Scorpio is a zodiac sign whose representatives have a complex character. Most of all goes to those who are trying to build a relationship with them, therefore, for the successful development of a joint history, a person who claims to be Scorpio's love must have a good understanding of the partner and be prepared for all the associated trials.
Characteristic
Representatives of this zodiac sign are characterized by a very vivid passion - such a person is very prone to hypertrophied feelings and is ready to sacrifice absolutely everything for them. In love, such a person is prone to emotions, but the cold calculation, characteristic of him, in other situations, here does not even recede into the background, but into the background. A scorpio can either love or hate, but any intermediate variants of emotions - this is absolutely not his way.
Vivid emotions do not always benefit Scorpio and his relationship - he is extremely affectionate and this can even be annoying.
At the same time, such a partner is prone to poorly controlled jealousy, and in case of resentment is able to say a lot of unnecessary. Interestingly, an individual born under this sign is generally very prone to an active sex life, but in some cases, improper upbringing causes such a person to close and abandon his desires, which often leads to a real catastrophe. Such a bright personality, who does not have the opportunity to adequately realize himself in the sexual field, turns into a cruel dictator - in particular, this is a common reason why many Scorpions torment their partners.
Moreover, it is the abundance of emotions that is usually the main tactic of representatives of this sign, which is aimed at conquering a potential partner. The crazy determination, typical of such people, cannot but be accompanied by charisma, which attracts others. Scorpio usually doesn’t leave a vivid impression on the part, but sometimes it’s enough to talk with him quite a bit to make his charm work. However, without strong feelings, such a person does not think himself, and they do not even have to be extremely positive, so the potential partner should prepare for constant upheavals.
Which partner do you need?
Since Scorpio is difficult to consider a neutral person, for him the best partner in a relationship will be the one who complements him as much as possible. This means that in the strict requirements of such a person, the partner must fully comply, and in everything else - be the opposite.
For example, an immensely confident, but very jealous Scorpio, is in dire need of a partner who will not lay claim to leadership in relations and will give up the reins of family life, and will not change either because of his own insecurity, or because of a penchant for loyalty. Again, the emotional outbursts of Scorpio, including those based on jealousy, should not destroy the marriage, because the ideal partner should treat them normally and not worry too much about them, albeit react to them - otherwise Scorpio himself will explode.
Since the representatives of the considered zodiac sign are very purposeful, it is quite difficult for them to observe the complete amorphousness of the life aspirations of the partner.
This is not to say that they definitely need an overly active partner in life, because they could focus too much on their goals to the detriment of relationships or even take leadership in the latter, but in general Scorpio likes people who work hard and have a purpose in life.
By the way, a sign so prone to emotions constantly requires emotional recharging, and it would be very good for a relationship if such energy were predominantly positive. A certain mystery of the partner will benefit Scorpio, because such a life partner can be an inexhaustible source of inspiration.
Signs of falling in love
Scorpio in love is a complete contradiction, because in general, the tyrannical representative of the sign is ready to literally become a slave to the object of his adoration. To understand that such a person loves you is not always very simple - most often he does not recognize, but is silent, although he shows his disposition with quite noticeable signs of attention.
Scorpio, who is secretly in love, does not exist at all - he behaves characteristically, and it remains only to correctly interpret his behavior.
- A typical person born under this sign is in many ways inclined to narcissism, and even a huge part of his time is purposefulness - after all, he must once work to achieve his goals. If Scorpio suddenly found time on you, and even more than once, it is worth considering - maybe it is you who are his goal. If it is known for certain that such a person abandoned his plans for your sake, it is definitely love.
- Scorpio, who loves to manage any situation in his life, is very prone to psychological games. For him, to fall in love with a person means to learn to control him, because he will probably try to artificially provoke certain emotions from a potential partner, for example, make him jealous. If other provoked emotions can still leave doubts, then an attempt to cause jealousy is a very eloquent hint.
- People born under this sign do not seem too secretive, but there are some things that they usually do not cover.Given the narcissism of Scorpio, he is unlikely to be happy if an outsider sees him in a losing position, even if this is a story from the past. If he gives in to something or is able to point out his own weaknesses, then you are definitely not an outsider. Most often, the openness of such a partner testifies to very serious intentions.
- Long conversations are another lesson that Scorpio will not do with anyone.
This fits well with his understanding of the correct distribution of time, and if it is for chatter, even if in the form of an interesting debate, it means that future relationships are quite possible.
Relationship to love and marriage
Love for Scorpio is another mysterious game, a certain challenge that, as it were, casts doubt on the ability of this person to subjugate a partner. The meaning of relations for representatives of this sign is largely to conquer an initially independent person and to keep control over it as long as possible. From the side it usually does not look too romantic, but it is.
Moreover, the partner is usually not really spoiled by the classic manifestations of love from Scorpio. Although he is very inclined to become attached to his soulmate, outwardly he does not show this, considering that the very fact of his constant presence is sufficient. Moreover, in the words of such a person, obvious sympathy does not always sound - for example, he can respond to a partner as a rival. However, the latter usually indicates precisely good prospects for relations, because they are a competition for Scorpio, where a good rival is needed.
It’s relatively easy to make a first impression on Scorpio - although he appreciates the external beauty, he is still not particularly picky about it and, in principle, does not consider it a determining factor. What is more important is frankness and sincere feelings, because for this person emotions are extremely important. A typical Scorpio can look for its partner for a long time, but in life it is monogamous, and will stop in its search at the very moment when it finds a person who is expressing his sincere love out loud and is ready to completely submit to the eccentric nature of his companion.
Compatibility
Based on what traits Scorpio seeks in other people, we can conclude which zodiac signs suit him and which ones do not. Among the best potential partners are Cancer, Capricorn and Pisces.
For example, Cancer is in many cases even overly passive., that's why the activity and passion of Scorpio to such a person seems to be a very harmonious feature for relations. Cancer itself is very modest and often underestimates itself, therefore it will be infinitely loyal to the leader of the couple, and this will also be appreciated. Somewhere deep down, Scorpio will believe that such a partner can’t do without him, and this will provoke a huge sense of responsibility, only strengthening the couple.
The huge plus of Capricorn paired with Scorpio lies in the fact that he positively perceives outbreaks of jealousy of the latter, considering them a kind of praise. Capricorn himself is rather hardworking, but to achieve the highest goals he does not always have enough emotions and charge that only a partner with such a violent character can give him.
In such relations, Scorpio perceives the satellite as his own creation, which in many respects achieves success thanks to his participation, and of course he likes this game.
As for Pisces, they are a mystery, which, however, is not always able to actively confront the world. Here a unique situation arises when it is not Scorpio that feeds the partner, but itself feeds on it, charging with additional emotions, which it spends, including for additional support of the satellite.
In general, relations with Scorpio are possible with another Scorpio or Taurusbut on the path to happiness, such a tandem must resolve important differences. For example, this zodiac sign is characterized by a desire for leadership in relationships, but when there are two such people in a pair at once, their attempts to find out who is in charge can destroy any prospect very quickly. It’s good if the woman yields, because of the two genders, it is the weak who is more willing to compromise - only then two identical signs will get along. As for Taurus, he perfectly understands Scorpio in everything, both partners perfectly see each other’s shortcomings, and most importantly, it’s completely unusual for both to keep silent about this.
With whom Scorpio’s relationship has practically no chance, it is with Libra, Leo and Gemini. In the first case, harmonious Libra, which initially attracts a partner with its poise, can lead Scorpio to madness because of his frivolity and the ability to easily change orientations, while the partner’s hysteria is usually a bright stop signal. The situation is similar with Gemini - they value their freedom too highly to endure the partner’s attempts to subjugate them for a long time. Together with Leo, the difficulty lies not only in the huge egoism of both partners, but also in the difference in views on relations - Scorpio is more interested in passion, while his companion will give preference to tenderness.
Tips
Being with Scorpio is not an easy task, but if you really want to, you will have to pay great attention to following some important tips.
How to conquer?
Representatives of the sign do not immediately distinguish anyone from the crowd and are ready to pay little attention to everyone - do not regard this as sympathy. Such a person can be liked not so much in appearance as in mentality and character, therefore it is worthwhile to act deliberately. The point is to stand out from the crowd and be an original person - only then you will be clearly distinguished.
Flattery is not for Scorpio, who always keeps it in his head that he is better than he is, therefore he clearly sees stretched praise as an attempt to achieve something.
Since such a person likes to constantly prove to himself that he is the best, you just need to be a worthy opponent to him - even if he defends his own opinion. It is important not to go too far, because logic should always be reasoned so as not to look stupid.
Scorpio loves eroticism, so you can play on this. You need to find a fine line between seductiveness and accessibility and not step over it, but a significant delay with the first proximity can simply scare the partner away.
How to hold?
To keep Scorpio important, it is important not to lose all the benefits that were originally demonstrated. Scorpio's partner should always remain for him a worthy opponent and an interesting personality; if the emphasis was on weakness, then the satellite should always need the support of Scorpio. If everything is done correctly, such a person will not give up - he is a one-man. He can make peace if the partner admits his mistake and is engaged in restoring relations, but if the cause was jealousy, the task will become very complicated.
How to return?
Scorpios are not those people who part too easily, and if he leaves himself, then either there was no relationship at all, or there is disappointment in the partner, and then it is hardly possible to return him. Parting usually provokes a routine that representatives of this sign can not stand and from which they quickly run. On the whole, the Scorpio who fell out of love is a contradiction, therefore, in the presence of sincere love, Scorpio is left more often than vice versa.
See Scorpio’s general psychological profile in the next video.