How to find out if a wife is cheating?

An unfaithful wife is a headache for a husband. The whole family suffers from her betrayal. Divorce is inevitable in this case. Which man will tolerate infidelity? And if the representative of the stronger sex does not know for sure whether his girlfriend is faithful or not? How to determine that your spouse is cheating on you? There are some tricks for this.

The husband begins to think that his wife is cheating on him, and there are certain reasons for this. In the first case, the man is a pathological jealous. He comes up with cheating on his wife “out of the blue”. It seems to him that on every corner his lovers are waiting for his woman. There is nothing to be done about it, since this trait is a psychology of behavior of some representatives of the stronger sex, which is laid down throughout the time while a person is growing up.

In the second case, the causes of suspicion also arise out of nowhere. This happens when the couple have been married for a very long time and have a very respectable age. An elderly husband suspects his wife of constant betrayal. It would seem that this is an absurd story. But there is nothing comical here. Just a husband and wife have lived together all their lives, and now each of them is afraid of losing their “prosperous world”.

Over the years, people get used to each other and become one. Therefore, they fear that one of them might leave. And with it the peace that is so necessary in old age will go away. Representatives of the stronger sex are more impulsive, and for this reason they begin to fuss and come up with an imaginary betrayal of his wife. Hence the various obsessive states that successfully combine with speculation and fantasy.

In the third case, the husband’s distrust has very real ground and can be understood.This happens when the wife begins to behave not quite adequately. The behavior changes dramatically, and relatives do not recognize her. It is possible that the woman met a new love, and she was worried about completely different problems than the problems of the family.

Therefore, you must first identify the cause of the problem, and then solve it together. It is better to do this quickly and in a timely manner than to then rake up the accumulated difficulties in the relationship. In fact, there are many different premises that provoke one of the family members to distrust. Let's consider them in more detail.

• In the case when a man himself often cheats on his woman, he becomes suspicious. It seems to him that everyone around behaves in the same way as he does: at every opportunity, they change their soul mate. Here you must first understand yourself, and only then sin on others.
• Another situation that may well become a cause of suspicion of the wife’s infidelity. The wife carefully monitors her appearance and is the standard of female beauty. How not to be jealous? In this situation, it is simply impossible.
• Not far from the aforementioned reason, such a thing also went away when the husband has huge complexes. He constantly feels his inferiority in front of his wife, and therefore his condition becomes intrusive. Both himself and his wife suffer from this.
• It also happens that a woman herself is to blame for the fact that her husband constantly suspects her of treason. Previously, there have already been cases when a husband forced his chosen one to flirt with other members of the stronger sex. Now it seems to him that his wife, as before, continues to behave uninhibitedly with all men, and from this his guesses intensify.

• Unmarried friends of a wife can also provoke distrust on the part of the spouse. If a close friend often changes partners, then the husband begins to involuntarily think that his woman is able to behave the same. Marriage ties cannot stop those who are capable of betrayal.
• Emancipated married women are almost always in the zone of various speculations from the second half. The fact is that they often have to contact with various people, among them there are business partners. Frequent spending time together with colleagues may seem like a suspicious fact. This will cause disagreements.
• Frequent separation, when the husband is on regular business trips, can cause some doubts. Who knows what and with whom the wife is engaged in the absence of a spouse on the marriage bed? Until he is convinced that the other half is loyal to him, a jealous man will unknowingly speculate that his wife is deceiving him.
• The big age difference is fertile ground for the development of prejudice. An adult man, marrying a young lady, will always feel his some inferiority. It lies in the mismatch of physiological data. A withering organism and a young organism are significantly different from each other.

After the above, it must be added that there can be many reasons, and men should not fall into a panic mood. The behavior of both its members depends on a healthy climate of family relationships. You should always try to adjust your thoughts and guesses to positive. It is worth letting go of the situation and stop thinking about the fact that you can undergo treason. And if you continue to persist and want to know the truth about your soulmate, then read on the following information.

It is necessary to make a reservation that women usually do not commit adultery if they have no good reason for it. And this fact must be taken in the first place. Nympho-women and women of easy virtue are not considered here. In this case, we will talk about decent married ladies.

If a decent wife cheated, then she had her own reasons for it. Before you bring charges, analyze your behavior and relationships in your family. Perhaps the root of evil lies in you?

In any case, the situation with the wife’s infidelity should not be left to chance and wait for the thunder to break out. But in order to take action, you must first identify the fact of adultery, and then eradicate its causes and consequences. So, did you feel something was wrong and suspected betrayal? How to recognize by the behavior of the wife that she is cheating on you? To do this, read the following information.

• If you saw that the spouse began to carefully preen before each exit "in people", you should be a little wary. It’s impossible to say with accuracy on this basis that your wife is not faithful, because women are unpredictable people. Maybe, on the contrary, she’s jealous of you and decided that with a change in appearance she will become more desirable. Therefore, there is no need to panic, but you just need to be vigilant.
• More significant signs are when the wife sharply limited her diverse communication with you. She no longer tells you what is happening at her work, how she feels in a team. The invisible connection that unites close people has disappeared between you, and you feel it well.
• You can also determine the spouse's infidelity by looking. When you begin to ask leading questions, she will not look you in the eye, but will hide them like a delinquent child.
• Take a closer look at how a wife behaves when she lingers after work. Clear signs will be there. A woman will fuss, cheat and try to get away from questioning.
• Indifference to everything that happens in your family is another sign of betrayal. A woman has long made her choice, and everything that was connected with you is no longer of interest to her.
• Frequent mood swings indicate that your chosen one is tormented by conscience, and maybe she is thinking over a scheme for your early separation. Serious behavior and the puzzled look of your wife urge you to think about the problem.
• Has your woman become interested in beautiful underwear? So she has someone to show it to. Be sure to pay attention to this.
• The spouse's eyes shine, and she looks “happy” out of the blue. Of course, this still does not mean anything, but raises remarkable suspicions.

Consider more explicit behavioral signs when you need to sound the alarm. As soon as the wrong half begins to meet with her lover, she unwittingly compares the current husband and the new chosen one. Of course, while there is a candy-bouquet period, the lover will be in a priority position. In the new favorite, a woman will be delighted with all the details of his appearance: from the cologne to the figure and clothes.

At the same time, everything that is connected with her long-tired husband, that is, with you, begins to annoy her. The spouse will make comments to you about and without reason. Identify all the flaws. What does this mean? And that means you annoy her. True, she is still trying to carefully hide it, hiding behind the fact that she simply leads to an impeccable lifestyle and accustoms you to order.

Now each member of modern society has his own personal phone. Gadgets have firmly entered our lives, and now they are a reflection of personal space. Everything that happens around us is involuntarily reflected in the phone.

It happens the other way around: the wife is more attentive to all family members, buys gifts for her husband. Flirts with and without cause. Becomes emphasized attentive and caring. In addition, the spouse begins to get involved in culinary delights: to cook deliciously and decorate all the dishes, as if going to serve them at a banquet. And most importantly: she had never done this before. This suggests that the wife is trying to make amends for you.

Also, a woman becomes demanding of herself and all household members. This happens against the background of the fact that the representative of the weaker sex feels very necessary and loved by someone. And close people - her husband and children - are slightly annoyed by the fact that, as it seems to her, they do not appreciate her.

For the same reason, the representative of the weaker sex becomes confident. He expresses bold thoughts and is not afraid to humiliate and offend everyone. Demonstrates its superiority, as if in adolescence.

Physiological signs can also say a lot about your wife having a loved one. The fact is that in a woman at the time of a strong attraction, the hormonal background changes slightly, so her characteristic features are transformed and become provocative. The once modest lady in her eyes turns into a vulgar person. She attracts attention with loud phrases and special movements.

And it does not matter that at the moment there is not the person who so inspires her. Just a representative of the weaker sex all the time feels a connection with him, and it seems to her that he is invisibly watching his lady of the heart. Therefore, she creates a "theatrical performance."

It is difficult to identify cheating in physiology, but some characteristic features will tell you in which direction to move. For example, from the spots of reddish color that go through the body of the spouse, you can determine whether she recently had a relationship with another man or not.

And one more obvious sign is your sex life. If you began to notice a strong cooling in this regard, then it is worth thinking deeply about the issue of your wife's loyalty. On the side, she has a vibrant and vibrant life, and for family life she does not have either the strength or the time. It is possible that she will soon completely abandon intimacy with you and will blame only you on this.

And yet, it must be added: if a woman is smart and inventive, then she will never give obvious signs talking about her betrayal. If you do not notice anything, it means that you do not need to notice anything and specifically look for suspicious signs in behavior. You are happy - and this is important, and if the wife decides to leave you, then she will do it anyway.

One of the men will decide that the wife’s infidelity is not a reason for divorce. This is his right, and it is not subject to conviction. In this case, it is necessary to make sure that the wife’s meeting with her lover stops once and for all. For this, such receptions as talking frankly, identifying diverse family problems and so on are suitable. Only in no case use force. Otherwise, you will not achieve what you wanted, but only harm yourself. Violence will lead to the inevitable disintegration of the family.

Some will want to leave their unfaithful wife and demand a divorce - this is a wise decision due to the fact that in marriage, first of all, you need to trust each other. And if one of the partners showed his dishonesty, then such a relationship should be stopped.

But in order to make certain decisions, you need to know for sure whether there was a betrayal or not.So, if you independently determined the signs of infidelity, then now you need to go to the next stage: to convict the unfaithful wife. To do this, you will need some advice.

• To be sure that your wife cheated on you, try to observe her behavior for a while. It will take a little bit - just a week, during which you must be extremely careful not to lose sight of even the most insignificant details. This must be done in order to once again verify the correctness of your suspicions.
• Take the spouse's phone unnoticed. There will definitely be information that can confirm the act of infidelity. The slightest clue will give rise to further verification.
• If the wife "closed" her page in social networks with a password, then this once again suggests that she has something to hide. Try using modern technology to hack your account.

• To make sure that your wife is cheating, you can with the help of a quiet conversation in private. Ask direct questions regarding your wife’s loyalty. Like no one else you know the most subtle features of her character and therefore immediately determine whether your spouse is lying to you or not.
• You can recognize the wife's treachery with a simple snoop. You can do it yourself, or you can hire a specialist. He will present you evidence in the form of photographs and give an accurate report in all details.
• Do you have suspicions that your wife is cheating on you at home in your bed while you are on a business trip? Then install the hidden camera in some hidden corner. As soon as you see the recordings from electronic media, everything will immediately become clear to you. In addition, such evidence may be needed if you need to provide evidence of treason in court.
• Wife - a very busy person and used to communicate with business partners? Do you suspect one of them that he is your wife’s lover? Then, with the help of a specialist, open a woman’s business correspondence. There you will find what you were looking for. If the fears were in vain, you will not lose anything, but only find peace of mind.
• A DNA test will also help you find out the truth about your wife. True, this is a very expensive event, but if you are burning with the desire to prove the guilt of your spouse, then act. To do this, you need to contact the laboratory, where experienced staff will tell you how and what to do in order to collect the biomaterial.
• Neighbors and acquaintances can also tell you that they saw your wife in the company of an unknown man. Only here it is necessary to take into account the fact that people do not particularly make contact when it comes to family secrets. Be careful in this case. Do not immediately lay out the subject of your discussion, but act wisely. It will be enough to start a conversation with a neutral topic, and then quietly go to the questions that interest you. Just ask them in a relaxed manner and without pressure. It is possible that your acquaintance will not say anything directly to you, but he will certainly hint at the information that he keeps for a long time “with himself”.

• Offer your wife a joint vacation. If she has a regular partner, then your call will not interest her. Subsequent annoyance and dissatisfaction will indicate that your spouse is clearly not passionate about your joint pastime. And separation from her lover is an unacceptable test for her.
• And one more important moment.If you have small children in your family, then you can reveal your wife’s infidelity with the help of “baby talk”. A woman is sure that the child does not understand anything in the relationship of adults. Therefore, she may allow options for meetings where your joint child will be present. For example, in situations where a new partner takes your unfaithful wife home after she takes her child from the kindergarten. During the trip, a young child is in the car. He is interested in knowing everything, and he is watching from the side what is happening.

When the fact of betrayal is proved, the man falls into a stupor or undergoes severe depression. This happens because the psychology of men is significantly different from the psychology of women.

• The husband perceives the wife’s infidelity as his personal and powerful insult. All this happens to him due to the fact that representatives of the stronger sex have a pronounced instinct for the hunter. Having lost his “booty”, a jealous man is furious because a stronger opponent was able to take away the most expensive.
• He feels the pain of loss. That which was expensive and that which he loved was trampled and scolded. From such experiences, the deceived husband feels an inferiority complex. And for men, this is a very strong test of strength.
• The representative of the stronger sex can not always make a specific decision due to the fact that in his soul two strong feelings begin to fight among themselves: hatred and love for the woman who betrayed.

Of course, in such cases, turning to a psychologist is the most correct way out of the situation. But what to do when there is neither a desire nor the strength to seek help from an outsider? The answer is obvious: read the following tips.

To determine and specify your further actions, you must first answer the question: are you ready to divorce your soulmate after her betrayal?

If you want to get a divorce, then do it immediately. If you start to drag out time, you will suffer even more. This problem will drag you into the abyss of your moods, and getting out of there will be difficult.

If you decide to stay in the family and forgive your wife, then you need to take a course of self-rehabilitation according to the following scheme.

• Stop thinking about what your wife cheated on you. Cross out this information from consciousness. You can’t do anything in half. Decided to continue the relationship - then do it.
• You are a man, and if you have made a decision about forgiveness, then goodbye. You must do this sincerely and not leave a grudge even in the most hidden corner of your consciousness.
• Do not think about what your friends and mutual acquaintances will say. Believe me, by and large, they do not care about your pain. Some of them are just having fun discussing the situation with treason. They like that your family has such difficulties. Some people sincerely rejoice when they learn about other people's failures. Therefore, try not to pay attention to poorly concealed judgmental glances and barbs. Avoid negativity and assault. There is nothing worse than death in life, and gossip will end sooner or later. Just cross out such “well-wishers” from your life and you will see that the problem will not bother you anymore.
• Do not drag children into this conflict situation. You will reconcile with your wife, and the new generation may receive psychological trauma for the rest of your life and become embittered with you.

For family relationships to work out, it’s not enough for you to simply forgive your wife. You need to consider the fact that your spouse feels guilty and suffers.Therefore, she is nervous and can make mistakes that will lead to scandals. Always remember that you are a man and must act more consciously. You can defuse the situation in the family during the recovery period with the help of such tips.

• Overwhelming memories of his wife's infidelity significantly spoil the mood. To get better, go fishing. There you will be distracted and gather your thoughts. Camping will help to take all the willpower into your fist, and you will feel a surge of strength.
• Go in for sports. This will distract you from negative thoughts and emotions, and also raise your self-esteem.
• If you hear behind your back the accusations of friends and former classmates that you are a weakling, then prove the opposite. Always and everywhere walk with your wife, taking her carefully by the hand. Gossip will subside, and envious will choke with anger.
• Arrange holiday gatherings with close relatives. They will always support you morally and will not blame you.
• Trips to nature significantly improve the situation in the family. Go camping together. Let all relatives participate in the collection of bags, equipment and provisions. Common activities bring people together.
• Carry out repairs in the apartment. This work will take you a lot of time and completely distract from the negative. Therefore, you will not be up to sad thoughts.
• Invite your wife to do some saving. Having typed the right amount, you spend it on the purchase of the necessary things. In the meantime, you will save money, you will be busy with a common cause, which means that your relationship will begin to recover.