
• photograph of the newlyweds in a saffron color frame;
• lighting devices - chandeliers, lamps;
• signs of attention that will remain in your memory for a long time - an invitation to the theater, to the exhibition, to the cinema, to a country trip.

Think over text congratulations to the smallest detail, make them sincere and touching to the core. Rehearse your speech in advance. Use epithets and metaphors, poems of various kinds, linking the wedding anniversary with the properties of amber.

According to tradition, on the anniversary of the husband and wife exchange products from amber. The best offer will be jewelry made in an interesting design. A man will be happy to receive a tie clip or keychain. A good option would be an unusual pendant or cigarette case.

It is not necessary to give precious things. If your spouse has a hobby, show respect for him with a practical gift. Items for fishing or hunting, sports equipment, computer gadgets - there are no restrictions for your imagination.

It is believed that men are the best cooks. If your husband is one of them, then the kitchen utensils will give him double pleasure, because he will certainly be able to thank you with an exquisite dish prepared specially for you.

A good option is to attend some courses or master classes together (in cooking, drawing, pair dancing), because the greatest happiness is a joint activity. If your husband is an incorrigible romantic, arrange a romantic date for him in a restaurant, then take a walk holding hands on a moonlit night home. An alternative is to ride a horse or a boat.

If your wife loves jewelry, here is a little easier. Give her a ring with a stone or a set of earrings. Many ladies will gladly accept a pendant or bracelet as a gift. An inlaid box for storing small trinkets will please your half. Do not limit your imagination. An original and memorable gift will delight her for many years.

You can arrange a romantic trip to the place that the lady of your heart wants to visit. Any travel agency will offer you a trip to your taste with visiting attractions. This will be your next honeymoon.

A very touching thing will be a letter written by you to your spouse, with declarations of love and admiration. You may not be a writer, but your half will remember your message for life.

In the morning, prepare your partner in life breakfast in gratitude for happiness and harmony in the family, for care and tenderness.

Gifts from children are perhaps the most valuable and expensive for the hearts of elderly newlyweds. Knowing perfectly the tastes and preferences of the parents, they will be able to choose the most successful present. After all, this is not only a gift, but also a sign of admiration for your mom and dad. Express your boundless gratitude to them for a wonderful example of warmth and devotion.

Fashionable in our time is video greetings. Such creativity always causes violent emotions and delight. This can include children's photos, shots of family chronicle, interviews of relatives and friends. A well-chosen musical accompaniment will not leave anyone indifferent.

A delightful surprise can be a beautifully inlaid frame for a common photo or an elegantly designed family album. It is easy to find a money tree with golden stone leaves in the store. The main thing is to put it in the sunny part of the house to reveal all the shades of the gem.

On this memorable date, you can bring joy to your parents and present a certificate for massage or tickets for a trip together to where they have long wanted to go.

The idea to make a gift with your own hands is very successful. They invest their souls in such presents and make them with great love. Parents love to receive souvenirs made by their own children.

You can organize a festive event with competitions and dances. Invite your parents to a country trip, organize a picnic. Creative people can decorate a beautiful wall panel with images of the highlights of the couple’s life. Such a work will pleasantly surprise and inspire the heroes of the occasion for romance. For autumn honeymooners, give your own made bouquet of maple leaves with sprigs of mountain ash.

If you know how to knit, knit a symbolic soft toy, scarves, hats and mittens in a sand color palette.

See an example of an interesting handmade gift for a husband.