Each person goes through the stage of growing up in his life. The transition period is characterized by a difficult emotional state. It would seem that you have already matured and understand a lot of things, but you don’t understand what to do about it and how to behave. It becomes especially difficult when an object of adoration appears in your life.
Features of puberty
From about 11-16, the restructuring of the human body begins. Nothing wrong with that. Absolutely all people living on the Earth passed through such a difficult state. In the transition period, growing up, and the world begins to play with new colors. So I want to imitate adults and be with them on the same wavelength. And this is a completely natural desire. If a teenager is an intellectually developed personality, then he seeks to know the world around him. At this time, memory works well and intuition develops.
You need not to miss this moment and develop your skills to the “fullest”.
It's no secret that in adolescence there is a sexual desire. This happens unconsciously, and therefore practically does not affect the psychological state. Although this moment should not be left to chance. Psychologists say that proper education guides the development of personality. Full-fledged development is due to the support of loved ones. In any case, do not lock yourself in your problems. Find answers to your questions everywhere. At least in specialized sources or on the Internet.
How to like a girl?
In boys in their teens, thoughts about girls are paramount. And there is nothing wrong with that.Male representatives are often afraid to be rejected and ridiculed. They suffer from their feelings and unrequited love, do not know what to do to attract the attention of the opposite sex. You need to start with simple general rules. Dress neatly, try not to have a bad smell. To do this, observe the rules of hygiene. Do not pour on almost the entire bottle of daddy cologne. No one will like the tart smell. The girl may be allergic to such aromas. Then things will go really bad.
You must always be collected and not cause irritation with your actions. You should not behave cheekily and defiantly.
Decent girls really dislike this behavior. If you want to draw attention to yourself, you should do an act that will cause others to respect: wipe the board, water the flowers, take out the trash from the classroom. The teacher will certainly praise you and cite other children as an example.
Actively study. Memorize a poem or theorem. At breaks or in other places of public gathering, try to be close to the object of your adoration. More often look directly into her eyes. Touch, as if by accident, her hands. If a girl needs help, then be sure to provide her. For starters, you can take a turn in the dining room or help carry a heavy portfolio. Now everyone has a page on social networks. You can find the account of the girl you like and offer friendship. Every evening, write her messages with the wishes of "good night" or just ask how her affairs are going. We can say that these are banal tips, but they give an effect. If you live in the interests of a girl that interests you, she will definitely reciprocate. And for this it is not necessary to be a superhero or an ideal handsome.
About girls and girls
Talk about what they like the most. In adolescence, the fair sex has its own hobbies. At 10-12 years old girls are interested in dolls and their beautiful outfits. They project their image onto the puppet. Wearing a toy, the girl, in fact, represents herself in this outfit. However, girls forget about boys. At the age of 12, this is not so active, relations develop in a friendly manner with the most pronounced sympathy. A classmate with pleasure will help the boy complete his homework or will allow him to write off the test work in the lesson.
Starting at the age of 13, girls behave more consciously.
They are already little interested in dolls. Most modern youth are inclined to anime enthusiasm. Screen miniatures characters colorful. They are created and promoted in Japan. Often they commit unthinkable acts. Images of heroes from Anime become vivid examples for teenagers. Therefore, the guys dress like these fairy-tale characters and try to behave in a similar way. There is nothing reprehensible in this, on the contrary, many teenagers draw images of characters from Japanese cartoons and develop artistic skills in themselves. Girls in 13-14 and even at the age of 15 thus imagine future elect. Using the anime heroes as an example, they learn to build relationships with the opposite sex.
One and only
How to win her heart? You must always be near. Find out what she is most interested in. Invite to the cinema or just present a chocolate bar. Girls are very fond of sweets and will appreciate such an act. There are girls who have never met anyone. Shy people usually think more about studying or playing sports than about personal relationships. Conquering such is not easy. But if you are determined to like it, then start playing sports or tighten your studies. Intellectuals among adolescents are authoritative personalities. Your mind and achievements in sports will be appreciated not only by the girl you like, but also by other women.
While you are engaged in self-improvement, do not leave your object of adoration for a long time unattended, but do not rush things. Remember one wise saying: “The more a woman we love, the less she likes us.” No need to get to fanaticism. However, do not be too proud. And you should not humble yourself either. In the relationship of the sexes need a measure.
If you liked a girl from a photograph on a page on a social network, then write her a small greeting.
It should be polite and competent. If a network user answers you, then try to make an acquaintance. Start writing posts to discuss everyday topics. Perhaps your interests do not coincide, and you yourself will be disappointed in your choice. And if not, then such a harmless acquaintance can develop into a great feeling.
Guys must be confident in their abilities. To achieve an authoritative position among peers, it is not enough to be inflated and courageous. Without mental work on oneself, such qualities will quickly develop into self-confidence and boorish behavior. Of course, no decent girl will like this image. If you want to have next to you the most charming and attractive girlfriend in all respects, then work on yourself. Man as a person must "make" himself.
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