The first year of marriage has passed, lapping and alignment of duties and roles in the family have occurred. Even the crisis of three years has passed. Errors of past years are taken into account. Once all this has been completed, this already says a lot. The fourth anniversary of life together is drawing near.
This, of course, is not an anniversary, but the family is young, and I want to celebrate the anniversary so that it is remembered.
I would also like to surprise my beloved husband on this wonderful day. The article is devoted to the topic of what gift to give her husband for the 4th anniversary of the wedding.
Traditions
Since ancient times, this anniversary - 4 years of marriage, has been popularly called a linen or wax wedding. Different sources indicate different names.
Flaxseed - because the union becomes strong and strong, like a linen thread, and the fate of the spouses is already closely woven together.
Wax - because the couple adopt different qualities from each other and, being soft wax, are woven into one candle with one fate.
Once upon a time, on the anniversary of this wedding, my wife wove linen from linen and decorated it with her own embroidery. This served as a charm for the happiness of the family. By the holiday, on which relatives and friends came, she sewed a linen shirt to her husband and a dress for herself, which she also decorated with embroidery. During the celebration, the couple was tied with linen thread, which was then wound into a ball and stored as a family amulet.
According to other traditions, candles were lit, two were made of one, which was also stored as a symbol of the fortress of the family.
Today it is very fashionable to reproduce the traditions of our ancestors. Of course, manual looms are probably preserved only in museums, but an original gift can be made.
Embroidered shirts and dresses are sold in national costume stores. If the celebration falls on the warm season, then this anniversary can be very stylishly celebrated. Make a wreath of flowers, decorate the house with herbs, field bouquets, buy linen clothes and recreate the atmosphere of celebrating this date, as in the old days. Light scented candles, ask friends and relatives to support your idea and come to the celebration in one style. The emotions and impressions that remain after the celebration in this way will be remembered for a long time and not only for spouses. This option is suitable for lovers of active events and lovers of improvisation.
The stores sell a large amount of bed linen. You can support the traditions of the ancestors and give linen bedding. This option is suitable for people who like to combine business with pleasure.
You can also buy a beautiful set of scented candles that will delight a couple on long cold evenings. If your husband is romantic, he will appreciate this gift from you.
You can choose the middle option - give a gift from flax, but more practical. For example, a phone case, pillowcase or pillow made of linen into a car.
Options for modern presents
Well, if these options do not suit you, you can give a modern gift that will delight your man.
A fishing lover can be given the appropriate accessories, especially if he shared with you what he dreams about.
A beautiful and stylish office as a gift has not been canceled. It can be a pen or a stylish diary.
You can also give beautiful home pajamas, a bathrobe, and a home suit.
Lovers of baths and saunas will appreciate gift bath sets. Now you can order any embroideries and funny inscriptions. Hats, towels, a set of cosmetics for the bath will be in place.
The motorist will be happy with the accessories for the car, because he probably told me what he wants to buy, but he does not manage to raise money for it. It can be like seat covers, a steering wheel cover, some super-fashioned rugs, a backlight or the same navigator.
If you know your spouse well, and he is an adventurer by nature, then you can go on a romantic trip for the weekend, and he should not speak about the final point of arrival until the last minute. This will significantly revitalize the feelings of young people, breathe new life into their lives of romance. After all, the emotions of a loved one are the most important. And you do not need to spend crazy money and fly to Turkey, for example. You can find a small hotel near your city and settle for a couple of days there. Wander around the new streets, see the sights, chat with new people. In a word, change the situation.
Surprises
For lovers of surprises, gifts with jokes will do. They are both in stores and on online sites. Sellers will advise you on a suitable gift according to your preferences.
Fans of vivid sensations and fun people will find a thematic surprise party with friends. Just imagine: my husband came from work with flowers and is waiting for a classic dinner and a gift. And at home, his wife and their friends are waiting for him, a stylish decoration of the room. And in the style of "New Year", in the style of "witches", like the heroes of your favorite movie. Yes, anything, emotions will definitely roll over.
A good shirt remains a gift classic. Knowing the taste and preferences of the spouse, you can make him a pleasant surprise. This gift would be appropriate if your husband wears shirts.
You can buy a tie if you are well versed in the fashion and tastes of your spouse.
If the husband shared with you that he wanted something in childhood, but could not get it, then it's time to fulfill his dream. As a rule, such gifts cause a storm of emotions. It can be a plane or a helicopter in radio control, a robot, a constructor. So what if he is an adult. Children's dreams should come true, albeit in adulthood. Believe me, this will be one of the most valuable gifts for him.
Well, if you are a passionate couple, you can give your spouse a gift from the "adult store". He will bring new emotions and feelings to your life.
A good gift would be a joint anniversary trip to the restaurant. You can make it a tradition. To see each other in a new way, and not, as usual, in home clothes and in the usual home environment. A new look, new sensations. Surely you will have something to remember about such a celebration, even after years.
The gift should please, and it does not matter what it is, a party, a small sign of attention or an expensive gift. The main thing is joyful emotions of a loved one. Be happy!
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