Every girl wants to feel beautiful and special. And self-esteem to a greater extent depends on the attention signs of men. Consider why some girls always have a lot of fans, while others spend their evenings alone, which determines the degree of attractiveness, and what kind of girls guys like.
Appearance
A man loves with his eyes - this truth is as old as the world, and you can not argue with it. No matter how the opposite sex claims that inner beauty is more important, any guy pays attention to appearance. Even if a girl cooks tasty, reads a lot, has an interesting hobby and has a unique sense of humor, without elementary care for her appearance, she risks remaining invisible to men.
What you need to be in order to please a guy, and is there some kind of standard - maybe Angelina Jolie or Monica Bellucci, let's figure it out. Here you can please all the fair sex - every man likes a certain type. For a boy in love, his girlfriend will always be the most beautiful, even if for the rest she is quite ordinary and discreet. Because there are no common parameters, no matter how the media impose them. In other words, "there is a merchant for every product."
But this does not mean that you need to let it go and wait for the prince to knock on the door himself. There are certain external criteria that absolutely all men like, and girls should adhere to them.
Grooming
This applies to the condition of the skin, hair, nails.Women are simply obliged to take care of themselves, regularly take a shower, wash their hair, use creams and other means. Many girls visit salons, where they do various care procedures from masks to wraps. All this so that the skin is always smooth and healthy. A dirty head, an abundance of acne on the face or bad breath will push away any man.
And even the most incredible beauty can make an unpleasant impression if her nails are in an inappropriate condition. And men are greedy for trifles. The same goes for the vegetation on the body. Almost 100% of men do not like the hair of a girl anywhere but the head. Therefore, this item also should not be deleted from the list of responsibilities. In addition, there are now many ways to get rid of unwanted hair, including forever.
Shining eyes
Men, contrary to stereotypes, pay attention to the eyes. But not by their color, but by their gaze. A beautiful girl is a happy girl. Sometimes enviable beauties are surprised that men are not suitable for meeting them, but the reason may be hiding in the way the girl looks at others. Alertness, coldness, malevolence in the look will be read immediately, and this will push the man away. No matter how much he looks like a woman, he may simply be afraid of failure.
Therefore, the look should be relaxed, warm and comfortable. The famous supermodel Tyra Banks has always taught to "smile with my eyes," you should definitely learn this tactic.
Naturalness
This concept should not be confused with groveling. Being natural does not mean completely abandoning cosmetics, not doing hairstyles and not taking care of yourself. Natural appearance is the harmony of the image. Some girls think that the abundance of makeup, false eyelashes and strands, artificial tanning make them more attractive, but this is not so. Men, as a rule, are repelled by such unnaturalness.
The question legitimately arises - what is hidden behind all these layers of cosmetics? Therefore, in order not to look like a puppet, you need to use makeup correctly. She should not hide her face, her task is to emphasize the dignity. You can even attend special makeup courses where experienced masters will pick up individual makeup for any look.
Beautiful hair
They can be taken out as a separate paragraph, because in fact, men are crazy about female hair. Needless to say that they should be clean. This is the absolute minimum that every girl should adhere to. The maximum is to have a beautiful haircut and use care products so that your hair is healthy, soft and shiny.
As for the eternal question - do gentlemen prefer blondes, or they like brunettes and redheads, and what hair color takes a leading position - for guys it is not so important. If he likes the girl as a whole, then her blond hair or dark is a secondary issue. Extreme colors are considered an exception - such as red, purple, blue, green. Such staining can scare away a man, so it is better to opt for familiar and natural shades.
If we talk about hairstyles, then, of course, long hair is always held in high esteem by representatives of the stronger sex. But this does not mean that a girl with a short haircut will not be in demand. If the hairstyle is in harmony with the appearance as a whole, then the man will definitely pay attention to such a girl.
By the way, there is advice for those representatives of the fair sex who want to straighten their curly hair by nature - guys even really like curls, so you should not so desperately hide your personality, which is better to make your highlight.
Posture and Gait
Everyone remembers the film “Office Romance”, where secretary Vera taught Lyudmila Prokofievna to walk correctly.The main rules were that a woman should have a riddle, her head should be uplifted, her back should be straight, and her gait should be free and free of her hips. One has only to recall the charming Marilyn Monroe, who drove men crazy with her amazing ability to walk beautifully and feminine. The main thing is to be able not to go beyond grace and not to go (in the literal and figurative sense) into vulgarity. You can even take lessons or practice at home using a model technique, for example, with a book on your head.
Do not underestimate the importance of a flat back. It is unlikely that a stooped girl will attract a man. It is important to monitor your posture while sitting and walking, until a flat back becomes an integral part of the image.
Figure
With a face, skin and hair more or less understandable, but everyone is interested in what kind of figure guys like. Probably, all the girls will unanimously answer that the parameters 90-60-90, which have arisen since the time of Marilyn Monroe, are considered ideal. But do not forget that once full women were considered ideal, whom Rubens painted with such admiration on his canvases. Fashion for figures is changeable, but the essence remains the same - men like both thin and large girls. Here everything depends on the ability to present oneself. And of course, one should not go to extremes - exhausting oneself with diets, until, besides the skin, nothing remains, or overeating to the point where it will be difficult to go through the doorway. Both that and another cannot be pleasant to the man because of an unhealthy look. Everything should be harmonious.
Let's figure out what parameters you need to have in order to please a guy, but first you need to get rid of two very important stereotypes.
A thin body type is always held in high esteem
This is an erroneous opinion. But it cannot be said that double chins and an abundance of cellulite will look more attractive. It’s just worth understanding that thinness is not equal to beauty, and a full girl doesn’t mean ugly. For a man, the main thing is that the figure should look fit, regardless of weight. The main thing is to know the measure. No need to bring the weight to dangerous levels, both in plus and minus.
Of course, the type of hourglass will always attract males., but this does not mean that other girls have no chance. The main thing is to be fit, and this will help fitness classes, jogging in the morning and training in the halls. In addition, such exercises will not only strengthen muscles and make the figure more attractive, but also improve the body.
Big breasted girls are more likely
Another misconception. And many women complex because of their first size, and some headlong rush to plastic surgeons, increasing their breasts to the “ideal” third or even fifth size. Of course, a beautiful neckline will attract attention, but for men, size is not as important as the shape of the chest. If outwardly she looks attractive, then the chosen one does not care at all - the first is the size or the fourth. Therefore, it is immediately worthwhile to exclude this complex, and not to focus on it. As for giving the neckline a beautiful shape, sports will also help here (especially push-ups), a contrast shower and various creams that contribute to the elasticity and tightness of the skin.
It is important to be able to accept your own body, improve it and not be complex due to stereotypes imposed by society and the media. Because a girl with any type of figure (without extremes) is able to charm a man. The main thing is the ability to present oneself correctly.
Height
Which girls like men - tall or short - there is no single answer to this question. And the concept of growth for each guy will be his own. Men usually prefer the girl to be about ten centimeters lower than them, although many men are not against a high companion. It happens that a short man seeks to choose a girl of the same height or a little lower, in order to avoid embarrassment next to a tall beauty.
Of course, model growth has its advantages - such girls stand out from the crowd, outfits sit perfectly on them. But low growth is not a reason for complexes. Short girls look younger than their age, even with a full figure they do not look bulky, and men immediately want to be the defenders of such pretty beauties.
Small girls are very popular among really tall men. Sometimes the difference in centimeters can reach 20, 30, and even 40. And sometimes a tall guy prefers a girl to match, so that the couple looks harmonious. In any case, growth is only a convention, in many respects it depends on the psychological characteristics of the partners.
Style and clothes
Men value femininity in the opposite field. And you can emphasize it with the help of a wardrobe, namely: dresses and heels. The already mentioned film star Marilyn Monroe considered heels a salvation for women - and she was right. With the help of them, you can advantageously lengthen your legs and emphasize your attractiveness. A stiletto girl automatically starts to feel more confident, her posture, gait and ability to keep herself changing. As for dresses, they will be leaders, according to the male population. Even if pants or jeans go well for a girl, this does not compare with the effect that she will have on a man wearing a dress.
When choosing a wardrobe should be guided by several important rules.
- Elegant and not vulgar. A short and open dress can create a rather frivolous image, giving the young man the wrong signs. Therefore, it is important not to cross the border. Sexuality and vulgarity are not synonyms.
- Price is not an indicator. A girl can buy a dress in an expensive boutique or at a sale - for a man it does not matter. The main thing is how clothes sit on the figure, and no representative of the stronger sex will look at the price tags.
- Cleanliness and neatness. These are the main criteria in clothes. No guy will like a crumpled dress on a chosen one, moreover, with a stain on his sleeve, even if it was bought for a fabulous amount.
- Relevance. Of course, dresses with heels are a win-win option for any woman. But you need to wear them in accordance with the occasion. An extravagant outfit with stilettos for a walk in the park is more likely to perplex a man than to attract.
Of course, all this does not mean that it is necessary to throw out all things from the wardrobe, except for dresses. The girl is attractive in other outfits, the main thing is that the wardrobe should not be boring or too artsy. Both that, and another is bad. Men appreciate girls who dress with style.
As for underwear, it is worth starting from color and fabric.
- Red will definitely be associated with a man with passion, so a girl in underwear of this color will make a bright and spectacular impression.
- Black is no less popular. It creates the impression of extravagance and mystery.
- Some men love white underwear because innocence can also be sexual.
The fabric plays an important role. Cotton occupies the last places in the ranking, according to men, it looks simple and unpretentious. Therefore, it is worth stopping your choice on lace or silk, which will undoubtedly drive any young man crazy.
The main thing is that the clothes should be harmonious, appropriate, emphasize the merits, and then attention from the opposite sex will not have to wait long.
Nature and behavior
Of course, external data is important, but you cannot go far on a pretty face and a beautiful figure; you need to be able to interest a man. We list which girls like the opposite sex in character.
- Outgoing. It is worth noting that this is not synonymous with talkativeness. No one likes silent girls who don’t know how to keep up a conversation or start a conversation. A man is not against modest behavior, but it is important to know the measure, otherwise he may mistake embarrassment for disinterest in communication.
- Self-confident. This is not about narcissism and arrogance. It is only important to be able to adequately present yourself. Even if a girl has some complexes, it is not necessary to focus on them the attention of a man, it is important to pay his attention only to virtues.
- Smart and competent. Oddly enough, but the stereotype about the attractiveness of stupid girls has not been working for a long time. If a woman reads books, is engaged in self-development, has a hobby, writes and expresses competently, then she has much more chances to like a man. It’s not a shame to introduce a smart companion to friends and any other company, it’s always interesting and there is something to talk about, and most importantly, you listen to her opinion.
- Mysterious. Men most of all like to seek the location of a girl, to recognize her gradually. You do not need to tell everything about yourself and immediately at the first meeting, you should always keep trump cards for the future. It is important for a girl to be unpredictable, but within reasonable limits.
- Caring and kind. Any guy will like it if a girl shows a soft attitude. At the same time, she should show kindness not only to the chosen one, but also to relatives, children, animals and strangers. But here you should not overdo it, otherwise there is a risk of turning from a desired woman into a mother.
- Calm. In fact, men do not like too emotional girls. They can cry at any moment or throw a real tantrum. From such bursts, the guy will quickly get tired, so you need to forget about breaking plates and throwing clothes out of windows. The main thing is to control yourself!
- Funny. A sense of humor makes any girl even more desirable and attractive. Therefore, it is important to be able to laugh, including yourself. Excessive seriousness repels men, but you should not be a solid holiday girl. The measure is important in everything.
- Modest. If a girl is embarrassed, blushes, it always looks nice and can charm any man. But at the same time, one should not confuse modesty with isolation.
- Unobtrusive. The basic rule in dealing with a man is to allow him to pursue himself. No need to go to his hands, showing excessive initiative. The guys like some inaccessibility, but the frequent calls and the restriction of personal freedom only push them away.
- Talented. In fact, men, like women, love romantic surprises. Therefore, there will be nothing if the girl herself prepares for her chosen one some original gift made by herself or reads a poem of her own composition. Such a gesture will be pleasant to a man, and he will certainly appreciate the creative approach.
There are some types of women that attract men.
- Business woman. The image of a business woman scares some representatives of the stronger sex, and impresses some. Success is a trait that can give rise to complexes in an insecure guy, so strong men usually prefer these girls. Many representatives of the strong sex consider this image sexual and interesting.
- Skillful hostesses. This type of women always has delicious borsch, the apartment shines with cleanliness, the laundry is washed and ironed. Many men choose for themselves just such companions of life who skillfully create home comfort.
- "Yours on the board." Such girls become true friends and like-minded people for their companions. They can watch football or share all the charms of fishing. With such a girl is fun, comfortable and interesting.
- Fatal women. Mysterious and attractive type for a man. They are insidious, selfish, unpredictable, but despite this, they are popular among males. Of course, not every guy will decide to choose such a girl for a serious relationship, but nevertheless this image is present in the dreams of many representatives of the stronger sex.
- Charms. Such girls combine the features of all of the above types.They are pleasant in communication, can surprise with culinary abilities, and at the same time they are able to achieve success in business and try on the image of a fatal lady. A man with such a woman will just have no time to be bored.
Take into account age
The most common stereotype is that men like young women and girls. This also applies to older men. Even at the age of fifty, they pay attention exclusively to girls of twenty-five years. What do those over 30 put an end to? Of course not! The famous actress Audrey Hepburn claimed that the beauty of a woman increases with the years. And she was right. After all, the older the woman, the more experienced, wiser and more interesting she is.
The time has long passed when a girl at 30 was considered almost old. Now age criteria have already shifted in favor of youth, especially men are not very versed in this matter. Thinking that they like girls under 30, they pay attention to those who are not even 35, but already 40. This is not about numbers, but about taking care of themselves. Some adult women can give odds to any twenty-year-old beauties.
The main thing is to preserve the radiance in the look, the love of life, lightness, charm and mystery. It is with such a woman (no matter how old she is) that any man will want to be around.
What perfume attracts guys?
Smell is one of the key criteria for attractiveness. A girl will certainly be remembered by a man if it smells good. Therefore, it is important to choose the right perfume. What fragrance is sure to appeal to the stronger sex?
- Floral. Roses, tulips, jasmines - all this will give the image of lightness, weightlessness and femininity. A man will be surely captivated by floral notes in female perfumes.
- Fruit. Another alluring scent for the opposite sex. Sweet and juicy smell will give the image of any girl piquancy.
- Spicy. Which guy doesn't like the scent of cinnamon, vanilla or chocolate? Such a woman will be associated with something sweet and charming.
Among the special feminine fragrances, which are rightfully considered the most attractive for the opposite sex, we can distinguish Chanel No. 5, already well-known and loved by everyone, light floral fragrances from Nina Ricci, sexy and sensual notes of Poison (Dior), saturation 212 from Carolina Herrera.
Spirits can not only attract a man, but also push him away. Remember what you should know when using perfume.
- The smell should not be pungent. From it, an elementary headache can hurt. No need to pour your favorite perfume from head to toe, just a few drops on the neck and wrists.
- The smell should not be too complicated. The fragrance should complement the female image, but not overshadow it. It is better to opt for pleasant, but simple aromas, the smell of which will be clear to any man.
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