43 years of marriage: features and ideas for the celebration

Over the years, a husband and wife have to go through many events together: both positive and negative. It is believed that every year the family only grows stronger, passing through trials prepared by fate. That is why from ancient times there is a tradition to celebrate not only round dates, but also every year lived together. How to properly celebrate 43 years of marriage and what to present to parents or friends is covered in this article.

Each year spent in marriage is a time to remind each other of our love, fidelity, sincerity and devotion. On the anniversary of a life together, it is customary to congratulate your partner and accept gifts from friends and relatives. In the people, each year lived together is called differently. If the husband and wife lived together for 43 years, it is time for them to celebrate a flannel wedding. Many people think that flannel is a soft and fragile fabric, which is why 44 years of life promise to be difficult for spouses. However, the point here is different.

Flannel wedding was called so for a reason. It is enough to recall the flannel in appearance and touch - it is a pleasant and soft fabric that can retain heat and “give” pleasant tactile sensations. Flannel products, despite their softness and lightness, are characterized by high wear resistance. It is these characteristics of the fabric that are “superimposed” on a couple who lived side by side for 43 years. During this time, the husband and wife manage to create harmonious relationships.

The anniversary symbolizes the warmth and "softness" that partners managed to keep for many years of cohabitation. 43 years from the date of marriage is a great occasion to be alone with each other, to remember how the birth of feelings began. In the modern world, many couples break up even at the initial stages, which is why the forty-third anniversary cannot be ignored. On this day, you need to show children and grandchildren about the importance of love, mutual understanding and sincerity in family life, setting an example for younger generations.

43 years since the wedding is a date that is not customary to celebrate "on a grand scale." As a rule, this is a family holiday, which the husband and wife celebrate together or in the circle of close and close friends. There are some traditions and customs that are recommended to be observed on this anniversary so that further life is measured, harmonious and happy.

According to tradition, the home for a flannel wedding must be decorated in advance with shreds of fabric. Their number should be equal to the number of years lived together. Some families used to prepare for this day in advance: they sewed napkins from flannel or upholstered the seats of stools with soft cloth. For these purposes, you can use both new material and apply old, cutting out unnecessary flannel clothing.

According to customs, the evening of the anniversary must be spent together, wrapped in a warm blanket. At this time, you can remember a young life, watch your favorite movies and warm each other with warmth.

Not a single anniversary should go without gifts. And the 43th anniversary of the marriage is no exception. Moreover, it is customary to give presents to each other not only to the “newlyweds”, but also to their children, grandchildren and friends invited to the celebration. Many people wonder what gifts should be for a husband and wife. There is no definite answer here. The only thing to remember is it’s best to get the presents you need at home. On this day, useful gifts are most relevant with which spouses can make their home more comfortable.

Mom and dad, who have lived together for 43 years, can give gifts both related to the paraphernalia of the celebration, and “abstract” surprises. Children as a presentation can present several options.

• Various flannel products. It can be warm pajamas, bathrobes, shirts, pants or skirts. You can look at the bedspreads or rugs on the bed, various kitchen accessories: napkins, potholders or coasters for hot dishes.
• Home textiles. It is not necessary that the fabric is flannel. Often, children on holiday give a set of bed linen, curtains, rugs, kitchen or bath towels.
• Products that emit heat. For example, the original present will be an electric fireplace. The stores sell stylish and unusual models that will appeal to any married couple.
• Portraits of the newlyweds painted, mugs, pillows or t-shirts with photo printing.

If finances allow, on the 43rd anniversary, children can offer their parents vouchers for a sanatorium or for a vacation to the sea - this is what older people need. During the rest, they will be able to improve their health and enjoy each other's company. Such a gift will be appreciated by any parent.

Often, on their 43rd anniversary, spouses organize dinner and invite close friends. It is not customary to come to such celebrations empty-handed. It is best to take care of the present in advance. You can present the following gifts:

• various products made from the "soul" with your own hands - it can be a needle plate made of flannel (if the hostess is fond of needlework), a soft photo frame, kitchen napkins, toys, cooked soaps; to make the gift unusual, original and memorable, you need to fantasize, remember the hobbies and preferences of the "culprits" of the celebration and make a present in accordance with them;
• goods that create coziness - this group includes various lighting devices (lamps, sconces, chandeliers), and you can also present aromatic lamps or candles, candlesticks;
• mittens, socks, scarves and other clothes that will warm spouses in the cold season;

• pillows, blankets or rugs;
• handmade sweaters;
• Elite alcoholic drinks.

Important! The above list goes on and on. For a gift to be truly necessary and useful, it is important to study the interests, needs and hobbies of the spouses and make an appropriate gift. It can be a necessary household appliance, a picture, a necessary thing for a garden or a kitchen garden, furniture or decor items.

Many couples celebrate the 43rd anniversary together or in a circle of relatives and mutual friends. You can celebrate such an event both in the restaurant and at home. If the second option is chosen, the room is prepared in advance: they make a drapery out of flannel or various decor items. To emphasize the romantic atmosphere, you can arrange candlesticks and light scented candles. A flannel wedding is not customary to create a lot of noise. It is best to prepare a festive family dinner, drink a glass of wine. On this day, it is customary to look through old photos, tell friends and relatives interesting and romantic stories from your life.

To make the celebration fun, you can come up with various games in advance or arrange a concert with comic numbers. Such an approach will be the best way to combine romanticism, nostalgia, fun and laughter in one holiday.

It is worth noting that today many people prefer to organize photo shoots on anniversaries. This is a great way to capture your emotions on a flannel wedding day.

If the parents are planning a flannel wedding, then you should watch a video that tells about the traditions of this holiday and gifts for the newlyweds.