About the union of Gemini and Cancer, we can say this: two opposites converged. The former are open and energetic, and the latter, if not hermits, are inclined to avoid noisy gatherings and frequent communication with people who are not in their inner circle. Despite all the differences, these signs are able to complement each other, bringing harmony to the life of the partner.
Characteristics of signs
Cancer can be called a contradictory zodiac sign.
Among its typical features are the following:
- high emotionality and ability to hide it;
- aversion to frankness;
- attachment to parents and home;
- initiative at work;
- corrosivity;
- propensity for hoarding;
- caring;
- desire for consistency in the relationship;
- caution and curiosity in contact with the new;
- foresight;
- sentimentality;
- attachment to the past and familiar things;
- sensitivity to failures and insults and inability to forget them.
Male crayfish have the ability to think clearly and logically, but sometimes their feelings violate the orderly line of reasoning. They perfectly understand human psychology and know how to manage a team. A male representative of this sign in the chair of the boss is not uncommon.
Such people have great intuition.
They are able to quickly calculate the most rational and simple way to the goal. They are sensitive, but do not differ in great generosity, as they look at the world practically and take care of the future.
To argue them is difficult. Usually their argument is so convincing that it is difficult for her to oppose something.
Cancer Woman is famous for her prudence and the ability to take care of loved ones. Able to see the deep truth. To deceive her is useless. Resentment to a partner may recall more than once. Despite the closeness, loneliness is not tolerated. Able to find a common language with children. He likes to linger for a long time in his house, is fed by his energy and feels emotionally invulnerable in it.
Among the character traits of the Gemini sign are the following:
- variability of opinions;
- propensity for acting;
- desire for continuous activity;
- desire to attract attention;
- great eloquence;
- superficial perception of what is happening;
- ability to provide support in difficult situations;
- fear of loneliness;
- observation.
Men born under this sign have the ability to easily find a common language with people. Attracted by its independence and high domestic energy. Always looking for adventure. They tend to get involved, including women. In relations with the opposite sex, they are persistent and ready to get married quickly. They look at things widely and know how to forgive.
The representative of the weaker sex-Gemini easily attracts male views. It is equally strong to strive to reach material and spiritual heights. He appreciates independence, loves everything beautiful and stylish. It is distinguished by caring and sensitivity to someone else's misfortune. Often has many children. Teaches them to be optimistic. And in adulthood retains childish gaiety and spontaneity.
The horoscope of relations does not bode well for these signs of a cloudless life together, but they can find mutual understanding and create a common future.
Love compatibility
In a love relationship, it is often the guy born under the water sign Cancer who seeks to conquer the “airy” twin girl. Her sociability and lightness arouse interest in him, and he with a head goes into his passion for it. This manifestation of feelings can find a response in sociable Gemini, although at first the girl can perceive them frivolously.
This sometimes leads to the fact that Cancer begins to experience jealousy, regardless of whether there is a reason for it or not.
If the errors associated with this do not repel the Twin Lady, this union can be successfully consolidated, having all the prospects of becoming permanent.
In sex, these two have every chance of finding complete understanding. It is especially important for Cancer, who has a special affection for everything that gives him the brightness of feelings and impressions.
Gemini’s ability to switch to things after getting out of bed hurts emotional Cancer. It is difficult for him to understand how, after leaving the house, you can do other things, meet friends and never even call for the whole day after all that was at night.
Between the woman of the water sign and the male representative of the air element, the initiative to build love affairs usually comes from the male side. Such a guy behaves liberally and it is quite natural for him to perform feats when winning a girl he likes. Such a man really manages to show himself from the best side and to charm the girl-Cancer. She gradually begins to come to the conclusion that with such a gentleman they really fit together.
She is impressed by the persistence of the fan, and he is inspired by her interest in herself even more. And then his talents are revealed in all its glory.
If the twin man does not make active attempts to get the girl a watermark out of her "carapace", instead providing her with a sense of security; and that, in turn, will remain an eternal mystery that the romantic and inquisitive Twin wants to further comprehend - then these two will be perfectly compatible.
The prospect of family life
In a pair of male Cancer and female Gemini, the representative of the elements of Water is more inclined to create a real family nest. For Gemini, the presence of a stamp in the passport does not matter.
When Gemini becomes a legal wife, Cancer can establish a control regime in the house, although this does not prevent a woman from maintaining friendly relations with other men, and sometimes even flirting with them. This may be the reason for the rapid clarification of relations. If Cancer does not quench its jealousy, its behavior can even lead to a quick break.
Joint efforts will help to save the marriage to the husband and wife, in which the Twins will have to learn to be less windy and pay more attention to relatives and everyday life, and Raku - to abandon the habit of controlling everything and counting a hundred steps forward.
If the spouses have enough motivation to make concessions to each other, their marriage can be quite sustainable.
Relations in marriage between a twin man and a woman-Cancer also take on a completely different character compared to what they were before the conclusion of the official union.
If a woman is completely ready to devote herself to family affairs, children and her husband, to take on the solution of current problems, then Gemini interests extend far beyond the boundaries of the family circle. This can lead to the fact that the pair will gradually begin to move away from each other. You can return warmth and trust if the spouses are united by a common hobby, for example, a summer residence or joint creativity.
The combination of these signs of the zodiac is such that they cannot be separately or together. Therefore, the home area should remain the communication area. Cancer should not take full control of a partner. At work, husband and wife are better off not intersecting.
Friendship Relationships
The opposite of the characters of the Cancer man and the Twin woman can become a bond in creating strong friendships between the representatives of these signs. Gemini will be able to bring energy and optimism into these relationships, and Crayfish will be the reliable shoulder that you can rely on in any situation. Born under a water sign will always listen, demonstrate understanding and suggest a way out of a difficult situation.
If the two do not criticize each other and try to force change, their friendship can last a lifetime.
The twin man and the cancer woman can create the perfect friendship. These people always have a lot of common activities and hobbies. An air sign is usually the initiator of all kinds of adventures, it takes on the role of organizer of holidays and meetings, and Crayfish are ready to practically approach the implementation of such plans, having performed the bulk of the work in the best possible way.
It is important for each of the participants in a friendly union to maintain this relationship. They will never betray each other. And even if there was a misunderstanding, thanks to the wisdom of Cancer and the warm feelings of Gemini, it is possible to overcome it.
Work interaction
Joint work on a specific task of representatives of these two signs is not a good idea. Here the opposite of their characters makes itself felt in full. For example, in order to do his job, a man - a watermark - needs to tune in, and Lady-Air perceives any task as a challenge.
So along the way, these people have difficulty finding a common language.
If the female twin is the boss and the subordinate male is the Cancer, sooner or later this state of affairs will lead to conflict. Gemini sometimes lacks the authority to lead, because they communicate with subordinates, like friends, and Cancer himself often turns out to be a leader by nature. In practice, it is easier for him to make a decision on his own than to rely on resolutions that are trying to get him down from above. This leads to conflict.
The representative of the elements of Water with his crayfish nature, falling into the commanding chair, is too demanding and strict. Subordinates each time do not know in what matter he will want to play it safe again. This becomes an occasion for general tension. The Gemini woman is simply not able to work in such an atmosphere for a long time.And at the first opportunity, she will leave the beginning of such a person.
Cancer Woman also tends to control everything and everyone while in a leadership position. This will annoy the Twin Man no less than the representative of the weaker sex of the same sign. Such a subordinate is able to work normally if he is not endlessly given instructions on how best to do the job. But such a boss will not be able to crawl with her advice and additional instructions to an employee only if she fully appreciates his talents.
If a woman-Cancer acts as a subordinate to the boss - a representative of the air element - this alignment of forces is more encouraging. Such a lady will best prove herself in the role of secretary or assistant. She always feels the needs of the leader, knows how to fulfill orders on time. If he, in turn, shows a certain restraint in relation to her, does not begin to put pressure on her, everything will be fine.
An air sign, clearly indicating the task of Assistant Cancer, it is better to leave her alone and wait until she completes the assignment. If a subordinate is not knocked out of a given rhythm, it will be an ideal employee.
Child-Parent Relationship
If the mother is Gemini and Cancer is the son or daughter, in these respects the mind will always talk with feelings. In a small water sign, a sea of emotions rages day and night, but his mother looks at life easier. And Cancer just can’t keep up with the speed of her views on this or that.
At the same time, such a child quietly admires the activity and sociability of his mother, but understands that he is simply not capable of living at the same pace. He barely endures the cycle of friends around her.
He would have been better if she had pulled away from strangers and became closer to him.
Mom does not have time to keep track of how her child’s mood is changing. And he can, for reasons unclear to her, fall into gloominess and lock himself in himself even more than ever. And only the ease with which this woman looks at life helps to ensure that this kind of period in the baby’s soul does not drag out.
Over time, the twin mother begins to understand the boundary beyond which her words become a weapon that inflicts severe wounds on the feelings of Cancer. A minimum of criticism, a maximum of encouragement is the motto that it comes to as it communicates with its own child. And if you criticize, then with humor and with maximum benevolence.
A small representative of the water element loves to listen to his twin father. Adult stories excite the imagination. Although, unlike his father, in real life, Cancer will not once again take risks. He will not even go into the midst of people, because he is a burden to a wide circle of strangers. So it’s better for dad to find personal time for a little son or daughter born under this sign, and not drag a child on happy holidays.
Such a child should be fully confident that his parent really cares about him. If the father always does not have time for him, this will cause Cancer a painful feeling of his own uselessness.
This baby will not abide by the rules that he does not understand. He definitely needs to know why this and that is necessary, is there any practical sense in this. If he does not receive such explanations, then his parent, in the understanding of the child, simply finds fault with him.
Such a child should be helped to become a real person. This is possible only if he feels support from his father, who refrains from criticizing him for any reason and does not interfere with making decisions himself.
Apparently, the Cancer parents are given a twin child by God in order that they do not become isolated in solitude and learn to comprehend the joys of the big world.
Own habits of a mother - a representative of the elements of Water - can make her completely dissolve in the life of her “air” child.At the same time, she will try not to create restrictions for him so that he does not feel trapped and subordinate to the will of an adult.
For a long time, mother Cancer tries to protect her child from any cold winds of the outside world. And everything is interesting to him around. And every minute he is ready to start research. For him, the strength of family ties is not as important as for mom.
And it is enough for him to know that he is loved as he is, without restricting his freedom in knowing the world.
So that at some point such a child does not become crowded in the family home, the mother should accept the fact that he is completely independent and can take care of himself. He will be happy with the feeling of reliability that she gives him.
Father Cancer, with his habit of controlling everything, can drive a freedom-loving Twin into a certain framework. And of course, this will result in that at some point he refuses to comply with the imposed rules.
An active child is ready to talk with dad without a break, but he is simply not able to withstand the constant chatter and new initiatives of the child. It is better for these two to set aside some time for communication, so that the father can fully engage in his energetic child.
Then dad will be able to teach the young representative of the air element caution and practicality, for which he, having matured, will say to him more than once “thank you”.
Possible conflicts
The opposite of the character traits of Cancers and Gemini becomes the cause of their conflicts. The vulnerability of the first is opposed to a logical approach to what is happening on the second side. This is a potential source of disagreement.
The desire to control the behavior of a frivolous air sign on the part of Cancer also leads to quarrels. No one can withstand the constant invasion of personal space, so the Twins will quite legitimately begin to make complaints to their partner about this.
People of this sign are always confident in themselves and consider themselves the smartest. But they often lack the understanding to understand that demonstrating this to their half, they seem to say - I'm smarter than you. It always offends sensitive Cancer. Sooner or later, he will express his dissatisfaction about this.
The issue of money between these signs is also always on the agenda. The twins tend to squander, not deny themselves pleasures, and the goal of Cancer is to save more money and to distribute all expenses in advance. Financial disagreements can bring the couple to a break.
Numerous reviews by representatives of one and the other side are proof of this.
Despite such a number of possible problems between these signs, two sensible representatives of the air and water elements can very well learn to listen to each other, protect the feelings of a partner and apply the features of their character for mutual benefit. This will strengthen the strength of their union. Cancer and Gemini will be able to carry mutual warmth through life.
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