Sympathy for a guy: signs and rules of recognition

Sympathy between a man and a woman is a topic around which passions and debates never cease. Guys do not always manage to correctly perceive the signals that girls give. It seems that the pretty woman talks sweetly, smiles back and looks at her, but this does not guarantee a successful relationship with her at all. How to distinguish a bored Amazon from a hunter in love? What criteria give the attraction of the weaker sex? This should be dealt with thoroughly.

People are able to interact with each other not only through the transmission of words. Only 10% of information is transmitted in words, and 90% is body movements, gestures, facial expressions, intonation and the timbre of the voice. To avoid misunderstanding, it is not necessary to know the psychology of men and women. It’s enough to learn to determine what the “body” says. This unusual language will help to recognize signs of a girl's disposition towards a guy.

Often men incorrectly perceive female behavior. It so happens that sympathy for a guy is manifested by expressed dissatisfaction with the object of attention. This is a kind of uncontrolled female trick that needs to be treated with irony.

All the signs that a sympathetic woman sends cannot be determined even by scientists, psychologists, and seduction specialists. But you can give a certain average list that helps in deciphering female behavior at the initial stage.

There are a number of signs to determine a girl’s interest.

Direct:

• calls in a cafe for a movie show, invites to be alone;
• hints of a desire to get to know each other better.

Indirect:

• tries to stay close at work or in the company;
• does not let out of sight;
• trying to touch, as if by chance (hip, arm, hair).

If a nice guy is a colleague, then the girl constantly draws attention to her person, for example, dropping a bunch of documents or asking to fix a computer. If the object of sympathy suddenly lingers in the working walls, the girl is also in no hurry to go home.

If a girl is passionate, she herself gives signals - signs of sympathy. One has only to take a closer look at the girl’s behavior.

• Rapprochement. The girl, as if inadvertently approaching, wants to be near, slowly penetrates into her personal space, finding herself forty centimeters from the guy's face. She is waiting for a response - it is likely that he smiled, looked into his eyes or reacted with a touch ...
• Play with hair. Playing with strands, female fingers sort them out, while the girl stares intently at the object of sympathy. She clearly wants the male hand to touch the curl. When this happens - HE is caught in the net of girlish passion!
• Light exhibitionism. The dress (jacket) gently slides off the shoulder, exposing smooth skin. The girl does not seem to notice what is happening. And this happens when the man’s look is directed at her. Other parts of the body can be exposed, such as the neck or thigh. It all depends on the boundaries of what is permitted, education, purpose, situation.
• Shyness. She looks away and looks down - decency itself and modesty. This is the surest sign of enthusiasm for the interlocutor. If you try to look away from her for a long time, she will try to intercept him again, resorting to the game with her eyes.
• Squint. Girl sneaks to the guy. She is definitely interesting to her, but so far she is trying to seem calm. It looks like from the outside, but you won’t fail to know the secrets of female flirting! It is important for a man to make sure that there is no competitor behind him, and the squint looks at the address. Then you can safely approach the beauty and look for an excuse to start a dialogue.
• Game of silly. When a girl often giggles with a guy, speaks or does stupid things, reacts to situations like a little girl, do not turn into a boy with her. These are just one more hidden female signals of love. It is important for the girl not to play too much so that she is not considered inadequate. Remember, your signs are not addressed to a boy, but to an adult!
• Stroking. A man needs to know that when stroking her shoulder, hip or gently lifting a fallen strap, the girl shows signs of attention to the person looking at her at this moment. Representatives of the stronger sex like it when a woman caresses herself, so subconsciously it attracts their attention. A man should bear in mind that he is invited to communicate.
• Attraction jewelry. If a girl looks at a guy with a steady gaze, while playing with a pendant or bracelet, this is also an attractive trick. She probably wants him to come closer.

The universal way of expressing feelings is verbal, by transmitting information by speech or letter (including by correspondence in social networks, instant messengers, via SMS). But even this understandable version of expressing interest is not always correctly perceived by the guys.

How to recognize a girl’s sympathy:

• generous with compliments;
• shows interest in your life and plans;
• happy to answer your questions;
• of all the highlights and communicates only with you.

Having studied body language, you can unravel the sympathy or antipathy of the interlocutor during communication. Some nuances will help to draw the right conclusions and prepare an action strategy:

• asymmetric posture (a girl, sitting, leans on one leg, and the thigh puts forward the other);
• half-open mouth (with exposure of upper teeth);
• playing with lips (nibbles, licks);
• manipulations with your hair (straightens, twists locks, throws them back);
• dilated pupils (interest and excitement);
• interest in facial expressions (raises eyebrows, often blinks);
• repeats the movements of the interlocutor;
• active gestures;
• causeless giggle, words out of place.

In a fit of tender feelings for a certain man, you can safely admit this to him or transparently hint. But recognition will bring satisfaction only with confidence in reciprocity. If there is no sympathy on the part of the guy, he doesn’t need to know about the feelings of the girl in love. Although modern psychologists advise not to keep the emotions within. Even if you show feelings and do not get reciprocity, relief will still come. However, this step must be well weighed.

Given the indecision of modern guys, one has to judge their sympathy by looks and gestures. If they do not change in comparison with other girls, then it is better not to vibrate your peace of mind.

Before making it clear to a guy about his tender feelings, it is important to evaluate his behavior from the outside. He can be indecisive by nature or only when it comes to personal experiences. There is a possibility that the chosen one is simply not used to responsible decisions and taking the initiative. Here you need to be prepared that you will have to leave the leader’s place for yourself.

Some emancipated girls are completely satisfied with this option. But if you want to be behind a man like a stone wall - look for another groom. If the object of love is adequate and courageous and just embarrassed to express your feelings, you need to act!

The main rule is that you will have to tell about sympathy personally, but not sending a letter with an expression of feelings, but face to face. Make it better unobtrusively, offering a worthy occasion for a personal meeting. Whispering in the ear in a company is not a good way to attract a guy you like. Maybe he will be happy with quiet whispers, but there is a chance that the situation will turn out tense. Friends may begin to make fun of him and pester questions about the innermost.

As a reason for the meeting, you can choose to celebrate a date, the premiere of a blockbuster, a trip to the rink and even an elementary tea party in a cafe. The option that a guy needs to consult on a serious topic works great. A real hero will come to the rescue in a difficult situation and will be glad when a grateful girl drinks coffee with him and talks about feelings.

It will probably be difficult to pronounce important words. If a girl constantly stumbles and blushes, the guy may well not understand what is needed of him. By their nature, guys are reckless, therefore they will have to speak clearly and concretely. It is worth preparing a speech without using stamped phrases and quotes from feature films.

If a guy likes a girl, and he is ready to reciprocate, it is important not to scare away an already indecisive object. You need to refrain from flirting with surrounding men, so as not to create an opinion of yourself as a frivolous person. From the first meetings, you don’t need to embarrass the guy with frank offers, outfits and load memories of childhood and his ex.

Thoughtful conversation topics will play into the hands. Carefully bring the interlocutor to a discussion of an interesting general topic - aerobatics of a female pickup truck. At first, it is also recommended not to touch on the topics of family, marriage and children. Career - yes, leisure - even more so, books, movies - perfect. Otherwise, you can frighten away the guy, and he no longer dares to get closer.

In a sense, their presence simplifies the task of seduction, but at the same time complicates the process. There is no guarantee that the letter to the messenger or e-mail will be noticed and read immediately. It is likely that at the time of receiving a written confession, the guy will not be alone, but in the company of a friend, brother or even mom.

If you want to say about sympathy by calling on the phone, you can not guess with time. For example, at the time of a call, a guy can go by public transport or be in another crowded place. In such situations, it is very inconvenient to talk on such a personal topic. therefore date remains the best option.

From the influx of feelings, sometimes I want to scream about them all over the district, well, or tell my friend about them. We need to restrain this desire for the benefit of a possible future relationship. Either two participants in the story or only a girl in love should know about the indifference to the young man. Also a disastrous option is to contact someone with a request to convey the guy sympathy. The mediator may not be able to cope with the task and convey in the wrong tone, etc. As a result, everyone will be disappointed.

In fact, there are so many happy families formed solely through the recognition of the girl, made in the right setting and with the right words.