Scorpio and Cancer: characteristics of the union of Water signs and possible problems in relationships
Cancer and Scorpio are two representatives of the same controlling water element. It would seem that such a couple is a classic example of perfect compatibility of horoscopic signs, but even in their relations there are pitfalls, whether it is the interaction of colleagues, lovers or parents and children. Knowing about possible problems will help to harmoniously build relationships, avoiding potential acute angles in relationships.
Characteristics of signs
Crayfish are born from June 22 to July 22 under the influence of water. Their patron planet is the moon. She determines the mysterious nature and depth of her wards. Crayfish are capable of great feelings, but they are usually hidden under a thick shell of coldness and a somewhat contemptuous attitude towards people. In fact, under the external indifference lives a very vulnerable person, kind-hearted and gentle. It is these qualities and the fear of being deceived, hurt by the living that makes the representatives of the sign so carefully hide their feelings and emotional impulses.
Those born under the constellation Cancer are extremely distrustful, have a fairly limited circle of friends and do not let strangers into their abode.
This is a saying about them: "My house is my fortress." At the same time, Cancers are truly domovit, they are the most zealous owners and skilled hostesses. Everything that is possible is carried to the house for its improvement, creating comfort and coziness for the whole family.
Such people do not like loneliness, so they try to get a family.This is one of the most successful partners among the zodiac signs for creating a family, while it is a rather complicated partner for interpersonal relationships. By their natural incredulity and secrecy, their nature is not revealed immediately. Crayfish are too deep in themselves and their feelings, which, however, are in no hurry to talk to their half. The partner takes this attitude and soon gets tired of having to guess about Cancer’s thoughts and mood. He may step aside, but the touchy watermark will not forgive such a thing and may even harbor vengeful malice.
For a harmonious union, Cancer needs a patient and understanding partner who will not push, and with a positive will periodically pull out of bouts of melancholy and bad mood. However, the wards of the moon are sometimes left alone with their thoughts. The main thing is to make it clear that you did not leave them to deal with their problems on their own, but you are always there and able to help.
This is a sign of very emotional and sensitive natures, sometimes even to sentimentality. They have developed intuition, thanks to which they accurately sense the possible problems and troubles in their lives. They understand in advance that the relationship will be doomed or that it is not worth contacting the individual. They also feel quite everyday dangers: they will not drive if they are tormented by bad forebodings.
Under the sign of Scorpio, they were born from October 24 to November 22 under the control of the planets of Pluto and Mars. The most common horoscope characterizes these people as very active, irresistible, courageous and purposeful. Like Cancers, they are endowed with enviable intuition and emotionality. Another common feature that unites signs is an extreme degree of jealousy. It has a very negative effect on relationships, especially since in most cases it is not justified or supported by facts.
Idealism, secrecy and prudence make it difficult to build relationships with them both at the initial stage and in a closer period. Scorpio will try to prick with a caustic sting of ridicule or sudden checks.
They are very distrustful, no less than Cancers, and big owners in relation to everyone who is at least somewhat close to them.
This watermark strangely combines passions and emotions with cold calculation and sobriety of the mind. In the service field, such a person can achieve a lot, but in his personal life it will be difficult to find a person to whom Scorpio can fully open up. Because of this, a series of dubious novels and love failures arises, after which the representatives of the sign become even more distrustful.
Despite a number of negative features, this sign is very popular among others due to its intense energy and charisma. They can easily captivate the team with their ideas, and then cool off to their projects themselves. So their peculiar changeable character is manifested, because the mood of Scorpio can change ten times a day. Inconsistency and temper are the main enemies of the sign on the path to building harmonious relationships with others. They are too intolerant of other people's weaknesses and demanding of people, which is why they themselves suffer because of their hypertrophied idealism.
Love compatibility
We can say that both representatives of the zodiac circle are very lucky if they can meet each other at an early age. This will save the guy and the girl from trial and error in a bad relationship. If there are couples that are one hundred percent compatible, then this is Scorpio and Cancer. The beginning of their relationship is usually very bright. About such novels they write books and make films. They are drawn to each other with insane strength, and in their relationship they simply cease to notice others.
Due to the fact that partners and in bed are ideally suited to each other, they can spend (if possible) just weeks together. Then, however, there may come a period of misunderstanding and cooling. If relations develop along this path, it is very important for the couple to try as calmly as possible to survive this first difficult period. Then they will be able to build long-term strong relationships.
It will not be difficult for any of them to win a representative of a related element, because they literally breathe in unison. Shared interests, goals and similar outlooks on life - they are united by too much, and they understand each other literally. Relations in such a pair are based on the intuitive feeling of the partner and his deep demands.
This is quite simple for representatives of one element endowed with fantastic intuition.
Well, if in a love relationship a man is Scorpio, and a woman is Cancer. They will form an archetypal model of relations between representatives of opposite sexes. Purposeful and seductive man Scorpio will be able to conquer the quiet and domestic girl Cancer with her charisma, intelligence and reliability. The only thing that he should not at first behave too persistently and assertively, as this can scare away the cautious lady of the heart.
Both in this pair do not have pink glasses, and they are able to soberly evaluate each other. Everyone sees the partner’s shortcomings and loves him with all the features of his character, because even his negative sides are in love with his weaknesses and are able to feel sorry for the other in a relationship, standing in his place. Such a union is attractive in that it gives both spiritual development and genuine feelings.
If a woman in a pair is Scorpio, and a man is Cancer, then a rather interesting relationship can turn out if she shows a little wisdom. An active and restless person will be annoyed from the very beginning by the slowness of the partner, his mood depressing for periods. In addition, she will most likely drive the chosen one in the business field, strive to promote him. Possible struggle for the role of the main thing in the relationship. Formally and actually, it will be a Scorpio woman. This situation, with all the softness of Cancer, will abhor his male pride.
To harmonize relations Scorpio will have to show female wisdom and push the companion to the desired actions not so persistently and more imperceptibly. She herself would have to become softer, at least outwardly. A man in this duet should also sometimes listen to the aspirations and wishes of his companion. Then the combination of their strongest qualities will make both only more successful. They are always ready to help each other out, substituting a faithful and reliable shoulder.
Cancer and Scorpio have common and not quite attractive features. Both are terrible jealous, even if the other half is completely trustworthy. They are quite touchy and vindictive, and Scorpio is offended more. A bad joke can even lead him into a bad mood.
Crayfish usually quietly and silently accumulate their resentment, moving away from a partner, while his fellow elementary just waits for the right moment, accumulating anger, so that in case of revenge is stronger.
The prospect of family life
If in some random way the paths of these representatives of the water element intersect, then they can make a very strong couple for the envy of many. Their relationship can begin with an acquaintance in a park or on the shore of a quiet reservoir, where both love to walk and continue for many decades. They will be brought together even by common preferences during pastime. Avoiding noisy companies, both will be happy to spend time in a cozy house with their soul mate or in nature.
In marriage in any situation they will invariably support each other, no matter what happens. They clearly understand their goals and see a shared future. This union is supported by a solid material foundation, because such a tandem can accomplish the impossible. Spouses will not fight and flaunt each other with their successes.Everyone clearly knows his role and performs the functions most suitable for his strength and ability. Scorpio does an excellent job of making money, and the economical Cancer multiplies and economically uses the financial resources of the family.
Sexual compatibility of spouses is quite safe. Scorpions are wonderful lovers, passionate and sensual, prone to experimentation. Making love is their element. They will appreciate the subtle sensuality of Cancer, which is hidden behind external modesty and initially restrained behavior. The Cancer woman does not immediately reveal to her partner, but will appreciate his sophistication in bed. Cancer man has no less potential than Scorpio, but is rarely able to talk about his desires and fantasies. He will be grateful to his brave and relaxed partner.
A husband born under the constellation Cancer is an ideal family man, a model of nobility and kindness. He just lives the life of his family, her smallest daily needs, adores his wife and pampers children. Reproduction, preservation of traditions - for him the meaning of life. It will be with great pleasure that he will spend evenings with his family, rather than with friends. His half, born under the sign of Scorpio, on the contrary, can get involved, start small insignificant intrigues. At the same time, Cancer should not be afraid for his honor - his wife will always be faithful to him. She will be able to submit a lot of bold ideas and push for their implementation, to give fire to relationships. The only thing you should not play with is the trust of Cancer.
Undermining it once, it will be difficult to restore.
A man Scorpio can become a reliable, but complex in nature, life partner. Often, he manifests outbreaks of anger and aggression, which can be very painfully perceived by his wife. Quiet, caring, she does not deserve such behavior. And Scorpio, of course, appreciates her activities in arranging common life and her contribution to the common family business. He should not neglect the peace of mind of his girlfriend. But you can vouch for her loyalty. Although she is successful in men, she is simply incapable of betrayal, because she experiences the deepest emotional and emotional attachment to her partner.
The couple easily overcomes minor family troubles, just not considering it possible to quarrel over trifles. Their best assistant in the fight against misunderstanding is a good sense of humor. The ability to translate a grudge or an emerging conflict as a joke, it is easier to relate to certain things is very important for this married couple. However, one must be careful here, since both are very proud. A friendly joke should be distinguished from evil irony, the desire to prick or ridicule the personality of a loved one. They should not go to extremes, because then, balancing on the basis of the golden mean, husband and wife will be able to live in love, happiness and respect for many years.
The only weakness of such an alliance is the tendency of the zodiac signs to get addicted to something, to become addicted. They need to be moderate in everything: bad habits, sex, gambling. With the addiction of one partner with a high probability, the second will turn on his way. Excessiveness in everything, dishonesty and illegibility in relationships can destroy a family.
Friendship Relationships
Such people do not believe in friendship between a man and a woman, but it is precisely with these signs that it exists. They can carry it through life, making friends in a garden or elementary school. Moreover, this will be a truly pure relationship, not clouded by the hopes of one of them for further rapprochement. Of course, it is possible that such friendship will develop into love with time, but only with the mutual desire of both.
If one of the friends has views of the other, who is paired, then, most likely, he will break the friendship, but will not break up the relationship. They are very comfortable together, since no one else can understand each of them so much.
Ideally, if friends do not attract each other as representatives of the opposite sex.
Strong friendships are possible due to the large amount of time spent together, because their hobbies and interests are as similar as possible. They feel each other literally at some subtle level that is not always understood by others. Cancer and Scorpio are very open to each other, they can always tell someone in the face what they think. At the same time, they will try to do it so tactfully so as not to hurt feelings. Ready to help at any time, they know exactly who they can count on in return.
Work interaction
The best combination in a working relationship would be the Scorpio boss and the subordinate Cancer. A duet of equal colleagues of these signs is also good. Together, they are capable of much, as they are hardworking, active, purposeful and persistent. Each has its own advantages and important business qualities. Both, working in close tandem, can compensate for each other's missing skills.
So, Cancer needs a lot of time to get on track. He can hardly make decisions, but he copes well with painstaking and monotonous work. It will make a good financier with the CEO Scorpio. It is important for cancer that he should have enough time to fully familiarize himself with the situation and draw up his own competent opinion.
Scorpio is quick and agile, can sketch out a plan for a future project and immediately transfer it to his business partner for execution, immediately losing interest in the matter. He is in a hurry to get as much new information as possible, contacts and opportunities for realizing his grandiose ideas.
The business compatibility of these zodiac signs is simply superb. Together, they can go far beyond their competitors, since they will not compete and fight for a place in the sun in a pair. They will direct their energy better in a constructive direction and on the solution of working issues. The combination of the creative abilities of Cancer and the rational rationalism of Scorpio distinguishes them among many. Thanks to the ability to understand each other literally by their views, they save a lot of time and are able to quickly resolve any situation, because they do not need to prove or explain something for a long time.
Child-Parent Relationship
Crayfish and Scorpions are wonderful parents who take care of growing offspring with care and trepidation. The problem of understanding with your own children may be the same character traits that interfere with harmony and their mutual union.
Scorpions are owners who are very demanding of the child.
This goes so far as to strive to dictate to children everything: from choosing a hobby and future profession to a circle of friends and contacts. Crayfish are too anxious parents who literally shake from every breeze and sneeze of the baby. They strive to create maximum comfort and coziness, providing the child with everything necessary, caring and guiding his interests.
Scorpio should put less pressure on the child and give him the opportunity to choose. Let the little man make his mistakes, especially if they are not so serious. The desire of the perfectionist Scorpio to give all the opportunities for his son or daughter to realize is commendable, but often such a parent embodies his unrealized ambitions for some reason.
Cancer, on the other hand, is too democratic. In the desire to become a child's friend, it is still worth remembering moderation. No less important than freedom and self-expression, the ability to understand the rules of behavior in society and respect for the authority of elders.
Possible conflicts
Despite the impressive compatibility, even in such a harmonious pair, problems can arise from time to time. Knowing about possible difficulties in the relationship, partners will be able to work on themselves and begin to look for common ground even before misunderstanding and conflicts arise on this basis.
According to spouses, Cancer often behaves like a hidden aggressor. He does not scream or insult an opponent, but is inclined to arrange emotional blackmail.Without expressing his point of view directly, such a partner will complain that they do not like him, do not understand and do not appreciate him. A scorpion during quarrels in order to avoid such an effect should show more restraint, which can be difficult for representatives of the sign sharp on the tongue.
Both companions often conceal grievances, internally even more inflamed. Under external decency, they can hide volcanoes of anger and indignation. Psychologists recommend that such a husband and wife communicate more and not conceal dissatisfaction with different aspects of family life, until it has accumulated in order to develop into a big scandal.
Despite the reasonable attitude to money in both, nevertheless, differences in this issue may arise in the family. Crayfish are very economical, up to stinginess. They will not spend an extra penny on themselves, but they will always find finances for the necessities for the family. Scorpio is less sensitive to money. He knows how to earn, but also spends more easily.
This outrages his zealous partner, especially if Scorpio did not agree with his spouse in large expenses.
In general, Cancer and Scorpio, despite minor discrepancies, are very similar, can easily find harmony and come to an understanding in a relationship. A strong union will strengthen the common family business and traditions that both signs love so much. With due desire and strong love, they will be able to overcome any life difficulties.
The compatibility of Scorpio and Cancer will be discussed by astrotypologist Dmitry Shimko in the next video.