If you were invited to a birthday, you need to try to make the hero of the occasion happy. Be prepared for the fact that if the birthday boy is only 5-6 years old, he will not even think about hiding his disappointment, if it comes to that. This complicates the task of choosing a good gift, but if you have imagination and minimal initial knowledge, the task will not seem so difficult.
What to consider when choosing?
From about the age of five, parents gradually begin to prepare their children for school, so they are increasingly paying attention to various toys and games with developing subtext. A guest at his birthday can and should even help them. It should be borne in mind that At this point, the baby already has certain hobbies, and although you may be interested in the birthday boy with something new, where the probability of hitting the target will be much higher if you decide to donate something to which interest has already been shown repeatedly.
For instance, Board games are considered a good gift at this age: they involve the whole family in the process. Another great option is various goods for active pastime, unless the baby is one of those rare children who are completely calm and don’t really like movement.
Finally, ordinary toys remain an eternal value, just remember that at this age, sexual interests are already very different, so we give boys strictly boyish, and girls - girls, without any dubious options.
Given all the above criteria, it would also be nice to know what other guests plan to give.It is desirable that the gifts not only were not repeated, but also were diverse, because only board games, albeit interesting ones, would certainly raise the question of where are the toys, and the toys themselves will not provide any intellectual or physical development.
There is also a so-called stop list of gifts - those things that would be a mistake to give. Here we attribute the following options:
- clothes and shoes - too everyday for the holiday, unless you present a gorgeous dress to a real little princess who is crazy about them;
- simplified imitations - no beach balls if a football was promised (or ordered);
- hygiene items - except for special cosmetics for a girl who likes to spend hours spinning in front of a mirror;
- school supplies - this will not even please the child at school, but now it is simply too early to give it;
- what you wanted yourself in childhood - Do not put others in their place, everyone has his own interests, especially since times have changed a lot.
Useful gifts
You can guess to give a toy without this article, so right away we will move on to things that are both interesting and useful. If you want your child to mentally develop, perfect logic and abstract thinking, develop perseverance and patience - give developing gifts, especially since they can be for every taste and budget.
A prime example is all kinds of puzzles, mosaics and designers for every taste. The best choice is that today the variety of assortment allows you to fully meet the tastes of the child - the plot may include knights or princesses, heroes of favorite fairy tales, animals, equipment, in short, everything that can interest a six-year-old child. True, it is better to make sure in advance that the child is in principle interested in such a concept of pastime.
We have already talked about board games - they are good in that they allow the family to get together, develop communication skills and even just learn to lose with dignity.
Depending on the rules of the game, the developmental effect may be different - even primitive “walkers” help to speed up the count in the mind, and even more complex patterns sometimes even teach you to set goals and come up with strategies for achieving them.
Among the toys, we distinguish sets that mimic the activities of an adult profession - the same doctor or mechanic, magician or hairdresser. Thanks to this, the child not only develops imagination, but also begins to understand how society interacts and how money is made. In the future, this will help him understand what he would like to do in life, and the medical kit is also good because it dispels fear of doctors.
The book does not yet provide the maximum developmental effect, but now you need to start accustoming the kid to literature. He probably hasn’t been able to read yet, so his parents will have to read the text, but if the publication has bright pictures, the child will also like it. Having become interested, the birthday boy will be much more willing to try to learn to read.
One tablet could replace all the gifts described above, but you should be careful with such a gift. The gadget allows different uses, but not all of them are useful, and some are even blatantly harmful. Since at this age the baby definitely does not have a sense of proportion, parental restrictions on the use of a gift can cause resentment.
Presentations for creative children
Creativity in itself has many positive aspects - it increases the same perseverance, develops imagination and even just improves mood and helps maintain self-esteem at the proper level. In the future, such a children's hobby can develop to the level of professionalism, and then a grown-up child can become very rich and famous, so the question is whether this gift would be more useful than the general developing gifts from the previous section.
At 5 years old, the average child is still open to any kind of art - he has a lot of free time, and adults usually only contribute to an active search for themselves. Some children already even have certain preferences in terms of the type of creativity, but in general, at 5-6 years old they still donate not professional, but children's goods. Potential artist You can give albums, paints and brushes, the same easel. Musician You may be interested in a children's guitar or a simple synthesizer with a built-in tutorial. If interest does not disappear, in the future you can think about taking the hobby to a new level.
Of course, you can not approach the task so literally, but give a simple plasticine, because modeling is also creativity. Various kits for origami or weaving can also find feedback in the baby shower.
What to choose for active children?
Adults maintain their shape in order to be healthy and look good, but children do it without any additional incentive - they just like this way of life. In fact, this is not only a pleasant, but also a very useful way to spend time, After all, health is really strengthened, and coordination of movements is also being perfected.
One of the most predictable gifts for a child is, of course, a bicycle. Many children already at this age dream of such a gift, so it's time to make the dream come true, because a sense of balance in life will not hurt, and this transport can be used at any age. Other vehicles can also be a good solution - scooter, rollers or skate.
Keep in mind that the gift should be available for use immediately, therefore, if the holiday falls in the winter, it is more reasonable to give sleds or skates, as an option - ski.
Most types of balls will also fall in the yard. Most preferable for a boy soccer ball, as well as any other football products, such as set of uniforms of a favorite football player. Girls love football less, so either beautiful beach ball large size, or light volleyball. Do not rush with basketballs yet - they are too heavy for a preschooler and even able to knock him down.
Many parents today consider it necessary to organize a small playground right at home, if the neighbors do not mind. Homes can be installed and swedish wall with primitive horizontal bars like rudders, and a swing, and a trampoline for jumping. In the presence of a suburban area, you can take the entire playground out onto the street - so the child will breathe fresh air on a walk, not competing with other children for his favorite swing, and always staying under supervision.
Some outdoor games or equipment for them may also be useful - speech, for example, about badminton or even a twister. The latter, contrary to the opinion of his extremely entertaining nature, trains stretching very well.
Unusual ideas
All the ideas described above are pretty trivial - most of the parents must have scrolled all these options at least once in their heads. A child of 5-6 years old is hardly likely to pursue truly original options, but in some families the children have everything so broadly understood that you can run into the indifference of the birthday boy, even handing him something from which any other child would be fabulous happy.
Contrary to popular belief, interesting and cool gifts can be inexpensive. - you just need to turn on imagination and think about what could be interesting for a child. In fact, it is not always necessary to give material things - sometimes vivid emotions and the atmosphere of a real holiday are remembered much better than another machine.
Some parents emphasize the organization of the celebration - they hire special animators who entertain the birthday man and his friends, conducting, so to speak, a matinee for the elite.
If the child, in principle, is not spoiled by various shows, you can try to come from this side. The kid loves animals, so you need to lead him to zoo, even if for this you have to go to another city. Theoretically, a good solution may be trip to the circus or water park. Sometimes a good solution is even a trip to a special children's cafe - in the end, they specifically try to make the children want to return there again and again, so the kid should like it.
When choosing an intangible gift, you need to understand that for the vast majority of children, birthday is associated with gifts in the form of beautiful boxes with something valuable. For this reason, an intangible present is good when there are also material ones and there are enough of them, otherwise it’s not a fact that the hero of the occasion will appreciate what is happening at his true worth - he does not understand the full significance of money, for him even a large amount spent on a holiday is nothing if the result cannot be held in hands.
A rather unusual gift for a child of this age is a pet. Such a present is presented not so often, if only because it requires some care and good treatment, and the new owner himself is not always able to provide all this for a living creature, and then the concerns fall on the shoulders of the parents. The child himself, most likely, will be happy with the cute animal, but adults may not appreciate such a gift. However, if the baby has asked for a long time, and he has a certain responsibility (at least with regard to the same toys), you can, having received the approval of the parents, and give such a gift. He is good at raising responsibility for others and a sense of duty.
A dog or a cat is the most common version of a live gift, but it’s not a fact that it’s for a birthday, because such a pet often becomes a full member of the family and is equally important for everyone. The advantage of this choice will be that the animal will become a friend for the child for many years. However, often give smaller animals - rabbits and guinea pigs, hamsters and rats, if there is a corresponding hobby - an aquarium with fish.
There is another option with parrots and other birdies, but they are usually quite noisy and can interfere with the normal sleep of the child, so it’s worth considering whether there is a separate place for them in the apartment.
What can you do yourself?
Do-it-yourself souvenirs are usually made, at 5 years old the birthday boy is not yet able to fully appreciate it, but after 10-15 years, such creativity can touch the grown-up child to the core. As with tangible gifts, such a solution is just addition to the main presentations, it should not completely replace them, otherwise the hero of the occasion will simply not understand you.
The simplest solution is creation of a photo collage in the form of a wall newspaper - it can be performed both by the ancient method of application, and using modern computers.
If you have the normal equipment and video processing skills, you can even go further and mount a short film about the life of the hero of the occasion - in the future these shots will become unique and invaluable.
Clothes and shoes are usually included in the stop list of gifts for babies, but you can make such a gift unique. To do this, you need to find out what the child is interested in and just put the image of your favorite character on a gift - today such a service is available in any city. True, you should first make sure that you are not deprived of taste, and the gift will not provoke other children to jokes and caustic comments about the carrier of the donated things.
In some cases, you can do even DIY crafts, but be prepared that the child will be more interested in toys.
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