How to apologize to a girl who is very offended?

The psychology of the stronger sex is significantly different from the psychology of the fair sex. Therefore, it is not so easy for them to identify common ground. If two people became very close, it means they caught "luck by the tail." But until this happens, conflicts are possible. Then it is necessary to seek compromises and be always on the alert if you do not want to lose your beloved.

First of all, it is necessary to remember that in most cases it is not worth immediately taking responsibility for the conflict. Do not do this, because in life there must always be a presumption of innocence. Otherwise, you will begin to scourge yourself right and left for what you did not commit. So do not turn into a scapegoat for long.

However, one must also be able to admit one’s mistakes if there are good reasons and evidence for this. First of all, you need to apologize when you feel guilty about yourself. This intuition cannot be confused with anything. And each person in the depths of his consciousness should always remember that without admitting mistakes he will not be able to adequately apologize. It is worth considering the problem when the following happened.

• You offended a girl in a drunken stupor. There was a situation at the party when you decided that your girlfriend was wrong to you. Because of this, your mood worsened, and then you lost control of yourself.

They said "a bunch of nasty things" and maybe even allowed the assault. Now she doesn’t want to see you anymore. It must be said right away that this is a difficult case.

• Because of his incontinence insulted the girl literally "out of the blue" with everyone on the street.From this humiliation she left all in tears, and now her phone is not available to you.
• Treason - This is the most “unforgivable” case. To resolve this conflict, you will have to work very hard. And you must be prepared for this. It is possible that all the forces will be wasted, but you should not despair, because forgiveness can still be achieved.
• Inattentive attitude, which is repeated too often, can lead to resentment and breakdown. If you are not used to taking care of other people, then you should learn this. Otherwise, the negative experience will be repeated again and again.
• Jealousy for no reason is one of the main problems in relationships. From jealousy, you become unbearable for a girl and for people around. You should fight against such manifestations of character.
• Tediousness and selfishness can infuriate any person, and especially your girlfriend. Try to avoid such manifestations.
• Stinginess and restraint in any situation is also unacceptable if you are in a closer relationship.

It is clear that a real man should apologize to a girl when he offended her very much. There are many ways to do this. The main thing is that your apology is not intrusive and does not cause new bouts of resentment.

Remember that girls are in most cases creatures impressionable and tender. Therefore, do not use unacceptable methods for rapprochement. For example, if she does not want to put up, then she cannot shout and threaten her.

If you behave aggressively and try to take forgiveness by force, you will not succeed. Use some tips, “tailoring” them to your individual case.

• The easiest and fastest way is find the right words: speak with your own phrases, and also sincerely repent and obey. To do this, try to play the reconciliation situation in advance and do not forget to prepare a text that is better to memorize.

• In writing communicate more reliably. Therefore, write on a piece of paper all that you wanted to say at the meeting. Do not be afraid of candid phrases. When everything is ready, try to re-read the entire text and check the correctness of phrases.

It also happens that in a fit of feelings a person thinks one thing, and writes a completely different and with a different meaning. It is better to play it safe here. The letter can be sent along with the courier, having previously ordered a huge bouquet of roses (or those flowers that your girl loves). Put a note in the flowers.

• In modern society it is accepted communicate on social networks. Therefore, you can ask for forgiveness in private messages. To do this, write the most sincere apologies. But first, identify the problem and admit your mistake.

Only here it is worth thinking carefully before choosing this method. If you have a trivial conflict, then an apology by sending a message may work. However, if you behaved extremely ugly, then think about other ways. It is possible that the girl, after you reacted to such a problem very superficially and did not deign to make an effort, will simply block you.

• Surprise may also work, or maybe not. It all depends on the nature of the girl herself and the nature of the quarrel. With a very strong conflict, you can get a "reverse effect." Therefore, if you decide to return your beloved with a surprise, then try to come up with something “good” and extraordinary. Otherwise, she may take your step as a mockery.
• Good way apologize in verse and in the presence of friends and family.So you can “kill two birds with one stone”: rehabilitate yourself in front of the girl herself and rehabilitate herself in front of people around.

Remember that you are not the first and you are not the last to fall into such an unpleasant situation when a girl refuses to communicate due to her insult. This situation may become irreversible. You need to take action. Try the following information and put it into practice. Just consider all the nuances, such as the individual perception of the world that is inherent only to your girlfriend.

• Not bad if you offer your companion Spend time traveling together. It doesn't matter how much the ticket will cost and where you will go. The main thing is that you can remain alone and finally "darn" the formed hole in your relationship.
• Give an expensive gift. Here everything will depend on your well-being and on the needs of the girl. Try to keep things desirable. Maybe your sweetheart has long dreamed of something or really wanted to buy some thing. Try to fulfill her dream or desire. Then perhaps her heart will “melt”.
• Write under the window in huge letters, the word "sorry" (can be laid out in flowers). Be sure to include the name of your offended person. Let everyone around you see this inscription. Girls love to be in the spotlight. She will be pleased to see how much you value your relationship.
• Concert tickets Her favorite artist will also make your object of adoration the happiest in the world. It is advisable to arrange everything so that it was a surprise for her.
• Spa treatments in full not only will be a pleasant gift, but also will improve your mood. After the girl undergoes a cosmetic course, she will feel as if “updated” from all sides and will be ready to forgive you.
• Give a hurt girlfriend nice outfit. To do this, you should invite her to the best women's store and choose an evening dress with her (or whatever she herself wants). From such actions, she will increase self-esteem.
• If your passion loves animals, then give her a dog or cat of elite breeds. She will thaw out of her kindness and appreciate your present. You yourself will be pleased to see how the mood of a resentful girlfriend changes.

If you yourself are very worried that you offended your chosen one, the first thing you need to realize is that you were wrong. And then the following tips will help.

• To begin reconciliation, no need to tag along behind the object of his adoration. It is enough to determine the time and venue.
• If you decide to ask for forgiveness, it is best to meet and talk about eye to eye problem. You need to find out what exactly caused such a resentment in your girlfriend. This must be done in order not to do what you did subsequently.
• When clarifying the relationship on the part of the young lady, reproaches and accusations may “spill over”. Listen to them silently. Give a talk to an offended personand then his rage will subside.
• Speak all your words in a calm voice and try not to create conflict situations. Remember that you made a mistake, so try to behave appropriately.
• Sincerity should be manifested in all your words and actions. Otherwise, nothing will work. The girl just won’t believe you.
• Once you have been forgiven, try not to be too intrusive. Hold a pause in the relationship. In the same time take care and attention. Skillfully “balance” between these two concepts.
• Try to do not make harsh remarks about the young lady, if not much time has passed since the reconciliation. If you violate certain boundaries, then the girl may think that you are not aware and are not going to be aware of your mistake, and indecent behavior is a constant part of your character.
• remember, that when you are in a bad mood, it’s better not to do anything. Especially taking steps to reconcile the parties. In this situation, you will only aggravate your difficult situation.
• Despite the fact that in the world it’s now accepted to actively communicate in social networks, Try not to put up through messengers. This method is very doubtful in order to fully express your feelings. Your message can be beneficial if you haven’t really gotten too much smoke.
• Do not connect friends and girlfriends to your problem. From such help can only be worse. Even if your loved ones want to sincerely help you, the girl may not appreciate such an impulse and will think that you are a coward and are not able to make decisions and realize mistakes.
• In another embodiment, it could be even worse. It is possible that among friends or friends there is such a person who will only be happy with your quarrel. Assistance from this “assistant” you will not wait, but harm, it is possible, it will cause significant.
• Worry and panic is also not worth it. If you have always had strong relations since your meeting, then they have not gone away. Just resentment does not allow the young lady to remember all the warmth of your connection. It is necessary that it cools down a bit after a quarrel. Perhaps the partner herself will want to get closer to you again.
• Do not blame the girl after reconciliation in the fact that you still found the strength to ask for forgiveness. Firstly, it was your and only your decision, and secondly, she did not ask you to put up with her.