In every relationship, it is necessary to introduce new emotions and sensations so that the "light does not die out." Therefore, surprises need to be done. In this way, you will show your spouse that he is not indifferent to you and that you have not lost interest in him. What is there to bring him to remind him of his feelings?
What a surprise worth making?
It is difficult to call the same type of gifts from time to time presented for each holiday as surprises. Another thing is unusual gifts that you never gave.
Boring gifts include things such as: socks, bath accessories, office, key keeper.
But still, some ordinary presentations can be given a completely different look. You can identify his favorite thing and just modify it a little. If this is a knife, a flask, then you can make an engraving.
If your man collects something, then you can present him copy to replenish the collection. Also a great gift would be, if you learn something new that you have never done before. Your beloved will be incredibly happy with this turn of events. If you have never created culinary masterpieces, then you should do it. It can be anything: cake, meat, various desserts. Perhaps the spouse somehow showed you the recipe for some dish and said that he would try it. Or just choose a dish to your taste and experiment.
Learn a beautiful dance: if you have never danced with him, he will be surprised at such a surprise. You can choose any direction (Oriental, Latin or more frank dances). Your beloved will be fascinated by your body, grace, movements, the passion with which you dance. And she will surely be passed on to him.It will dissolve in you.
To get this surprise, it’s worth looking like dancing lessons. It will be even more interesting if you purchase the appropriate outfit.
A new phone will be a good present. - Maybe a little banal, but still a surprise.
Surely your man will not expect such an act from you. And if he had long dreamed of a new smartphone, but still could not buy it, then this is a great option to please his spouse. A smartphone should not only be acquired and handed over, but also originally packaged.
There are many ways to do this, but this article will describe a few. Of course, you can just pack it beautifully in holiday paper and tie it with a ribbon, but you can make it all the more interesting.
Take as many boxes of different sizes as possible and fold the phone according to the principle of "nested dolls". With each open box, interest will increase.
Take the packaging from the old push-button telephone and put the new smartphone there. Or put it in a box of chocolates and present him with such a present, and then call the new device. The husband will be very surprised when he hears music coming from there.
Romantic surprises for husband
- Video from your joint photos. To do this, you do not need certain skills. It will be necessary to pick up your favorite photos, make slides and substitute music. This option can easily be done at home and at no cost.
- DIY gift. It can be a frame for photos, an organizer for pens, a cup. Just take the item that he often uses and perfect it using fantasy and creative skills. Or buy a “clean” blank (there are a lot of them in handicraft stores now) and decorate it beautifully.
- Invite your spouse to play "Mr." Let him be your master one day, and you his faithful slave. And all day he will lead you. Strong sex likes this. Just see that such a “game" does not become a habit.
- Your song. If your husband listens to the radio when he goes to work or does daily business, then you should order a song there that is meaningful to both of you. Nowadays, “order tables” are very popular on many radio stations, when the DJ puts the ordered song and reads out an SMS message with nice words. A great way to confess your love and surprise your spouse!
- "Evening of passion." Prepare a suitable environment, put on revealing underwear. And act: in this form you can meet him right at the doorstep.
- A sudden date. For example, send him to a grocery store or somewhere else, and while he is walking around, suddenly come there and hand him two tickets to the cinema or theater. He will be very pleased with that.
- Have a party. Organize a party secretly from him and invite his friends. Do not cook a lot of dishes. The best option would be to buy fast food or just order food at home from a restaurant. He will be happy to spend some time with friends.
- Take a piece of paper and write down the qualities that you value in it, and for which you love it. A man is pleased to listen to praise.
- Wardrobe update. A wife, like no one else, knows the tastes of her beloved husband. Get him a new T-shirt, underwear, jeans - these are the items of clothing that no man will surely refuse, since they are universal. And they are never superfluous.
- Love letter. Take a small piece of paper and write there gentle words or the fact that it will "lead". And put this little note where he finds it for sure.
- Outdoor dinner. When the stars appear in the sky, take your husband and go on a picnic. You can also leave the countryside and rent a cottage for the weekend. Or visit the restaurant with an outdoor terrace. This option is suitable only for summer time.
- Wish card. Invite your spouse to create a common “family” wish card.Imagine: what would you like to do in the future? Find the appropriate pictures in the magazines, work together to cut them and paste them on the paper. Even if your husband is a skeptic, he will not refuse such a joint pastime. And when the desires begin to come true - he will be surprised and intrigued.
- A little trip. Remember where you always wanted to go, but did not have enough time. Go there and go: buy tickets, book a room. And enjoy each other’s company.
- Joint bath. Everyone gets tired after a hard day. A warm bath with fragrant foam will help your loved one to relax; and if you go there together, you will not only rest, but also get enough of each other.
- Fishing trip. If your husband is fond of her, invite him to go together. Maybe you will like it too, and from now on fishing will become your favorite family pastime. But if your favorite is against, then do not impose. Also, do not bother him while fishing.
- Relaxing massage. Men love being touched. They melt from your gentle touch. Start from the head with shoulders and gradually lower yourself. You can carefully, in a whisper, ask him where he wants your hands to be. And the continuation of the massage will not keep you waiting long.
- If your spouse takes home food to work, prepare him an unusual lunch. On the lid of the container you can put a love note.
- Flirt. Your spouse will love it when you start flirting with him. This will remind him of the times of your first dates and cheer up.
- Messages If there is a distance between you, then you should use this method. You can throw him your beautiful photo with a signature or a romantic message.
- New emotions. Go to the store "for adults" and get yourself something interesting. Lean on husband’s fantasies. Such a surprise will surely surprise him.
Things that should not be presented to your spouse
From his beloved man will accept any surprise, but some he may not understand. Therefore, it is worth approaching the gift with all seriousness and carefully considering it.
What ideas can definitely not be embodied as a gift to your man.
- Books on psychology and for motivation (a hint of some internal problems).
- Gym membership, sports paraphernalia (poor physical condition). An exception is a man who is fond of sports and healthy lifestyle.
- Toys antistress (unstable in psychological terms, too nervous).
- Various tools (does nothing around the house).
- A large number of love notes (impose, do not give personal space).
There can be many surprises. Details will be found in the next video.