The ring for the marriage proposal is the most significant decoration in the life of every woman. It is a symbol of love, devotion and fidelity. It confirms the seriousness of the man’s intentions, makes the engagement day a memorable and happy event. The answer of his chosen one may depend on how seriously a man approaches the choice of a gift for his lover.
The meaning of the engagement ring
An engagement ring is called an engagement ring. The custom of giving engagement jewelry has an interesting story. Previously, the engagement was of a completely different nature: the parents of the bride and groom agreed on it, discussing the dowry and other issues relating to the mutual benefit of the union.
Initially, the tradition of giving a ring originates in ancient Rome. Then this jewelry was presented as a gift to the bride's parents. The accessory was made of iron, symbolizing the viability of the groom. To break the engagement was unacceptable, this implied a significant payment of compensation to the injured family and the return of money already invested in the wedding.
This custom is also known in Europe. At one time, the Austrian Duke Maximilian presented a ring with a large diamond to the daughter of the King of France - Maria of Burgundy. Thus, he decided to prevent the rejection of the wedding. Since then, the custom has spread around the world, having a special meaning: they give a ring when they make an offer to their beloved. Accepting or not accepting the gift, the girl gives an answer to the marriage proposal.
In Russia, there was a rite of "conspiracy", no less significant than the wedding. One of the invariable traditions of conspiracy was the giving of a special gift - on this day the groom gave the bride a ring with a stone. Later, the rite was combined with a wedding, and then a wedding.
Today, the engagement speaks of the seriousness of the intentions of the man himself. This grandiose event is of great importance in the lives of both lovers: it is romantic and reverent. This is another reason to tell each other about our feelings. The ring is put on the ring finger of the right hand.
On the wedding day, the engagement ring is removed, replacing it with a wedding ring.
How to choose the right one?
Usually, a man approaches the choice of a significant gift for a loved one thoroughly. Such a ring is bought without the participation of a lover, as it is planned to make her a pleasant surprise.
To make it perfect, when buying jewelry you need to consider several nuances:
- gift value (depending on the groom's abilities);
- the choice of metal (it is important to choose a jewelry, given the taste preferences of the bride);
- choice of stone (it is advisable to choose a noble crystal);
- the beauty of the design (the product should look luxurious);
- the shape of the decoration (round and thin, which subsequently will go well with the wedding ring);
- purchase in a trusted jewelry store (with certificates and guarantees);
- absence of visible defects and defects (decoration should be performed flawlessly, without chips, scratches);
- the size of the jewelry (you need to choose it according to the size of your finger: it’s easier to pick up a thin ring, the wide one should not fit tightly on the finger);
- age of the chosen one (massive rings with a large crystal are contraindicated for young natures, while thin rings with a small stone will be just right).
In addition, the choice of ring should take into account the style of the chosen one's clothes: this way it will be a relevant decoration in any way.
Cost
Different countries have their own ideas about the value of such a gift. In Europe, such jewelry is quite expensive: it can cost one or two monthly salaries of the groom. A lot depends on financial capabilities: if they allow, you can not only buy an expensive finished ring in a jewelry store, but also make it to order.
However, you can approach the choice of rings and it is reasonable, because preparations for the wedding are ahead. You can buy a ring worth up to half the income per month. Impeccable surprise implies the sincerity and care of a man.
Engagement Ring Materials
The gift must be made of precious metal: gold 585, 750, 958, silver or platinum. This accessory is special, it is given great importance. Therefore, it is better to choose an expensive piece of jewelry: it will charm a chosen one with its own look.
A model made of noble metal can remain a woman’s favorite accessory after the wedding, since such a metal is durable, does not oxidize, and retains a presentable appearance for a long time. Such a ring can be worn along with other jewelry for decades.
An accessory made of silver can also become a symbolic gift. And if the groom's financial capabilities allow, then from platinum.
Metal color
Choosing a product from gold, it is worth deciding on the color of the metal. It depends on the amount of gold in the composition. The rest is ligature (copper, zinc, palladium, silver). Depending on the impurities, its shade may be different: red, yellow, white and pink.
The most premium metal for decoration is white gold, it includes palladium, silver and platinum. In its characteristics, it looks like platinum, but it costs much less. The addition of platinum is its advantage: it adds strength to the metal.
Yellow gold is considered a classic, such jewelry will never go out of fashion. More often in jewelry boutiques there is just such a metal, with a minimum copper content. In jewelry, it is often combined with gold in a different shade.
Rose gold looks elegant and delicate. It is simply shown to romantic natures.
This shade emphasizes the femininity and sophistication of the beloved.
Red metal contains copper in a small amount. Red gold rings are no less popular than yellow gold accessories.
Today, thanks to innovative technologies, you can buy in stores gold metal even greenish and bluish. The ligature of green gold is nickel and potassium, blue - chrome, indium and cobalt. These metals are much more expensive than yellow gold.
Insert Selection
The engagement ring should look perfect. The choice of stone depends on the cost and preferences of the bride. Its shape can be very diverse (in the form of a heart, oval, rectangular, square, round, asymmetric).
A flawless insert is a diamond. Its shape is often round or in the form of a heart. Today it is customary to give products with small stones: they are more comfortable to wear and often look more beautiful than large crystals.
When buying a product with a diamond, you need to consider three characteristics: the purity of the stone, its faceting and weight. The most beautiful crystal is a diamond, which has a larger number of faces. It sparkles much brighter in the sun and has a more pronounced shine. A pure water diamond is invisible in a glass of water.
In addition to the diamond, models with a colored insert (zircon, emerald, topaz, pomegranate, turquoise) are relevant. In this case, it is necessary to take into account the energy of the stone and its compatibility with the beloved zodiac sign. A budget option is a ring with cubic zirconias.
But it is better to refuse a pearl insert: such an accessory promises the bride tears.
Popular views
In conditions of great competition, jewelry companies often create unique rings for offers. The fantasy of the masters knows no bounds: they can make even simple classics exclusive and stylish. Among the popular romantic gift models, rings with one or three stones, items of an unusual shape, options with large crystals, a halo, a split tire, styles with pave fastenings or combined jewelry are especially popular.
One of the classic models that are very popular is a diamond ring made of gold or platinum. Traditionally, men choose one stone. Two crystals symbolize a loving couple, a trio of minerals speaks of an eternity of relationship (the past, present and future of loving hearts). Jewelry with different stones is in fashion.
Incredibly elegant jewelry in a special style. For instance, Ring crown. So a man emphasizes a special, royal attitude to his beloved. Today, the design of such a model is amazing. Such a ring can be an exact copy of the royal crown of the historical era or resemble an elegant diadem, tiara. These jewelry can be paired if the couple wants to indicate their status. In addition, it can be a double crown, which is divided into two crowns (for the bride and groom).
One of the touching models is the Claddagh ring in the form of hands holding a crowned heart. His story is connected with a legend according to which the master’s student forged him, who was far from his beloved and connected his life with her, overcoming many obstacles. These rings are very popular and look unusual. The heart often consists of a sparkling stone, and the frame is made of gold.
Antique rings that are passed down from generation to generation are especially valued. Such an accessory is given great importance. Most often these are rings or models with a small stone located in the center of the product. If you want to give antique jewelry, you can purchase a vintage ring. Today, this style is very popular, despite the modern design approach.
Products with colored precious minerals in ethnic style are very popular, in which the traditions of different cultures are organically interwoven. It can be Celtic motifs or Jewish ornaments, models in the Art Deco style with a curly or lace design.Combined metal products of different colors are also in fashion.
Fashion brands
Today, the jewelry industry offers a fairly wide range of rings to offer. Beautiful jewelry can be traditional or unusual. It can be an expensive branded gift or jewelry at an affordable price.
Tiffany
The trademark is recognized as a classic in its segment. For about two centuries, she offers jewelry without unnecessary pathos, which are distinguished by elegance and a delicate taste. Tiffany is considered a premium brand, such rings are expensive, however, they look excellent, revealing the beauty of stone and cut.
Cartier
The brand is widely known outside of France: its products are sold in more than 20 countries. These engagement rings can rightfully be called royal: despite the fact that their design may look simple, the forms are distinguished by sophistication. These are expensive women's jewelry, they are made of expensive components and have engraving in a special font.
Sokolov
The Russian brand appeared not so long ago, but is known far beyond the borders of the country. The products of the domestic company are appreciated for quality materials and original design of jewelry. The brand’s advantage is the affordable price of jewelry, a sense of style and a unique design that allows you to choose a ring for women with different characters.
Pandora
Products from the Danish jewelry brand are luxurious and stylish. Their cost is more affordable. In addition to precious metals (gold, silver), engagement rings made from the special Pandora Rose alloy are always present in the brand's catalog. Each product is made using various technologies to create unusual compositions even in a classic style.
Walter
The Russian trademark, despite its youth, is gaining popularity in Russia. These rings have already managed to win the sympathy of the women of our country. In the work, different methods of cutting crystals are used, which allows you to create products with a beautiful and unusual design. In addition to classic crystals, the company uses colored stones of different sizes.
In addition, beautiful and refined models are produced by Harry Winston, Buccellati and Chopard. White gold items encrusted with diamonds look perfect and often become the choice of celebrity.
Ideas for suggestions
Since jewelry implies a pleasant surprise, it is advisable to show imagination so that the girl remembers a gift for life.
- Traditionally, you can order dinner in a good restaurant and hide the decoration in a glass or dessert.
- Replacing the stuffing “Kinder Surprise”, you can accidentally offer your favorite treat, filming the moment of discovery of the “find”.
- The ring can be put in a box of chocolates and presented as a gift to your beloved along with a bouquet of roses.
- It is better for a young bride to present a cute teddy bear by putting a ring on a chain around her neck.
- An original gift will be a bunch of balloons with surprises and wishes in each. It is important to ensure that the desired ball was opened last.
- Having presented a bouquet of roses, the ring can be tied together with a small card with words about your feelings.