Pregnancy and childbirth - this is primarily joy and happiness, a new level in the relationship of spouses. At the same time, for a woman it is a difficult test, difficulties, cares. That is why it is so important to support and thank your spouse. Including material presentations.
Standard Presents
A future or newly made father should understand that congratulating and giving signs of attention to a spouse should be not only on the day of discharge, but also immediately after the birth of the baby. Congratulate your beloved with a bouquet that can be passed through a nurse. Choose a small and not too high bouquet, the flowers should not have a pungent or strong smell. Together with the bouquet you can pass the fruits (specify which do not cause allergies) and a note or letter with the words of love and gratitude.
Since the birth of a child and the subsequent meeting of his wife with a precious package from the hospital is a solemn and memorable event, you can choose a gift "for years". As a rule, these are jewelry - gold, precious stones.
Quite popular are chains with pendants in the form of children's legs or a baby. You can make engraving on the pendant - a memorable date. However, you can just give your wife the jewelry she dreamed about - earrings, a ring, a bracelet. It is not necessary that it is externally related to the theme of motherhood.
A plush toy is also considered standard. However, romantic and tender young ladies will appreciate such a present. Choose a maxi toy that you can hug. You can even purchase a soft full-length gift. The most popular are teddy bears.
However, if the spouse has a beast-mascot or just a favorite animal, and, perhaps, an affectionate nickname, you can look for a toy associated with these animals.
By the way, a good option is an elephant with a trunk raised up. Such a toy symbolizes joy, prosperity in the house, and a raised trunk is a continuation of the genus. If a girl was born, the elephant may be pink, if the boy is blue, blue.
Another present that is often referred to as “ordinary” is perfume. However, he, like the above gifts, is standard only formally. If a woman dreams of these gifts, they will be pleasant and memorable. As a rule, the husband knows about the taste preferences of the spouse, so he can choose the right fragrance. If difficulties arise with this, you can always purchase a gift certificate in an elite cosmetics and perfumery store.
Underwear is another gift that will please most women. However, there are nuances - most likely, the spouse's breast after birth will increase in size (with the latter you can miscalculate). In addition, you will need a special one for feeding. At the same time, if you know that your wife is not indifferent to beautiful linen, you can buy a peignoir with a bathrobe or present a certificate to a linen boutique. The certificate is good in that it usually lasts 6-12 months. The wife may not "spend" it immediately after childbirth, but do it later - the baby will grow up, and she will again be able to afford her favorite lace sets.
The newly made mom and equipment will delight. Better to choose what she needs. That is, a phone or tablet is a good choice. But the equipment for the baby (baby monitor) or household (dishwasher) is better to buy just at home, and not present as a gift.
A symbolic but pleasant gift is a photo album. Better if it is custom made. Although store options today please with an attractive and original appearance. On the first page, the spouse can paste joint photos from the time of pregnancy, stick a card or just write a congratulation for the spouse, describe their thoughts and feelings. If, on the contrary, we talk about more expensive gifts, then present the wife with a fur coat. The present will be especially symbolic and in demand if the baby was born in winter.
If finances allow, give a car. The rhythm of moms (especially if the child is not the first) is very saturated, it is important for her to be mobile. In this case, a car from a "luxurious" gift also becomes "practical." Do not forget about the beautiful bow on the hood. The color of the ribbons may indicate who you were born to - son or daughter. Perhaps the most “standard”, but such a gift necessary for women are flowers. They must be presented to his wife for discharge. At the same time, do not limit yourself to modest bouquets. Let it be a great composition, not only at the extract, but also at home.
Gifts for the birth of a son
Many husbands dream of a first-born son, if you are one of these, and the wife gave birth to a boy, thank her in a special way. For example, by making a tattoo with the name of the child. Such a gesture can not be called a gift, but it will cause pleasant emotions in a woman, will show her how dear a man is to his family.
Mom boy can be presented with jewelry. Perhaps a pendant or ring that will remind you of a pleasant event and date will please every woman. It is customary to give a “jewelry” with emerald for the birth of a son. He will endow a newborn man with strength and courage, and his mother will become a talisman.
According to legend, an emerald ring should always be worn on the left hand. Tell your spouse about it when you give the present. She is touched by your care and such a reverent attitude towards the choice of a gift.
What to give if a daughter is born?
One of the oldest Slavic traditions is to give a spouse a family heirloom for the birth of a daughter. That is, something valuable, transmitted from generation to generation through the female line.First of all, such a gift carries a strong emotional burden. He shows respect and gratitude not only to her husband, but also to his entire family. And such a relic, as a rule, has considerable material value. IN As her choose old jewelry, icons, tomes, home decoration.
However, if there is no such tradition in the spouse’s family, nothing prevents it from being laid. It is enough to choose a valuable and symbolic thing and hand it to your spouse, accompanying them with an appropriate speech. This will bring the spouses together, will become a symbol of a new round in their relationship.
How to meet a spouse with a surprise?
In addition to the main gift, you can order an Oscar figurine or a medal. It will turn out a comic, but at the same time very emotional and memorable surprise. On a medal or figurine, it is important to engrave “special” words, to thank your spouse.
Most women get tired of the last months of pregnancy (health worsens, little is happy about their own reflection in the mirror), childbirth is also a test. After birth, the crumbs can support the spouse and give her a certificate in the spa. Again, choose one that has at least six months of validity. Not every new mother can afford to leave her newborn for several hours.
A similar option is a certificate for a professional photo shoot. By the way, you can go to her whole family. Make sure that the certificate also includes the services of a professional makeup artist.
If a woman before birth was fond of fitness, then you can present an annual subscription. And at the same time, a certificate for a sportswear store. However, if before the birth the wife did not attend the gym or group programs, then such a gift may offend. A woman may well perceive it as your hint at the kilograms that have appeared or the figure that has blown away.
Instead of a fitness subscription, then it is better to present a subscription to the pool or yoga. In a word, to where mom can relax and improve.
Every mom knows how fast children grow. It is all the more valuable to save moments of growing up the baby. A family photo session can be supplemented by a visit to the master, who makes casts of the baby's arms and legs. This is a safe, painless and time-saving procedure, so you can come to the master from the first weeks of the crumbs. And after discharge, present the spouse with a certificate for his visit.
Original gifts include a rocking chair. At first glance, it does not fit mom at all. However, a woman will be able to rest and relax, swinging in a chair. At the same time, you can rock the baby, he will fall asleep faster.
Finding and hiring an au pair is another unusual but useful “gift”. A newly minted mother in the first months of a baby’s life is often difficult. Caring for the home and the newborn, fatigue and the need to restore your own body - it is very important to maintain and help the woman during this period. If the spouse cannot take over part of household chores, the best option is to hire an au pair.
A “long-playing” gift is a night lamp. The wife will have to get up at night with the child more than once. ANDamuse her from having to rummage through the wall in the dark in search of a switch, buy a beautiful night lamp. It will help you quickly navigate in the dark, and the dim light will not wake the child. If you purchase a high-quality model, then it will serve you for several years and will definitely come in handy when the child is older.
It is important not only to choose a spiritual gift, but also to present it correctly. Give your wife a surprise - make repairs (if necessary), tidy up at home. Decorate the whole room with balloons and flowers, hang a ribbon.
If relatives plan to visit your family on the day of discharge, take care of the guests. Order or cook food, arrange their meeting. After the holiday, when the guests leave, free your spouse from cleaning the table and washing dishes.
Having relatives and friends, do not rush to return to the "gray weekdays." Have a romantic evening for the two of you. Newborns, as a rule, sleep a lot, so you will have time for yourself. Do not forget about the obligatory attributes - a light dinner, candles, pleasant music.
Ideas of an unusual gift can be associated with a woman's old dreams. Each has a “list” of dreams, the implementation of which she always put off for various reasons. In gratitude for the birth of the heir or princess, one of the cherished wishes of the spouse can be embodied.
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