Astrologers believe that the compatibility of Virgo and Libra in love and friendship is ambiguous. Representatives of these zodiac signs have common features, but in many ways such people are completely different and very poorly suited to each other. However, if desired, common ground can still be found.
Characteristic
Virgo usually prefers to avoid large crowds, cheerful friendly companies. Representatives of such a zodiac sign tend to choose a home environment, an interesting book. These people strive to sort things out, systematize, organize the world around them. So they feel much calmer and more confident.
The following main features of such people can be distinguished:
- honesty;
- independence;
- organization;
- love of work;
- pedantry;
- propensity to protect things;
- discipline;
- equilibrium.
A negative feature of the representatives of this zodiac sign is the tendency to pay much attention to trifles, to get too hung up on them.
Because of this shortcoming, you can miss many opportunities in your life. Virgos are prone to criticism, and they are almost always sure that it is for the good. So, Virgo strives to improve the person whom she criticizes, but she does not realize at all that it repels, annoys, and only further worsens the situation. Moreover, such people are very sensitive to criticism of others.
As for Libra - usually they are quite indecisive, controversial. Such people are diplomatic, conflict-free.They go to their goals with the help of compromises, concessions, failures are quite philosophical. In some cases, Libra show firmness, stubbornness.
The main features of such a zodiac sign:
- thrift;
- sociability;
- indecision;
- intelligence;
- sophistication, elegance;
- kindness;
- practicality;
- diplomacy.
If necessary and desired, Scales work very well, however, they are very prone to being too lazy, to have more rest. These people are mercilessly and brutally taking revenge, so they should not be offended. They love comfort very much. Failures Libra can endure heavily, often fall into a depressed state, apathy because of them. One of the most unpleasant features of such people is the tendency to shift responsibility to others.
Friendship Compatibility
In this regard, representatives of such zodiac signs are very poorly compatible. The friendly relations between them cannot be called very warm. Libra is characterized by increased sensitivity to harsh remarks of other people, and Virgo are known for their penchant for criticism. For this reason, Libra will very often be offended by them. Virgo exercises in causticity can cause mutual quarrels, offenses.
The Libra guy loves to communicate with other people, he is looking for ease in everything. He will not always agree with the girl Virgo, who sees flaws in everything. As for communication between the Virgo man and the Libra woman, it is very likely that the lady will begin to be offended by a friend, because he will often omit sharp remarks, and for various reasons.
Representatives of this zodiac sign do not see anything wrong in such behavior and criticize without any malicious intent, but Libra is too sensitive for such communication.
The prospect of a love relationship
Between the representatives of such signs of the zodiac, love may well arise, however, it will be quite difficult to maintain. Libra is usually very unhappy with the frequent criticism of the Virgo, their excessive desire for order. Virgo does not like that her partner is indecisive, prone to hesitation, doubt. Representatives of this zodiac sign respect strong-willed, decisive personalities.
The relationship between the girl Virgo and the guy Libra will be pretty good. Such a lady is practical, she will restrain a man's penchant for unnecessary risks. It will be as if to "ground" the chosen one. It is also worth noting that these people are usually quite interested. Both are intellectual, interested in art, culture.
The representative of the zodiac sign Libra will do her best to attract the attention of the charming Virgo. The picky Virgin will be subdued by his sharp mind and wonderful manners. Problems will begin if Virgo criticizes the chosen one too much: the man will think that the lady is trying to remake him. It is possible that after this he will begin to move away. Scales usually do not pay attention to trifles, and for Virgins they are very important.
Such men are usually quite irresponsible, and ladies are prone to pragmatism. They strive to convey this quality to their partner. Understanding it will be very difficult, but possible. Both partners hate vanity, noise and love coziness, comfort. Good surprises for each other, affection and tenderness, touching recognition can lead to good interaction, harmony in romantic relationships.
Between a lady of Libra and a man Virgo relations will not be easy. Such a representative of the fair sex may be unhappy that her chosen one is not passionate enough and romantic. It is possible that she will demonstrate a storm of emotions, which is unlikely to appeal to a calm, restrained man who does not like impulsiveness at all.
If the couple quarrels very often, this can lead to the termination of the relationship. To avoid this, you should control your behavior: this applies to both Virgo and Libra.It is necessary to acknowledge one’s own mistakes, exchange tips (but do not crush), listen to each other, and avoid aggressiveness.
To improve relationships, you will need to become friends, not just lovers.
Are they compatible in sex?
Libra is very fond of everything beautiful, aesthetic: this also applies to sex. They love erotic games, they are very sensual. Maidens cannot be called very temperamental; such women are rarely prone to lengthy preludes. On the contrary, many of them often strive to finish everything early. In bed, such ladies are usually quite constrained, therefore, in terms of sex, Virgo and Libra interact with each other rather poorly: in order to maintain a relationship, everyone in a pair will have to compromise.
Lady Libra is playful and prone to tenderness, aimed at pleasure. In bed with a Virgo man, she can feel quite free, comfortable, even get great pleasure, however, the partner’s incorrect behavior can quickly destroy the whole atmosphere of sensuality and trust. This may be, for example, an inappropriate remark, a stinging look. Something like this can push a girl away, hurt her badly. The woman of Libra really wants her chosen one to idolize, but Virgo can hardly be called an ardent gentleman and romantic.
Virgo is always logical, consistent, and for Libra feelings come first, impulses. This pragmatic lady should try to be free in sex and in the expressions of her emotions, if she wants to keep such an ardent man. You can act like a temptress, a seductress: give your chosen one the opportunity to enjoy the sexual game, do not avoid foreplay. As for Libra, they should not demand from women who have logic in the first place everything at once. Uncover the sensuality of your beloved gradually, and the results will please you. The main thing is patience and more tenderness, affection.
Behavior in family life
In marriage, the Virgin and Libra have a lot of contradictions. From Dev Libra usually lacks attention, affection, because such people are very romantic. Representatives of the earth sign do not understand the desire of the air to be outside the house, communicate a lot. They are much more concerned about the material well-being of the family. An alliance will be good only if both partners fully accept each other's character traits and often compromise.
Between a woman Virgo and a man Libra, the relationship in marriage will be pretty good. In such a pair usually there are no bright passions and violent emotions, but the partners are in fairly good contact with each other.
The lady really likes the tendency of the representative of the stronger sex to justice, she will easily take on the organization of a cozy atmosphere and cleanliness in the house.
The Virgo woman usually gives her husband good advice. She offers him various ideas, points out his shortcomings. However, the husband does not always need advice, he can perceive them as pressure, however, such people rarely show their discontent. A woman needs to try to be delicate, otherwise irritation will begin to accumulate in her chosen one, which sooner or later will cause a serious quarrel. At first he will restrain himself, but he will not be able to do this forever.
Between wife Libra and husband Virgo average compatibility. Usually they solve problems in completely different ways, and for this reason disputes can arise between them. Representatives of the earth sign rarely have difficulty in choosing, most often they are quite decisive, but Libra is prone to fluctuations. The husband prefers to relax at home, in comfort and tranquility, but his wife really likes to spend time with friends. On this basis, conflicts can also arise between them. To avoid quarrels, compromises should be made: to devote the same time to rest together, and communication with other people.
How to win representatives of such zodiac signs?
In the reviews, on the forums, many note that it is very difficult to conquer Libra. Such people do not always behave clearly to others, usually they are entirely in their thoughts. They really need to feel love and care. The partner of such a person must learn to feel his mood without any words. Of course, this usually happens when two people have been together for a long time and know each other very well. It is necessary to praise Libra, to note all their achievements, even to some extent to exalt. So a person will feel your respect, admiration. This will be the first step to a relationship.
Libra needs to be interested in its originality, as well as intelligence, love of art. So they will understand that they can talk to you about their favorite topics. You must have your own interests, friends. Libra is unlikely to interest a person who wants to do only home and family. As for the Maidens - they value elegance, sophistication, erudition. Their partner must be smart. A person who cannot be called intellectual is unlikely to even interest the Virgin, and it will be completely difficult to maintain such a miraculous relationship.
It should also be borne in mind that representatives of such a zodiac sign prefer unobtrusiveness, modesty.
Insolence, familiarity disgust them. For this reason, one should not think that assertiveness will help you subdue the Virgin - on the contrary, she will run away very quickly and in the future will not respond to your signs of attention. Show patience, do not allow rudeness and bad manners (they seem disgusting to both men and women of the Virgin). Demonstrate to a potential partner that you are good at listening: this way you can quickly get it to you.
Possible conflicts
The representative of the earth sign must understand that the person of Libra reacts very sensitively to criticism of his point of view. Conflicts can arise if the Virgo is very sharp, so she should be softer, more delicate. Libra needs to try to spend less time with friends and often be at home, otherwise Virgo will be very unhappy. Of course, all this does not mean that everyone needs to completely suppress their inclinations, but they should be restrained, controlled, and try to compromise. So the partner will understand that you value him, and will also meet them.
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