The first bra for a girl has functional, aesthetic and psychological significance.
In a functional sense, it contributes to the harmonious development of feminine forms. In an aesthetic sense, the first bra helps to perceive yourself as a beautiful growing girl. And in the psychological, it teaches an adult woman to the wardrobe items and teaches the competent use of a new type of lingerie, which will be necessary to apply all my life.
When is it necessary?
Each girl has individual developmental features. One of the earliest age marks for starting to wear a bra is 9 years old. In general, in the interval from 9 to 15 years, most girls are already starting to get used to the new wardrobe item.
Signs that indicate that it is time to buy the first children's bra:
- the girl began to be shy to wear slightly transparent or tight blouses, t-shirts and dresses;
- there was a desire to hold the chest during active movements: running, jumping, etc .;
- there are sensations of swelling, sensitivity, and even a slight soreness when touched;
- uncomfortable sensations appear in the delicate area when wearing clothes made of coarse fabrics;
- the girl began to be embarrassed to change clothes with her parents and peers;
- if you measure the girth under the chest, then it has already reached 65-67 cm
From a medical point of view, a bra is necessary for the forming mammary glands in order to protect against microdamages and injuries. The opinion of doctors is unambiguous - if the chest began to fit in the girl’s hand folded in a boat, then it’s time to update the wardrobe. A well-chosen bra will help harmonious breast formation.
It happens that a teenage girl is initially richly gifted by nature and has at a fairly early age, for example, a third breast size. In this case, wearing a bra is a necessity, as this will help to maintain a beautiful shape and avoid stretching the skin longer.
From a psychological point of view, this is not only a physiological need, but also a certain milestone in the consciousness of a growing child, symbolizing the transition to girlhood. Therefore, psychologists recommend that you pay attention to the girl’s request to start wearing, even if you visually see that there is no such need. In adolescence, public opinion is very important. And if friends and peers already wear the first bras, then next to them the girl will not want to feel her inferiority. In this case, it is also recommended to purchase the first model, albeit a purely "symbolic" one.
Do you know what: A bra owes its origin to a corset. In the 18th century, girls began to wear a corset at the age of seven, which had an extremely negative effect on health. In the mid-19th century, physicians and progressively-minded women who opposed wearing this wardrobe item cut it into upper and lower parts, thereby facilitating the fate of women and adding freedom of movement to them. Among them was the writer George Sand. From the upper part subsequently bras turned out.
Nowadays, underwear does not cause damage to women's health, but, on the contrary, affects it favorably. Nevertheless, there are certain nuances in choosing a bra for a young girl, which should not be neglected.
Features
The main differences between a child model and an adult:
- lack of decorative elements, one way or another designed for seduction;
- lack of habitual bones, only lateral bones can be sewn;
- use for sewing mainly natural materials with a cotton content of at least 70%;
- lack of a rigid, fixing cup.
The colors are mostly reminiscent of either a sporty style, or it's cute, childish colors. Bright and colorful drawings in the form of peas, flowers and berries, bows and stripes are the most common prints. If the bra is made in a monophonic version and somehow reminds the girl of a swimsuit, then it will be easier for her to get used to the new subject of her wardrobe.
We will talk about styles in more detail below in the “Beautiful Models” section.
Preferred fabrics for a young fashionista's bra:
- Microfiber is an elastic, soft material that is as similar as possible to natural fabrics.
- Cotton in its pure form or with a slight addition of breathable polyamide.
- Thick knitwear.
- Breathable viscose is a fabric obtained by processing wood.
- Some types of satin and silk are also suitable.
We also note that at this age, breast size changes quickly, so be prepared to regularly renew your bra. Timely updating will eliminate the possibility of compression of the mammary glands if the model has become already small.
Sizes.
The most common sizes for teenage girls: zero, first, second and third. The size can be determined quite easily using the following algorithm:
- first, while inhaling, we measure the girth of the chest under the breast;
- then, at the most prominent points, the chest circumference is measured with a tape;
- then subtract the first from the second value and remember the difference in centimeters.
The classification of teenage bras is based on this difference. If it is from 10 to 12 cm, then this is considered a zero size and is marked as AA. Accordingly, the difference from 12 to 14 cm is the first size, indicated by one letter A. The difference from 14 to 16 cm - the second size, is marked as B. And if the value is from 16 to 18 cm, then this is the third size indicated on the product by the letter C .
On the label in front of the letters is a number that corresponds to the volume of the body under the chest. That is, a size of 70 AA will mean that the bra is suitable for zero chest size with a chest girth of 70 cm.
If your measurements differ by a couple of centimeters from the standard, then they are rounded up. An adjustable closure on the back will allow you to adjust the size to the size you need.
How to choose the first bra?
If during measurements it turns out that there is still no suitable size for the girl, then in this case a model in the shape of a top is selected that resembles a sports short T-shirt. Supporting cups may be sewn into it. This is a very convenient and functional option for those whose chest circumference is less than 67 centimeters.
It is not recommended to choose a bra without trying on. Firstly, because the shape of the cups from the fabric should ideally repeat the forming forms, which are also constantly changing. It is extremely difficult to determine without careful fitting.
Please note that the bra cup must be fully filled. Options with tight inserts in the cup can be recommended for wearing if the chest has already reached the second size.
Secondly, the girl should like the chosen model in order for the new wardrobe item to be worn with pleasure. Also, the fitting will allow you to see how well the bra sits and how it looks under the clothes in which the young lady walks.
When trying on, also pay attention to the straps:
- they should not slide or, on the contrary, crash into the body, ideally 1-2 fingers should be placed between the strap and the body;
- if you had to tighten the straps too much to make the bra fit perfectly, then this is a negative sign, since the straps quickly stretch, and when worn they will continue to slip;
- preference is best given to wider straps.
The rear jumper with the clasp must not rise when moving. The optimal size is one that allows you to fasten it on the middle hook.
When trying on, after wearing it for at least a minute, there should not be any traces of a bra on the body. It’s good if you opt for a seamless option that has a very beneficial effect on blood supply, without complicating it. Bones in a bra are also undesirable, as they can impede lymph drainage.
It is better to make a purchase between the women's days, when the breast is not enlarged and has its usual shape.
It is also recommended to buy several types of bra at once, so that in the process of everyday wear the girl can determine which option is more comfortable for her and best suits her taste preferences.
Beautiful models.
Soft bras for girls can be in the form of a triangle, top or sports model. A sports bra has a particularly good supporting effect due to the use of special fabric and cut. There are options with low support, with medium and high. For physical education, this option is ideal.
The triangle is most similar to the adult form, but does not have stones and dense inserts in the cup. Top bras look like T-shirts, they are beautiful and very comfortable to wear. This style has a less supportive effect compared to sports models.
Very good seamless patterns or with super-flat seams. They favorably affect blood circulation and lymphatic drainage. A strapless bra is best worn as little as possible. As a replacement, under clothes with bare shoulders, for example, under an elegant dress, bras with transparent straps are perfect.
Brassieres with a front closure are a great option, as they are very well suited for a compact chest size. In addition, they are more convenient to use. Due to the characteristics of the fit, the cup in them is almost perfectly adjacent to the body.
Starting from the second size, a teenage girl can afford to wear a style with dense cups: “Angelica” or a balcony, a closed corbey bra, a style with modifiable straps.
A model with a push-up effect is not recommended not only for physiological reasons, but also for aesthetic ones. At such a tender age, such tricks look absolutely inappropriate. In addition, this can adversely affect the development of the chest due to the inevitable squeezing of blood vessels. But special removable tabs from the fabric are quite acceptable.
How to wear?
Wearing rules for girls:
- the bra is worn for no more than 12 hours, at first it will even be enough to wear it only for sports;
- the bra must be removed at night;
- it is advisable to have several bras and change them every day, since on the second day the bra needs to be given “rest”, replacing it with another.
Seamless styles are ideal for tight-fitting clothing models: knitted T-shirts and shirts, dresses, figure blouses.
It happens that a girl by her very nature already in her teens has a dense physique. In this case, you need to make it a rule to wear bras with wide straps. They evenly distribute the load and weight of the chest, and not the bones, as is commonly believed.
For a girl, it is permissible if a bra in the form of a top is seen through a translucent fabric of a blouse or dress. The only prerequisite is that its color must match the color of the clothes.
Models of classic colors - white, gray, beige and black - must be in the arsenal of the girl. They are designed for everyday wear in educational institutions. But also, in addition to them, there should be a couple of bras in bright colors. These elegant and beautiful, from the point of view of a young lady, things will help her in shaping femininity, allowing her to feel more confident.
Caring for a bra.
In the wash, this wardrobe item can be sent after the third wearing. Hand wash or delicate mode in a washing machine without using machine drying is preferred. For example: “Hand wash”, “Wool”, “Delicate fabrics”. For washing in the machine, special mesh bags are suitable, and for bras with a dense cup - sconces, which are made of plastic and protect the cups from deformation.
If you do not want to wash it by hand, then an ultrasonic machine will be a good option. This is a small device with a wire, which is placed in a basin with linen for 30-40 minutes. A great alternative that will save your efforts and cope with a delicate task perfectly.
Due to certain characteristics of the fabric, of which bras are sewn, they do not tolerate high temperatures, as elasticity is lost and the appearance of the product deteriorates. Therefore, during washing, it is not advisable to set the temperature above 30 degrees. Also, do not dry clothes near heating appliances. The best option is to naturally dry in the open.
For the same reason, the use of bleaches, stain removers and other aggressive detergents is contraindicated. Use better mild detergent.
Washing bras should occur separately from the rest of the clothes. Make sure that underwear is not in the machine along with coarse textured fabrics: jeans, sweatshirts, shirts made of thick material. This can ruin your underwear once and for all.
The same thing happens if you wear rude things on top of your bra when you wear it. In order for your underwear to serve you as long as possible, wear a T-shirt between the sweater and bra. This will protect against premature wear and damage to the appearance of the product.
Pay your utmost attention to teaching all the rules of choosing, wearing and caring for a bra for a girl. After all, this knowledge will be useful to her for life.Do not save on the first bra, teach immediately to pay close attention to underwear. This will form a girl’s love for herself, as a future woman, and will directly affect her self-perception in the future.
And let this process become not only serious for you, but also as positive as possible. Then such an event will be remembered as a pleasant, joyful moment in the life of a teenage girl, and a wonderful trusting relationship will remain between mom and daughter.