How to win a girl’s heart?

How to get the location of the girl you like, interests a lot of guys. In fact, in order to attract the attention of representatives of the opposite sex, it is not enough to have money, an apartment and a car - manners, courage and strength are needed here.

In psychology, it has long been proven that women are much more romantic, impressionable and emotional than men. If a girl feels romance and a fairy tale in a relationship, then she falls in love very quickly, which is why a young man has a lot more chances to conquer his chosen one, if he admires, has signs of attention and demonstrates his best masculine qualities. The ideal man in the eyes of a woman should meet the following qualities:

• cleanliness and accuracy - representatives of the strong sex should monitor their appearance, be neat, clean and smell good;
• sense of humor - women do not like those men with whom they are bored, and besides, everyone knows that the owners of a good sense of humor, as a rule, are also far from stupid people, so a girl can always find a topic for conversation with them;
• responsibility - a man should keep his promises, it is unlikely that you will attract a girl if you are constantly late, evade obligations or not keep your words;
• honesty - the relationship should be transparent and open, trust is the main component of any relationship between two people;
• reliability - as they say, to be married - this means "for her husband", the girl must understand that her beloved is exactly the person you can rely on in everything;
• perfect man - necessarily kind, faithful, generous and by no means lazy, he must constantly admire, make presentations, arrange surprises and compliment his beloved.

To win sympathy, a man must first show respect both to the woman herself and to her environment. Very often young people behave gallantly towards their companion, but they show coldness and neglect to everyone around them - this is a mistake, any woman will immediately notice this, and then you will have few chances to get her sympathy. The man whom girls dream of seeing as their companion will certainly be nice to his parents, children, friends and older people.

A man should strive to realize himself in the profession, he should make every effort to achieve recognition in business. Even the kindest woman will trust a person who has a certain wealth. Everyone knows that the candy-bouquet period ends sooner or later, and then the couple begins to encounter everyday difficulties, which often lead to collapse. Weak and lazy guys without goals and aspirations are unlikely to be able to keep the girl.

It is imperative to take care and attention, such signs made without any reason are especially appreciated, and according to the reaction of the girl it will be easy to understand whether it makes sense to continue to conquer her. Women need help, and it’s better to do this without waiting for her request, she will certainly appreciate it, because in the eyes of the girl the guy who feels and understands her is a real diamond. And if he can still become a real support and support - then they will try not to miss such a person.

So, you met a woman you liked, overcame all your doubts, started communication and finally invited her for a date. It is extremely important that your first meeting is perfect, because it depends on it in many respects whether your couple has any chances for a joint future. According to statistics, about 50% of the first dates turn out to be the last, so it is very important not to make mistakes. Everyone knows that they are seeing off the mind, but at the same time they are met by clothes. Do not underestimate the importance of your appearance when meeting. Young people must certainly look good - stylish, tidy and noble, girls appreciate guys with good taste.

Before a date you need to use a deodorant, even if it is indicated on it that it protects 48 hours - nevertheless, use it immediately before the meeting. And, of course, do not forget about perfume, its delicate aroma always magnetically affects women. Be sure to bring accessories that can create a sense of prosperity, it can be a stylish watch, an expensive lighter or fashionable sunglasses. Now let's move on to the most important topic - no matter how well dressed you look, you won’t succeed in captivating girls on your first date, you’ll have to use one more tool - language.

You should talk with a woman, on the first date there is no place for awkward silent pauses and a frantic search for topics for conversation. To begin with, try to talk about her, all people are egoists by nature and love to talk about themselves, and beautiful women are no exception. Ask her, listen and remember everything that she says, and be sure to nod and assent at the right moments. You can also tell about yourself, but in such a way as to present yourself in the best light.However, one should not forget about extraneous conversation topics - dream together, remember your childhood, and discuss dreams.

In fact, you can choose any topic, but there are several taboos:

• sport, weapons and war - These are exclusively male topics that interest women quite rarely;
• computer games - the topic is interesting only for people playing one game, in all other cases nothing but boredom, it does not cause;
• technical topicsrelated to a profession, study or work - believe me, in this case the girl’s reaction will be the same;
• relatives - no one can know on the first date how a woman’s relationship develops with her family and friends, the topic is too personal, and you can easily step on slippery ground and spoil the mood of both her and herself (if a girl wants to tell you about her relatives - she will certainly do it).

First of all, you need to admire a particular detail, for example, style, as well as a smile, legs, hair, eyes and the like. A compliment can concern not only appearance, for example, if a girl often jokes - tell her that she is very witty. However, do not get hung up on just one point and do not pour “amenities” without stopping - over time it will be terribly enraging. Any girl, even the most modest and shy, loves to be touched, even if she says the exact opposite. The main thing is to touch correctly. You can hold her hands, slightly acquire - you need to do this already in the very first minutes of your date, but, of course, without rudeness, the movement should be gentle and delicate.

At the first date, the touch should be “random” - from time to time, touch it with your shoulder or hand. You can, for example, straighten her hair, or you can go further - offer the girl fortune telling in the palm of her hand, and it doesn’t matter at all whether you know how or not - in any case, she will probably like such contact, maybe she will agree to go a little bit farther.

If you want to conquer an inaccessible obstinate woman or a girl who does not like your type of men, patience is required here. It will not be possible to win the heart of such a woman with flowers and ordinary compliments - competent behavior and the gradual creation of especially sexual tension are important here.

There are some simple rules.

Do not try to show too much attention, especially in the early stages of courtship. Beautiful women are accustomed to the fact that all the men they meet literally look into their mouths from the very first minutes of communication and are ready for anything, if only they agreed to spend the night together. In the eyes of the girl, this behavior is uninteresting, so it completely discourages them from continuing their acquaintance. They are simply not interested in seeking someone who is already at their feet. And then, women consider low-grade those men who pay attention to them at a time when they have not yet deserved it (in their, female, understanding).

Be sure to maintain tension - it is with him that sexual attraction begins. If a girl is in the company of her beautiful friends, give them the lion's share of your attention, women hunters, they will immediately “make a stand” and want to repulse you. Such tension gives rise to subconscious attempts to attract your male attention, she thinks more and more about you and, accordingly, you rise strongly in her eyes.

Do not offer more than two dates in a row if you have been refused once - the reasons may be the most mundane, but the second refusal, rather, indicates that the girl does not regard your behavior as attractive.In this case, it is better at the next meeting to talk about something funny, to joke and say goodbye, without even hinting at a possible meeting. And you need to do this repeatedly - and then, only then invite to a new meeting.

Show the girl your potential, keep in mind that guys without a goal attract only female students, as well as those who are hungry for positive emotions. Beautiful impregnable women do not belong to either category, whether you are the soul of a company and a true ringleader, they will never consider a man to be his companion unless he has some big and, undoubtedly, worthy goal in life.

In recent years, more and more young people find themselves a girl through the Internet. For example, you met in a social network with a beautiful girl, she corresponded with you, but it turns out from personal meetings. Let's consider how to be in such a situation. It's simple - you should attract her with your text messages so that she can appear before your friends in a short time, just like your friend.

Pickup specialists give some recommendations.

• Write correctly - any errors, whether spelling or syntax, can pretty much spoil the impression of you, however, if the object of your desire, just like you, does not bother about literacy, then errors will not become a special problem.
• Do not turn your communication into everyday correspondence. It’s not worth telling what you ate for breakfast, and how you bought socks or hung a picture, there is already enough everyday life in any woman’s life. She wants communication and romance from a correspondence partner.
• Tell her about your merits, in an unobtrusive way, describe to her some of your life stories that show you from the best side, let the girl have the feeling that you are strong, courageous, noble and generous.
• Make more jokes. Everyone loves funny guys, only jokes should be really funny, in no case go into vulgarity.
• Take an interest in the affairs of your girlfriend, ask about her life, hobbies and interests.
• Be careful not to repeat yourself in your messages - otherwise the girl will decide that you have absolutely no imagination.
• Be natural - do not portray a cool macho or an unrecognized genius, a tired philosopher or a freak - these are also not the best options for transferring communication from online to the real plane.

If you feel that your communication is hardly moving to the romantic stage, then try using heavy artillery. Poems - it’s not at all necessary to write a poem to her, you can use the works already created earlier - it’s important to correctly insert a few lines into the text or end your message with them. Pictures - if you draw well, you can devote a drawing to her, women love artists no less than poets. If there are no such abilities, then boldly search the Internet for beautiful pictures, for example, few people will try to see a secret message in images of a couple under an umbrella, woven arms and footprints in the sand.

However, it is better to abstain from the pictures from the Kama Sutra, especially accompanied by the text from the series “I want you too,” as you risk getting into the black list immediately after such a message. Sometimes men who try to fall in love with a woman at a distance make many mistakes that simply negate all their efforts. If you really intend to achieve a real meeting, then in your messages you should not:

• deceive - you do not need to ascribe other people's merits to yourself, to portray yourself as a rich man or a sought-after specialist, if in practice you are not;
• declare love in the first messages - in this case, the girl will decide that you are either an ordinary joker, or a liar, or just crazy;
• make promises you cannot keep - no need to turn into henpecked already at a distance, otherwise, in a personal meeting about you, they will completely wipe their feet;
• write vulgarity - you should not ask at the third communication session what is worn on the girl and tell what you would like to do with her right now, this is possible only if you have already met in person and your relationship has crossed the line of friendly communication;
• terrorize a woman - there is no need to arrange for her a debriefing, to find out why she did not answer the message written an hour ago, why she did not appear on the network last night, because such scenes can be allowed by her husband, but not a pen pal.

Sometimes it becomes necessary to return the location of the former lover. In this situation, the main thing is not to act ahead. A girl needs time to sort things out, cool down and miss a little of your shared past.

When a few weeks, or maybe months, pass, it is possible to “randomly” arrange a meeting. At the same time, behave in a friendly, but a little detached manner. She shouldn’t tell her how much you yearned, or how glad to see her, she should by no means guess that you are suffering. If she wants to tell you about her successes or failures, politely move away from such a conversation, because you do not need her to transfer you to the category of good friends.

Flirt with another girl or even take her home, after making sure that your ex is sure to find out about this (of course, not from you). Even if she doesn’t want to meet with you again, she will still be pricked with jealousy, and you just have to catch the right moment and invite her to a meeting. Keep in mind that the purpose of the meeting should be sex, if you have inclined her to intimacy, consider that she answered you in return, and your relationship has revived again. Although you should not relax - otherwise you will remain for her only a partner for meetings for the period until she finds a permanent man.

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