How to understand that a girl likes you?

When I really like a girl, I really want to see signs of a reciprocal feeling. Female psychology is difficult to perceive and unpredictable, however, you can study the main signals of sympathy for a lady.

The girl is a mysterious creature, but it’s not so difficult to find out what you like. The main thing is not to invent something that is not there, but to carefully monitor the behavior of the fair sex and note for yourself certain signs of sympathy.

Each person will have their own, but some common beginning of nascent feelings is noted in all women. Practice shows that girls begin to show signs of attention already in the second or third week from the start of dating. And some, especially impatient, ladies can start doing this even earlier. Girls want to attract the guy they like with the help of special behavior, but it can be difficult to determine this to the object of their desire. Inexperienced or not very attentive guys may not even notice for years that a girl liked them.

Humble ladies hint that they like the guy, as follows:

• often observe the object of passion, and if their gaze is noticed, then immediately withdraw it;
• blush when a man dear to the heart appears;
• looking for information about a guy you like among friends and acquaintances;
• try to look beautiful every day;
• begin to get lost and timid in the company of a pleasant man.

More assertive ladies differ in their behavior when an object of sympathy appears:

• can take the initiative: start a conversation on their own, pass by, playfully shaking their hips;
• “Shoot” with eyes;
• send notes
• Find a phone number and contacts on social networks and write first.

In fact, unfamiliar women are very inventive. You need to see the signs of their attention in time. Then come up and get acquainted will be much easier.

If we talk about the conversation, then in it you can also trace romantic vibes, which, at first glance, can be completely invisible. In conversation, the girls hint at sympathy as follows:

• say compliments (even if not clear to everyone);
• always laugh at the jokes of a handsome man;
• listen to the conversation and try not to interrupt;
• prefer to stay somewhat apart during the general conversation, watch from the side and smile.

Sometimes ladies can act diametrically opposite when they like a guy. They can completely ignore him or even behave aggressively. So they dump the accumulated tension from unrequited feelings. Just as the boys pull the pigtails of the girls and tease when they like them, so girls at a conscious age can choose this tactic of battle.

To make it clear to a man that a woman likes him, she can specially act more loudly in the company of friends. Thus, she distinguishes herself from the rest and declares herself “with a capital letter”. If a lady, at the appearance of a certain male representative, begins to whisper with her friends, then this also probably indicates a beginning feeling. From an overabundance of emotions, girlfriends begin to whisper to share their momentary impressions.

Upon the appearance of the same, any lady will immediately set aside her phone or work and devote at least a few minutes to her potential boyfriend. She simply will not be able to behave differently due to surging excitement.

How else can a woman hint about her sympathy? There are a lot of ways, but the main ones are:

• periodic requests for help, which undoubtedly help to start a conversation and give time for communication;
• treats with their signature dishes characterize the lady as a good housewife and give the man an occasion to reflect on her candidacy in the second half;
• questions about well-being show participation in the life of a guy by a girl;
• the girl asks mutual acquaintances and colleagues about the man, although she knows that they can tell him about it;
• cute gifts with a hint: mugs with hearts for February 23, cards for Valentine's Day - all this is a direct hint of sympathy;
• jokes addressed to a man are an indispensable attribute of sympathy;
• in the presence of the man of her dreams, the lady straightens her hair, as she is worried about how she looks.

In addition to such obvious signs of sympathy, there are hidden ones. They are not always visible to the naked eye, so they must be carefully disassembled and evaluated so as not to be confused with anything else.

In modern society, girls are not accepted to express their sympathy openly. Firstly, a man, by tradition, must seek the hand and heart of a lady, and secondly, I do not want to amuse male vanity and get into a mess. The rejected woman feels too depressed, so she tries to attract attention by cunning and various tricks.

If a girl tries to portray cold alienation with all her might, then the subconscious mind will still (sooner or later) give her out with her head. For some gestures and facial expressions, you can completely consider emotions that speak of sympathy. It is important to identify them in time.

• Turning the body of the body or just legs in the direction of the preferred guy. When we like a person, we involuntarily open up to him, this is expressed precisely in the direction of our body in his direction. A woman, while reducing the distance between her and the prospective partner, does not even notice how she turns her legs, even bent at her knees, points her toe, and can playfully shake her shoe.
• Turning the hull fully indicates the special affection or openness of the girl. The mood for the novel here is quite obvious, if there is also a smile, as well as light touches. But more on this later.
• Particularly brave women can even touch the guy they like with their feet, for example, sitting with him at the same table. Such non-verbal communication takes a certain erotic connotation. Here one does not even have to guess whether the girl likes you or not. The answer is clear: yes, and very much so.
• Permanent bodily contact. The disposition to this man is also manifested by the desire to touch him as often as possible. Nothing reflects romantic affection like constant touching a young man. So, a woman puts her hand on a man’s shoulder while talking, touches his chest, as if as a joke, pushing away, trying to pass by, hug him lightly, as if he was preventing her from passing.

If such a manner of communication can be traced from a woman, then she is either a windy coquette, or is really very interested in a particular man. How to accurately determine this? It is necessary to pay attention to whether this representative of the fair sex behaves this way with all men or only with one particular one. If the second option is suitable, then sympathy is most likely present.

It is also easy to test feelings as follows: one must begin to act in this direction. Take it or just periodically touch the neutral parts of the body. There are two reaction options: violent and romantic.

• Hair straightening. For a long time, a twist of a lock on a finger is considered a sign of true sympathy of a girl. But not only this gesture with hair, but also any game with them speaks of female affection. A lady can preen herself in front of a mirror when a desired man appears, or she can beat a volume of strands with her hand. The girl can also remove hair behind her ear and stroke her head as a result of sincere sympathy. To follow these eloquent actions, you need to catch the girl by surprise. That is, suddenly go where she is. Otherwise, she may be confident in her appearance and not show such gestures.
• The movement of the lips and legs. There are some signs that can clearly outline a girl’s preference for a particular person. These instinctive movements will help you quickly understand what's what.

Lips - this is one of the most sensitive areas for any lady. Therefore, when talking and looking closely at the object of desire, she will bite them or slightly lick. Most of the time, she will keep her mouth slightly open. And on the lips there will be a pleasant half smile. It is unlikely that a girl will be able to restrain these gestures when a pleasant young man approaches at a distance of less than half a meter. Therefore, it is advisable to provoke her in such a way as to carefully assess her condition by such an invasion of the comfort zone.

Legs, in addition to the direction in the direction of the man you like, can also tell a lot about the sympathy of the lady. With the close proximity of a handsome young man, the hips of a woman (often involuntarily) are compressed.

• Posture. When we want to seem more important, we most often monitor the position of the body. So girls, wanting to attract a guy, will surely straighten their shoulders and chest, draw in their stomach and begin to walk more gracefully. Everyone wants to look their best in the eyes of a potential soulmate, so this gesture clearly shows the intentions of a beautiful person. If a girl before the arrival of a certain guy stood, as if nothing had happened, leaning on something in a relaxed pose, then when an attractive male person appears on the horizon, she will surely stretch herself “out of line”, push back her hair and take up an important pose. By nature, these non-verbal signs indicate that she wants to be noticed.
• Embarrassment. Even the strongest girls in spirit cannot absolutely hide their embarrassment from the sudden arrival or close proximity of the object of passion. So, a lady may begin to shift something in her hands: a piece of paper, a handkerchief. She may also begin to blush, say stupid things, or stutter a little.

Of course, in some of the girls they are more pronounced, while in others - less, but they are always present. The main thing is to make out them in time.

• Imitation. The involuntary repetition of gestures, gait, facial expressions of a young man directly indicates the strong sympathy of the fair sex. This marker allows you to know with absolute accuracy about feelings for sure. There is no need to wait a moment and arrange hours-long surveillance. It is enough to just sit back and see if she repeats the same pose. The girl will not repeat the man exactly, she simply partially copies his behavior. Tilt of the head, body, light touch, but in the same direction, with the same parts of the body. Interestingly, these gestures occur involuntarily. That is, the lady during their reproduction does not even control herself, which speaks in favor of this method of monitoring the feelings of this lady.

Glance is more eloquent than any words. It’s hard enough to say from the look that a girl really likes a certain guy. But in any case, it’s worth trying to follow the game.

Flirting with the eyes is a type of flirting, known since time immemorial. As a lady looks at her adored man:

• looks at him from under lowered eyelashes and smiles sweetly;
• looks away, as if having noticed him quite by accident;
• looks again at the object and can smile again or laugh in embarrassment.

Being in a crowd, you can also check with a glance whether a girl likes a certain young man. Make it simple.

• you need to be constantly in sight (quite a long time);
• then you need to disappear, but so that there is visual access: if a lady is interested, having lost sight of a pretty guy, she will start peeking out for everyone to find him again.

Then you must again be in sight to see the reaction of the woman. If she calms down and again begins to chat with someone at ease - she definitely has sympathy.

There is a more radical method of checking by sight: you can come close to the girl and look into her eyes. The embarrassed lady in love will look away or look in the face with a smile.But (sooner or later) she will still drop her eyes in embarrassment. This sign indicates that a woman recognizes the dominance of a man who is attractive to her and agrees with his supremacy.

In women who experience certain feelings for a particular man, when he approaches, there is one physiological sign - they have dilated pupils.

If a girl has been communicating with a guy on social networks for a long time, but does not openly speak about her sympathy, then it is difficult not to worry. On the one hand, it seems that she simply wants to be friends and does not want a romantic relationship at all, and on the other hand, if a lady spends a lot of time in correspondence, then she hardly wants to limit herself to exclusively friendly communication.

In general, face-to-face conversation is much more exciting than correspondence. Here you can carefully think over each phrase, do not say it out loud and do not look the guy in the eye at all.

There are a lot of distinguishing features of a woman who really likes a guy; you can find them in the correspondence.

• The girl is interested in the well-being and mood of the guy is not "for show". The lady really worries, asking about all the details of the day. If a nuisance occurs, then she is lamented about this and is doing her best to support. Women, in principle, are characterized by care and attention. These qualities are inherent in them from nature and they are usually directed to a potential head of the family.
• Comes up with affectionate nicknames or constantly uses diminutive names. She is afraid to say directly about her feelings or does not want to take the initiative in her female hands. But the lady can try to provoke the guy to the first step in this way.

• He wants to know more about hobbies. Girls learn about this for several reasons: they want to find an approach, draw an analogy with their passions, want to try to get carried away with the same.
• Says compliments. This is a very clear sign of sympathy for a beautiful lady. Compliments are explicit and hidden. It depends on the degree of trust in communication and the emancipation of the girl. Most often they talk about appearance and pleasant qualities of character.
• Worried if a guy lingers somewhere or doesn't respond for long. In the excitement of correspondence, there are two signs of sympathy. Firstly, the girl will really worry about what is dear to her. And secondly, she is bored when a guy doesn’t go online for a long time, and wants to talk to him again faster.

• Sends his photos. A direct hint of a desire for a relationship is to add photos to the context of the conversation.
• Advises on many issues. Basically, if a guy likes, then he automatically becomes an authority for the girl. What dress is best, how to make peace with a friend or mother, how to pass the session faster - this is only an incomplete list of possible questions from a lady in love. This is a clear sign of trust and romantic feelings in relation to this man.
• Tries to respond on time or warns that he will be busy. She simply does not want to lose confidence and appreciates any moment spent together, even if only in correspondence. Usually, girls who are not particularly interested in this young man can be hours online, but not reply to the message or answer in monosyllables. It is necessary to notice such punctuality and understand that this is a clear sign of sympathy.

• Tries to hint at spending time together in person. She can talk about the film, which is now in the cinema, or enjoy the good weather and express a desire to take a walk.This is a direct hint of a date - you should not miss your chance.
• Finds any excuses to invite a young man to his home. For example, when he finds out about a guy’s ability to repair plumbing, he tearfully asks him to help. Thus, the girl is simply trying to see him in person.
• It takes the side of a man in almost any matters. Whatever the young man says and no matter what he complains about, the young lady in love will surely intercede for him and scold everyone who offended him. This position is very flattering to men.

Of course, all the fair sex is very different, as are their signals of sympathy.

After searching for obvious and hidden signs of female sympathy, it is very easy to get lost in them. How to understand that you are not fooled by a clouded consciousness? To do this, there is a huge amount of advice from psychologists and simply experienced men who have always been popular with the opposite sex.

Surely you can determine the sympathy of a girl in only two ways:

• when she herself spoke about it;
• inviting her for a date and voicing her preferences.

If the first option is delayed, then you need not to hesitate and take the initiative. Without taking the first step yourself, you can forever lose the chance of happiness.

You need to listen to yourself and find out whether this girl is really the one. I will waste my time on a lady who does not fit in character and other spiritual attributes, at least irrationally. Do not miss the opportunity. If a woman clearly showed sympathy, you need to respond in time to develop the relationship further. Fate often gives us a chance, but we do not notice or lose sight of it.

In communication, you do not need to put on a mock mask. To be yourself means to find yourself, sooner or later, a person who will accept you as you are, with all the advantages and disadvantages. And looking for problems in the form of inappropriate passion is wrong. You should also relax and enjoy life. Then everything should turn out, as fate favors those who love life.

A man should try to always look good and smell good. After all, appearance is the first impression, a basic requirement and an indicator of self-love. A rich inner world is wonderful, but in combination with neatness, a man will be simply magnificent. You also need to get enough sleep. Healthy sleep affects not only the state of the body, but also the appearance. In addition, a sleepy man is much more witty, jokes and communicates on any topic with ease. Therefore, girls will definitely like him stronger.

Take lightly everything that happens around you, including sympathy for the opposite sex. Be yourself, enjoy every day you live, and the second half will certainly become a pleasant addition to your happy life. One must learn to be self-sufficient and not depend on any adversity.

Thus, after reading the material of our article, you learned about the main signs of a girl showing sympathy for you. Carefully study and analyze the behavior of your friends, acquaintances or work colleagues - then you definitely will not miss the nascent love.

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