After the marriage is registered, two loving people become husband and wife. From this moment on, these people have certain rights provided for by law. In order to register a marriage, a special ceremony is not required - it is very important that the newlyweds receive a marriage certificate in their hands. In recent years, young people prefer not to hold a solemn part. In their opinion, it is better to spend money on any useful business than to spend on a wedding celebration.
How is simple registration different from solemn?
Of course, there are a number of characteristic differences between the solemn registration and the simplified one. The main advantages of the inauguration of the ceremony include:
- minimum expenses: only state duty payment will be required;
- very fast: a solemn ceremony will take about 15 minutes;
- there is an opportunity to postpone the dates of the future celebration on a certain day, when you can simply arrange field registration (for example, in nature), order a banquet in a good restaurant or just go on an exciting trip;
- the difference lies in the absence of special regulations regarding appearance: it is not required to have various accessories, weddings without rings are allowed;
- there will be no need to think about where to stay if guests check in in another city;
- lack of traditional pre-wedding fuss.
With all the advantages, an unofficial ceremony has several disadvantages:
- such a procedure deprives a feeling of touching moment, looks formal and uninteresting;
- elderly relatives believe that the wedding ceremony should be held in accordance with all the rules - they are very negative towards unregistered registration;
- some acquaintances may blame the newlyweds for the lack of a beautiful holiday;
- there will be no gifts, congratulations, or cute traditions, however, a celebration can be held later in the circle of close relatives and friends in compliance with traditional customs.
But if the newlyweds believe that the painting should be surrounded by a festive surroundings, beautiful music sounded, and the registry office employees heartily congratulated the young people, it is better to have a gala wedding.
How is the registry office?
Newlyweds are required to provide a package of relevant documents so that normal registration is completed. Incomplete painting requires full compliance with the law. However, all the formalities associated with longstanding traditions are missing.
However, the newlyweds can order photography, which provides the registry office itself. Usually the cost of a photographer’s work does not exceed 300 rubles. Some registry offices prohibit having their own photographer at the ceremony. To avoid an unpleasant situation, this moment must be clarified in advance.
To inadvertently sign, you must pay the state fee. Its cost is similar to the cost of solemn painting.
An application is allowed to be submitted in any locality, regardless of the current registration. A form of a certain form can be taken from the registry office employees. Today there is an opportunity to download it from the site, print and fill out at home.
Both parties sign the statement in the presence of an institution employee. It is mandatory to indicate which surname the spouses will subsequently use.
What days is carried out?
Arriving at the registry office, choosing registration without holding a celebration, usually all newlyweds ask the question, for how long before the list should be submitted. Russian law sets the deadline for non-formal registration to be one month. In other words, by submitting an application, the bride and groom will have to wait 30 days.
In the event of circumstances, it is allowed to increase the waiting time, but not more than 2 months. Sometimes there are good reasons for shortening the waiting period for non-formal registration:
- pregnancy;
- birth of a child;
- serious illness;
- long business trip.
In order for the above reasons to be taken into account, the newlyweds must provide the relevant documents. Registration can take place on any day established by the registry office. A solemn painting is considered absolutely legal, similar to a solemn wedding.
Unfortunately, not everyone can boast of a stable financial situation, so young people tend to marry unmarriedly. Purely formal, the painting does not differ from the ceremony.
How to apply?
To register a relationship, each couple must submit an application. In the wedding palace, young people will be given a special form, which indicates all the necessary data. In addition to the completed application, it is necessary to provide several additional documents:
- passport;
- certificate of dissolution of a previously concluded marriage (if there was one);
- minors must provide permission for their parents;
- if one of the spouses is a foreign citizen, he needs to submit a document confirming the absence of a previously registered marriage in another country;
- receipt of payment of state duty - 350 rubles.
By submitting an application, the newlyweds are obliged to inform the registry office about the registration in an inappropriate atmosphere.
Today it is allowed to submit such an application using the State Service portal (https: // www. Gosuslugi. Ru).To use this service, citizens applying must be required to be of legal age to live in Russia. After registration, you need to perform several steps:
- select the appropriate region;
- city where registration will be carried out;
- select the appropriate Wedding Palace;
- book a date;
- indicate the time of visit;
- choose the type of registration: solemn or solemn;
- fill out an application stating your full name, place of residence, passport details, future name.
The application is allowed to be submitted six months prior to painting.
In the application form on the portal, only the data of one newlyweds are entered. The personal data of another will be automatically entered into the application according to the name of the registered user.
The completed application is sent to the registry office for consideration and decision. In what condition is the application, you can see in your account.
What to wear?
To register without a celebration, the question usually arises of what clothes to go to the registry office. The problem is solved easily - you can wear any outfit. The only condition is that the suit or dress must match the moment. Marriage does not require a black tuxedo or a lush white dress with a veil. These attributes can be discarded.
Clothing style may be the same with the future husband. For a girl during pregnancy, it is advisable to wear a spacious white dress. It will fully comply with established traditions.
For painting in a casual atmosphere does not require a special appearance. For example, some come to the palace dressed in T-shirts or T-shirts with the words "Husband", "Wife." Everyday clothes look quite creative. The bride has a flirty veil on her head, and the groom is dressed in a white shirt and jeans.
If you plan a photo shoot after painting, then the appearance matters. Therefore, clothes should be selected more carefully. A cocktail dress of any color and length is suitable for the bride. A trouser suit or a skirt with a blouse can be called a non-standard outfit.
A good hairstyle will look great. You can choose any make-up, it all depends on preferences. If an exit celebration is planned (for example, a restaurant), you can wear a formal dress and make a beautiful hairstyle. If none of this happens, an ordinary ponytail on the head will do.
A future husband can come in a formal attire or any informal outfit. Looks great set, consisting of a beautiful shirt, well-ironed trousers. As a complement, you can wear a tie, vest, spectacular suspenders. A jacket and jeans look pretty fashionable.
Do you need rings?
I must say that according to the current legislation, newlyweds can do without rings. In other words, it all depends on their desire. You can, of course, exchange rings, but often this simply does not have enough time. This ritual can be performed later, for example, leaving the office. If an evening banquet is planned in the restaurant, then the exchange of rings can be carried out there. It will look interesting and presentable, and the ancient tradition will be respected.
Modern youth, entering into marriage, does not seek to abide by all the customs that have developed over the centuries. However, ring exchange remains a required attribute. Without it, no triumph takes place. After applying, future spouses choose rings in a jewelry store. They pay attention to their appearance, size, weight. Someone prefers a classic engagement ring, while someone chooses with a pattern or an expensive stone.
Summing up all of the above, we can conclude: inappropriate registration will require small financial costs, but it will look less solemn. All other ceremonies have no differences.
About how unlawful registration of marriage can occur, see further.
