Jealousy is a bad feeling. But in difficult situations, it can even be useful. For example, when there is a cooling of relations or it is generally unclear what happens between two people and who they are to each other.
How to cause jealousy?
The current girl
If you have been dating for a very long time, you may notice that over time a swamp of routine sucks both of you. The old excitement is no longer enough, the hunting instinct has disappeared somewhere, and it has been replaced by series and boring life. Or your lady is naturally a phlegmatic person, and you are attracted by a storm, lightnings and other natural disasters. In this case, jealousy is the same light that can rekindle your bonfire of love. The main thing is not to overdo it, otherwise you risk being left alone.
To make a girl jealous, you need, in fact, an object for jealousy. It’s best if the rival is fictitious, since you shouldn’t substitute other people. Make up and tell the story of the meeting on the bus when a beautiful stranger looked at you with a languid look, note the details of her appearance that attracted your attention and, of course, really liked. Make up any story in which another woman has her eye on you.
If your imagination is not developed, then tell us about a real person, for example, a story about a colleague from a job who is either smart or beautiful, or think up something of your own. Do not give the chosen person all the qualities of an ideal woman. Firstly, your girlfriend will have a question why you are still with her, and not run to conquer your ideal. Secondly, you don’t want your beloved to feel that she’s not good enough for you.This can cause many complexes - do not kill the self-esteem of a loved one.
Ask someone to call you and talk for a couple of minutes. During the conversation, behave so that your girlfriend understands that the other called. Or you can go to another room and return in a good mood, with a smile and glowing eyes. But do not forget to clear the call log, because if you are in seventh heaven after the call “Lehi from the auto repair shop”, this will raise some questions.
Important: if your soulmate is already jealous, then be prepared for a small scandal.
Option for especially dangerous guys: try to hint the girl that you are going to the restaurant or the opera (anywhere) with the other. A milder option is to call a joint pastime with another woman a business meeting or a meeting at work, as they do sometimes happen in life.
There are more stringent options, for example, to come home from work much later than usual or put passwords on all your phones and laptops, but this will significantly undermine the trust between you, and trust in relationships is the most important.
The next good step is to go somewhere with a big company with free girls. Pay attention to them, but do not go beyond the boundaries of what is permitted, so as not to put your companion in an awkward position. Just say a couple - three compliments, listen carefully, draw all the attention of the female half to yourself. Do not choose a specific goal, be charming with everyone. Then your girlfriend will understand how wonderful you can be.
The ideal option is accidentally open and demonstrated correspondence on social networks with another girl. Fake pages are written to many people, so don’t miss your chance to let your lady know that you are very attractive to other women. If you don’t even write fakes, then you can create such a page by hiding your friend or yourself on the other side of the screen.
It is important to remember that you and only you know the nature of your soulmate and only you know whether she is ready to kill from one phone call or calmly lets go to the sauna with her former classmate. So you determine the measure of impact and the cruelty of the methods.
You should not try to cause jealousy in a purposeful and self-sufficient girl - she can seriously think about why she needs a person who brings not joy, but doubts and negative emotions. With such a woman it is much easier to sit down and discuss the current situation.
Ex girlfriend
If you and your ex-girlfriend have some common circles of influence or periodically clash, then first you need to communicate and flirt in front of her in front of the other. If everything goes far, then you can start a relationship with this girl, again, bringing this information to your ex. Just remember to warn the new lady of your intentions.
Do not rush to delete the number of the former passion and block it - you can "mistakenly" send a nice message, and then, after a certain amount of time (five to seven minutes is enough), send the second one and apologize for the annoying misunderstanding.
Another assistant in this matter is social networks. Yes, some girls like to browse the pages of their ex-boyfriends and look for signs that indicate how he suffers. Wrap the situation in your favor - more happiness, joyful posts about new feelings and photos with other girls.
Now about why you should not block all the pages of your ex-girlfriend. If you are determined to make her jealous, then turn to her for advice, for example, you can ask what gift you can give a new lover. Try to fill your message with tenderness towards a new woman.
Know: if you broke up because the girl lost interest in you, then these methods may not work. She may even be happy for you.In this case, you should think about the reason for the cooling of feelings and think, maybe the problem is in you?
On distance
It happens that your communication takes place only through the Internet and phone calls. It’s okay, if you don’t have enough spark of jealousy, then this is quite enough, especially for long-distance relationships.
The same methods may work as in normal relationships: a couple of compliments to another girl, accidentally giving out your admiration, time spent in the company of other women (and photos!). Moreover, the real existence of an object of admiration or a meeting is not necessary - just mention this in the correspondence. The rest will be done by the imagination of your soulmate.
Social networks are an incredibly powerful thing. Create an unknown beauty page, add yourself to your friends and leave a couple of flattering comments and likes on your page. Such activity will not go unnoticed. If you wish, you can replace the fake page with a real one, but do it at your own peril and risk.
You can send a photo of absolutely any girl, evaluate her external data or a rich inner world, and in the end say that this is your new colleague. An option to continue is to post a photo of where you are with this girl. Well, if it’s not possible with this, then with any other.
If your girlfriend is used to you coming home from work at seven in the evening, and at eight sitting down at a computer and sending her hearts, change your plans and try to write much later. Your unforeseen delay will make the lady of the heart treat you not for granted, but as someone who has their own life, very interesting without it. Your value and importance will only increase after that.
Add some new ladies to your friends, at the same time hinting that one of them writes, but don’t specify who exactly - a little investigation and an attempt to find a rival will make your beloved evaluate their strengths and weaknesses, and if at the end of the experiment you tell your soulmate, how wonderful she is and how much you love her, the positive response will be much stronger.
All tips for regular relationships also work for penpals. The main thing is to turn on imagination and not overdo it.
The one who likes
In this case, jealousy is not a miracle cure and can only work if the girl either hides her feelings for you or she does not know about them. If you tried everything (and even jealousy), and there was no more attention to you, then reconcile - this girl does not like you, and the best thing you can do is respect her choice and stop the persecution.
Praise the other girl, especially if the object of sighing is accustomed to your compliments only in his address. It will be sudden, and if a girl has even sympathy for you, she will certainly be interested in another girl and what your relationship is.
Come together in a crowded place and begin to show signs to other ladies. Such a seemingly innocent thing can very quickly reveal the true feelings for you. Again, all the tips work here, as if you were in a relationship - only you are allowed much more when flirting and chatting with others.
Reduce the amount of communication. Keep silent about all the questions or answer with hints that will allow you to think that you have less time due to the fact that another girl is taking him. Or get lost for a couple of days and do not answer calls. After the solemn return, communicate again with hints pointing to the days full of romance with another. Plus such an absence - your potential lady will get bored and understand that she really misses you.
If your sweetheart is also your girlfriend, then try to show correspondence with another girl, ask for advice, tell us that you are going on a date with another so that she is happy for a friend.
The ability to lose a person who is cute will make the girl reveal her true attitude towards you, even against her will. Suddenly spoiled mood (which spoiled after your plans), sadness - these are signs indicating true feelings. Or try to make a friendly assessment of a new girl and share experiences.
See how to make your girlfriend jealous in the next video.
