Self-sufficiency: what is it and how to develop in yourself?

There are people who focus on their own opinions, and not on the advice of others. They fully take responsibility for decisions made, can independently provide for their life. It's about self-sufficiency.

The word “self-sufficiency” is closely related to concepts such as “independence” and “independence”. In psychology, there is such a definition: a self-sufficient personality is sufficient in everything that makes up its Ego, and is independent of the surrounding world in material and spiritual planes. In contrast to independence, which has the meaning of “I stand by myself”, self-sufficiency means that a person “is self-sufficient”. An individual possessing such a quality is able to arrange his life and leisure in the absence of support from relatives. He is confident in himself, his feelings and can independently make any decisions.

In philosophy, this quality is defined as the emergence of self-sufficiency in a natural way and the possibility of further existence without external influence. Self sufficient person independent in all areas. He thinks extraordinary. Thanks to this quality, a holistic multifaceted personality is being formed, not afraid to oppose public opinion. Such an individual has inner freedom. He does not care about matching a particular image. The pursuit of fashion is not for him, since a person who is not dependent on obtaining the approval of others wears only things that are convenient for him.

A self-sufficient person feels responsible for his actions, does not like control from other people. Such a person does not depend on the opinions of others, but respects their worldview. He has no morbid attachment to habits, work, place of residence and people. Failures do not scare him. He is not afraid of disappointment. The inner world brings self-satisfaction to the free personality, the ability to identify their needs and provide them. Self-sufficiency is not synonymous with wealth and influence, so these people do not chase the purchase of expensive things. They do not become victims of the advertising business, but asceticism is not always their lot. A self-sufficient individual is free from illusions and infantilism. He has his own opinion in every situation.

Self-sufficient subject able to understand another person and show respect for him. He is not inclined to re-educate loved ones and relatives. Such a person adequately perceives others, does not try to remake them for themselves. He lives without malice, envy, jealousy, gloating and revenge. He never seeks to blame for his own failures, and takes the negative consequences of his actions. He has no habit of condemning the actions of people, comparing himself with others. Usually he draws a parallel of the present development of events with past situations and seeks to eliminate the shortcomings that have arisen. He is inherent in the ability to provide assistance to those in need, but he does not always run at the very first call, because he is used to solving his problems on his own and expects the same actions from others.

Psychologists identify the main signs of such a person:

• determination (the ability to achieve a positive result);
• internal strength (responsibility for one’s actions and decisions);
• emotional stability;
• acceptance of oneself, awareness of one's strengths and weaknesses;
• self-confidence;
• active personality development;
• desire for positive, harmony with oneself and the world;
• the ability to make money in the required amount;
• ability to provide oneself with one's own housing;
• the ability to maintain their home in proper order;
• lack of fear of losing any support.

An individual capable of solving problems on his own is devoid of fear of loneliness. He is able to provide for himself. Lack of anxiety, confident overcoming it leads to emotional emancipation. Internal freedom eliminates unnecessary conventions, frees from financial dependence and guarantees a decent life. In psychology, 3 types of self-sufficiency are distinguished.

The ability of a person to adapt to the existing rules of society provides him with an optimal standard of living. A self-sufficient person performs his favorite work, intensively develops his talents, improves his hobbies. This direction can be seen in people who have achieved a significant position in society and have a leading position in the team. Optional leadership position - It is enough to have your own niche in the social hierarchy and not be afraid of difficulties.

An individual who is able to develop himself without the intervention of society has a rich inner world. He is psychologically independent of anyone and is able to spiritually enrich himself in complete solitude. There is no painful attachment to parents, children or to the second half. The person experiences difficult life periods independently, without the need for outside support and the advice of others.

In the modern world, it is difficult not to depend on the opinions of others, because the fear of ridicule and condemnation of people does not allow a massive person to go dancing or go to the pool, to a pensioner to get carried away by a new sport, and to a holder of a strict way of thinking to try himself in creativity.Independence from other people's opinions allows a person to be responsible for making decisions with a complete lack of reaction to the approval or censure of other people.

The ability to provide for one’s daily life, to earn money, the ability to conduct business properly, the availability of cooking and cleaning skills are evidence of household self-sufficiency. These qualities allow the subject to independently organize his life. Household self-sufficiency is usually characteristic of men, as they are able to tighten the leaking mixer with a wrench, nail a shelf, prepare a tasty dish, wash, and wash floors and utensils. Not every woman is subject to male homework, so we can talk about household self-sufficiency of female representatives in exceptional cases.

This property is manifested when a person is growing up. It testifies to the qualitative development of a person who can create a decent life for himself. Such an individual has several advantages:

• ability to fully support oneself;
• own view of the world without reliance on other people's opinions;
• independent decision making;
• the ability to deal with all your life problems yourself;
• manifestation of erudition and perseverance;
• independence from other people;
• self-confidence;
• ability to maintain control over one’s mental well-being;
• the ability to enjoy life;
• material wealth;
• regular self-development;
• the presence of harmony with the inner and outer world.

Self-sufficiency is considered to be a positive feature of a person. But sometimes it can have a negative aspect.

• Some people have this problem: after arranging one’s own life, there is a desire to get rid of any meetings with friends or relatives. People who are accustomed to rely only on their own strength, sometimes isolate themselves from society. In the end, the subject may be completely alone. Psychologists advise always surround yourself with interesting people and keep in touch with them.
• Negative attitude to idle talk and idle time can alienate other people, which also leads to isolation from society.
• Emotional emancipation sometimes it leads to excessive courage and self-confidence, sometimes provoking the manifestation of arrogance.

Young children are completely dependent on their parents and other adults, so there can be no talk of their self-sufficiency. As you grow older, a person begins to show independence. Gradually formed self-sufficiency. This process can last a lifetime. In extreme old age, due to the presence of physical weakness, a person loses social and domestic self-sufficiency. Freedom of mind and original thinking allow some people to maintain psychological self-sufficiency until the end of days.

Any person can become a self-sufficient person. To do this, you need to regularly acquire new knowledge, engage in self-education, strive for excellence. Expansion of horizons, training of consciousness, hard work, physical activity contribute to personal self-realization. It is necessary to constantly hone old skills. Properly set specific goals help to focus on work, give meaningfulness to life's routine. You should always strive to improve your own life.

You need to regularly train your willpower. Weak-minded people easily succumb to laziness and apathy. You should not rely on an influential relative or a case of fate, therefore, in order not to be left with nothing, you must rely on your own strengths.Only an adequate acceptance of any criticism allows a person to objectively evaluate their results.

A self-sufficient man is able to solve his problems and help his companion cope with difficulties. He thinks rationally, does not flaunt his achievements, does not allow himself any manifestations of rudeness and the use of obscene words. He knows how to calculate his strength, can make difficult decisions and never justifies himself to anyone. For the formation of self-sufficiency, a man needs to work to eradicate pettiness, vindictiveness, aggression, and undesirable forms of self-affirmation. He needs to develop in himself generosity, the ability to fulfill other people's desires, the ability not to give in to female provocations and tricks.

You need to provide your soulmate with complete safety and confidence.

A self-sufficient lady will never become a burden on her husband. She is able to independently solve any problem.. Such a woman does not depend on the status and financial condition of the chosen one. It is important for her to get warmth and build sincere relationships. Representatives of the weaker sex need to prioritize correctly to develop self-sufficiency. You should not force yourself to communicate with an unpleasant person in order to gain material well-being. You must learn to adequately assess their own abilities and capabilities. We must get rid of bursting pride in our achievements. But the label of a loser must also be thrown off her shoulders.

Do not envy your rivals and look for flaws in them. You should try to give more positive emotions and love to your partner, but you should not demand material and psychological gifts in return. A woman should take into account the interests of her companion and give him the right to her own life.

Equally important is a healthy lifestyle. It implies physical activity, proper nutrition, daily walks in the fresh air, which help maintain strength and prolong youth for many years, as well as receive satisfaction from life.

Experts recommend throughout life to learn new professions, learn foreign languages, try yourself in creativity. You need to constantly improve yourself. Only with the load you can maintain mental and physical health until old age.

Acquire the ability to adequately respond to criticism and praise from outsiders. Learn how to properly analyze your own environment and filter out people who take your time in empty talk.

Be sure to periodically spend time alone with yourself. In these moments, you should turn off the TV, the Internet, gadgets. Learn to accept with dignity your own loneliness, which is of particular value to your personal space. This does not mean that you should become a hermit. You need to learn how to enjoy the same pleasure from communicating with people and from being alone.

Psychologists advise when developing responsibility for their own life stop waiting for favorable changes. You need to start planning your actions yourself. Set specific goals. Implement them. Instead of requiring your loved ones to fulfill your desires, do it yourself. Always be held accountable for the undesirable consequences of your actions.